Ingabe ingane yakho inesikhathi sezinkinga ezingekho izingane? Funda ukuphendula ngokuyiqiniso, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuze umntwana aqonde lokhu noma leyo ncazelo ngengqondo yengane yakhe.
Enye yezinto eziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu futhi, yiqiniso, izinkinga ezingezona izingane, uma uphendula lo mbuzo, umuntu kufanele aqaphele, lo ngumbuzo wokufa. Kulokhu, uma ungaqiniseki ngolwazi lwakho, kungcono ukuvuma ngokuthembeka ingane ukuthi awukwazi impendulo yombuzo wakhe. Ngokuvamile, abantwana bayabuzwa imibuzo enzima kangaka uma bebafakazi bokuzibonela ekufeni kwabathandekayo babo. Abazali abangenangqondo esimweni esinjalo bangaqala ukucabangela izindaba ezithile ezingenangqondo, ngokuthi unogogo wengane ushiye elinye idolobha noma walala ngokushesha. Ukukhohlisa ingane, umane udideke. Umcabango wengane udlula umcabango womuntu omdala izikhathi eziningi, angazicabanga engqondweni ukuthi uNkulunkulu uyazi ukuthi yini. Ingane ayiqondi ukuthi kungani ugogo ehamba futhi engazange amphendule, kungani engambizi futhi engaphuthelwa naye, ngakho uqala ukucabanga ukuthi ugogo wakhe uvele engenalo uthando. Uma ingane ikholelwa endabeni yakho ukuthi ugogo oshonile uvele elele ngokushesha, khona-ke angase aqale ukwesaba ukulala nobusuku. Izazi zengqondo zivame ukusho izibonelo ezinjalo emisebenzini yazo. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukutshela ingane ukuthi uma abantu befa, umphefumulo wabo uya ezulwini, lapho uhle futhi ufudumele. Yiqiniso, ingane ingabacasula kakhulu, yakhala. Kodwa kuzodingeka aqaphele kancane kancane nalokhu ukuthi konke okusemhlabeni kuyadlula, futhi ngisho nomama nobaba bazofa ngolunye usuku. Umsebenzi wakho ukumchaza ukuthi lokhu kuzokwenzeka, kodwa hhayi maduzane, unayo yonke isikhathi eside, ubunzima obuphila ngaphambi kwakho. Njengoba unikezwe ngezinkolelo zakho zenkolo, tshela ingane ukuthi umuntu uqukethe umzimba nomphefumulo. Umzimba wakhe uyafa, kodwa umphefumulo ungunaphakade, emva kokufa komzimba uhamba emoyeni. Izingane kalula futhi ngenjabulo zithola ulwazi olunjalo, zizokhululeka ngokwengeziwe ukwazi ukuthi ugogo oshonile manje usemafwini, futhi akazange alale ngokuzwakalayo ngezizathu ezingaziwa.
Umbuzo wezingane ovame kakhulu, odidliza abazali abaningi - ngangiba njani? Le mibuzo ivame ukubuzwa izingane, kusukela ekuqaleni kweminyaka emithathu. Ukuguqulwa kwalolu daba kuhluke kakhulu: ngivelaphi? UMasha wayenomfowethu, kanjani? Akukho lutho olulukhuni ekuphenduleni lo mbuzo. Umntanakho unelisekile, uma umtshela ukuthi uzalwe yisisu somama. Mtshele indlela inhlanzi eyenziwa ngayo amaqanda, futhi kusukela eqanda - inkukhu. Ikati igqoke inkaba esiswini. Futhi nawe wawugqoke ngaphakathi kwesisu, futhi lapho usuqinile lapho, wawubeletha.
Uma le mpendulo enganele kumcwaningi wakho omncane, angabuza umbuzo ongewona wengane mayelana nokuthi ungaphi lapho engakushaya esiswini. Mphendule kanje: ngaphambi kokufika kumama wakhe esiswini, wayenembewu, ingxenye yayo eyayigcinwa ngumama, kanti enye ingxenye - evela kupapapa. Lapho umama nobaba behlangana, baxhuma ama-halves amabili. Ngengqondo yengane le mpendulo izoba ephelele kakhulu futhi eqondakalayo.
Imibuzo engeyona yezingane mayelana nobulili ivame ukuvela ezinganeni ngesikhathi sisekhulile, kodwa emphakathini wanamuhla ngezinye izikhathi kunzima kakhulu ukuvikela ingane emininingwaneni yengozi mayelana nokuphila okuseduze kwabantu abadala, ngoba ngisho namafilimu wezingane ngezinye izikhathi ahlanganisa izikhathi ezibucayi. Ubusiso obunxushunxushu kanye nemizimba ehambahambayo kubangela ukuphazamiseka kwengane. Ukuze uchaze ingane lokhu kuziphatha kwabantu abadala, mtshele ukuthi lapho indoda endala nowesifazane besithandana, bebonke, bahlala ndawonye futhi balala embhedeni owodwa, benga futhi baxane. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi bangase babe nengane.
Ngokuyisisekelo, ingane ibuza imibuzo eyinkimbinkimbi engeyona ingane mayelana nothando, impilo nokufa. Funda ukwanelisa ilukuluku lwezingane, ngenkathi ungalimazi isimo sakhe sengqondo.