Ngakho ungakhetha kanjani umbala ofanele wezingubo? Yini okufanele ubuke kuqala? Uzizwa ukhululekile kanjani umbala? Ufuna ukuzenza uhlobo luni lomqondo? Ngabe unenjongo yanamuhla?
Wonke owesifazane ozihloniphayo ebhizinisini uyazi ukuthi umbala wezingubo udaba luni. Izimiso eziphakeme zimibala yokubala okumnyama okumnyama nokumhlophe, futhi isimo sezinga eliphansi limibala ekhanyayo, egcwele futhi ehlanzekile (ngaphandle kokumhlophe nomnyama). Kusukela ekubukeni kwesimo sengqondo sobulili, ngaphezu kwanoma yikuphi ukuncintisana, owesifazane obomvu useyindoda yomuntu.
Kusukela kulo mbono, kuyafaneleka ngokuphelele ukukhetha umbala wezingubo ezisekelwe ekuthandweni kwakho. Kungakanani owesifazane ozithandayo umbala okhethiwe. Unikezwe isikhathi nendawo. Futhi nakanjani ukhumbula injongo. Ngalokho okukhethwa kukho umbala.
Noma yimuphi umbala okhethiwe usakaza ulwazi oluningi mayelana nabezindaba.
Ubomvu busebenza, bukhuni. Umbala we-offensive. Umbala womnqobi. Okujabulisayo nokucasulayo. Owesifazane obomvu angabangela imizwelo ehlukene, kodwa akasoze ashiywa ngaphandle kokunakekelwa.
Okuhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ezembathweni zabesifazane ngumbala wethenda, uma uthanda yebo, ungenacala. Le nsizwa enombala oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kodwa iveza ukukhululeka kwe-airy nokuphepha, ngaleyo ndlela idlulisela - Ngidinga ukugcinwa.
Okuphuzi, akungabazeki, umbala ubumnyama, ukuqinisa impilo. Akunandaba nakancane, kepha akukho okuncane okukhangayo. Akusekho ngaphansi kokusebenza okubomvu.
Umbala obomvu uzinzile, ungasho futhi ngokujulile. Kodwa kuyakhaka kakhulu, njengoba imfihlakalo engaqondakali ingadonsela. Ezingubo, okwesibhakabhaka kuyisikhonkwane. Ithuluzi lokuzinza.
Futhi emi lapho esibukweni, owesifazane njengengumphathi wengqondo uxazulula izinkinga eziningana ngokuxazulula into eyodwa, ukuthi yini okufanele agqoke futhi yimuphi umbala wokukhetha izingubo ezifanele.
Izazi zengqondo ziqinisekisa ithonya lombala ekuboneni. Futhi umbala uthatha izinyathelo ezijulile zokuqaphela. Ngakho-ke akufanele yini ukukhetha umbala ezembatho zakho? Ukukhetha okuhle kungabeka umuntu ofanele. Izobamba iqhaza kulokho okulindelekile ekuxoxweni. Futhi ngokuqondene nokuphila komuntu siqu kukhonjelwe ... lapha wonke owesifazane u-intuitively ungumqambi omkhulu.
Uma ungena enhliziyweni yomuntu onemibala, khona-ke i-interlocutor ikubona ukuthi uyalingana, uyakwazi ukuqonda, ngakho-ke ucabanga futhi uqaphele. Futhi inkhulumomphendvulwano iyaqhubeka ngokuvumelana nemithetho yayo ehambisanayo.
Kodwa ungakhohlwa ngomzwelo wakho lapho ukhetha umbala. Umbala othakazelisayo kunazo zonke, njengombuso, ukhululekile ngokwengeziwe ku-sock. Hlola ikhabethe lakho futhi umbuzo wombala oyithandayo uzowa, ngoba impendulo izobonakala.
Amasu angokwengqondo ekhethekile, njengokuhlola kukaLusher, azokutshela okuningi mayelana nobuntu bakho, ngokusekelwe kokuthandayo.
Yini ebusweni bakho okuningi, futhi yini engenzeka futhi enganele ukuvumelana phakathi kwakho nokuphila. Ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukuzithintela noma yini engayinikeza impilo ephelele? Yonke imibala ye-spectrum - unikeza ikhabethe!
Ukuphinda kubomvu, kuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, ukuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka oluhlaza okwesibhakabhakeni, ukusebenta okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Izinkulungwane ze-shades futhi empeleni zinombala omnyama futhi okhanyayo omhlophe. Akuyona nje umbala wezingubo, kungumzwelo owengeziwe.
Vumela impilo yakho ibonakale futhi ifakaze yonke imibala yocingo, vumela imizwa yakho nemizwelo ibe yikhanyane futhi ibe nemibala. Futhi uma lokhu kudingekile kuphela ukwengeza izinto ezikhanyayo kwiklabhudidi ... ilungelo akuyona intengo.
UKsenia Ivanova , ikakhulukazi indawo