Ukwesaba abantu

Uma othile ekwazi indoda engakaze ibalekele izigulane empilweni yakhe, ayizange ithuthumele ngaphambi kokuhlolwa futhi ayizange idangele ukutholakala ukuthi ukuphila kuphelile, ngakho-ke, cishe kwakukhona i-biorobot yokuziqhenya. U-Willy noma ngokuzibandakanya, sonke sikhathazeka ngezikhathi ezithile, sizihlupha, senze iso ngezinye izinto ezincane, nakuba sisuka ohlangothini, mhlawumbe, sithola umbono wekusasa lomshado noma i-Dao-tzu ehlakaniphe kakhulu.

Izazi zengqondo zicabangela ukuzwa ukwesaba ukuthi kube yinto ephelele yengqondo yomuntu. Kodwa bahlukanisa phakathi, ngokukhuluma ngokwesayensi, "umuzwa onembile wengozi," i-phobia kanye ne-mania.

Uma impahla yokuqala yomuntu ingcono kuphela - ngoba ihlakulela ukunakekelwa okunengqondo kuyo, ngakho-ke izinto zesibili neyesithathu ziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu: konke kuncike esikalini sokuphambuka.

Ngokwayo, ukuba khona komuntu womuntu akusho ukuthi lo muntu uhlala edlula futhi yonke indawo. Ake usabe ukushayela izindiza, kodwa ngesibindi uthathe umthwalo lapho abanye behlamba khona. Awuthandi wena ekukhanyeni okukhanyayo ngemuva kwakho, kodwa ezintabeni ezinde zentaba uneminyaka eyi-ac. Indawo ebuthakathaka ye-psyche ihlawuliswa uhlangothi oluqinile lomlingiswa - lokhu kuyinto evamile. Amanye ama-skews asuswe ngempumelelo yi-psychotherapists. Kodwa ngisho nalabo abaqeqeshelwe ukulinganisela ngokomzwelo balahlekelwa yilapho bebona ukuthi bangaki abantu, ikakhulukazi kwentsha, abavela kamuva, ngaphansi kwengcindezi yokwesaba kwabo, okuyinto egeleza isimo sengqondo esinganele. Futhi kunezizathu ezizwakalayo zalokhu.

Izwe lanamuhla ligcwele ukungqubuzana nokuphikisana, jikelele kanye nomuntu siqu. Akuwona wonke umndeni ogcina impilo nenhlalakahle. Futhi akuwona wonke umuntu ongenakho ukukhokhela umuthi. Ngakho akekho indlela engcono kakhulu kunokuba uphume emhubheni wesaba kuze kube lula ukucabanga. Okokuqala, thola ukuthi iyiphi inkinga, futhi lapho imizwelo yakho ikhona.

Ngokuvamile, sonke indawo sibona ukugxeka abanye - futhi thina ngokwethu siqala ukubonakala singaphumeleli, sivilapha, singakwazi ukulawula isimo. Sinekwesaba, siphikisana, noma siwela ekuhlukunyezweni - indlela evamile kakhulu yokuzivikela "Mina". Kodwa uma, ngokuvumelana nesivumelwano esaziwayo somuntu ohlakaniphile, siqala ukwamukela ngokuthula lokho esingenakukuguqula, iziqu zezingxenye zabanye ziba ngaphansi. Egazini elivikelekile, awukwazi ukuphuza igazi: njengoba wazi, amampires athande izinto ezishisayo. Kuwubuwula ukuqonda ukwesaba kwakho njengesibuko sesimo somphefumulo wakho. Uma kungesibuko, siphenduke ngokuphelele.

Futhi ukuzindla kuyo kuqoshiwe. Yimhlekise futhi uyikhohlwe kuze kube phakade. Futhi udale esinye isibuko lapho wena, naphezu kwamaphutha akho amancane (njengokungabikho kubo?), Bheka okuthakazelisayo nokumnandi.

Nje ungazami ukunqanda ukwesaba kwakho ngokuzethemba okungekho - akusizi ngalutho! Akukho ndawo eMhlabeni lapho yonke into ezoba yinto ephelele, wonke umuntu wayezohamba izingubo ezimhlophe kuphela, futhi ukufika okusha kushintshwe mahhala ngezibuko ezimnyama kumhlophe.

Shintsha kabusha ukudideka kwakho, ukuzethemba. Futhi uzobona ukuthi ukwehluleka kwakho akubalulekile uma kuqhathaniswa nezifanele. Wonke umuntu uyisiqeshana somsebenzi, futhi kunjalo nawe! Uyazi okuthile, wazi okungcono kunezinye. Ngokuvamile, bazidumisa ngalokho. (Lalela, futhi mhlawumbe abanye bayakufanelekela lokhu "ukuguqula" ekuhlobaneni nabo, ngokuqinisekile.) Banike ithuba lokuzibonakalisa okungcono kakhulu, futhi uzoba nezifiso eziningi ezinhle.) Ngokuvamile ubuthakathaka bethu nokwesaba kuyisifiso esingenalutho sokungena ebuntwaneni bokuqala , lapho ukuvikelwa nokunakekelwa kuncike kithi ngencazelo, kuphela ngalokho esiyikho. Well ... ebuntwaneni njengengane! Chaza ingane ukuthi izwe elingaphandle kwamasango enkulisa liyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, konke kukhona, kodwa kusekhona okuningi, kodwa kufanele uzame ukuyithola, futhi wena, lapho usakhulile, uzohlala uxhasa "umntwana", uchaze ukuthi yikuphi . Ngezinye izikhathi umuntu akanamandla okumelana naye, ngakho-ke ucindezelekile ngamandla, ugoqe. Indlela enhle kakhulu yokukhulula amandla - amanzi ajwayelekile. Akuyona into yokuthi izinto zokuqala abantu abazinikezela embusweni we-presyncopal ingilazi yamanzi. Phuza amanzi amaningi amaminerali, uthathe ishaja kaningi, uma kungenzeka, ukubhukuda.

Futhi okunye okubhekwayo: ukwesaba kubuye kube uhlobo lomcimbi oqhakazile, isizathu sokusakaza imizwelo. Mhlawumbe iphuzu liwukuthi empilweni yakho akukho ukubonakala okwanele? Thola umsebenzi othakazelisayo, kaningi ube phakathi kwabantu abathandekayo, ukuhamba. Thola idayari bese ubhala konke okubonwayo lapho, bhala konke okukuthinte noma okukuthinte ngendlela enhle (futhi akukho okumele ube namahloni ngakho!). Ukusiza abanye abantu kuyindlela enhle yokuzuza ukuzethemba futhi ubuyekeze kabusha imibono yakho yalokho okuyizinkinga ezincane nokuthi iyiphi inhlekelele yangempela. Ngikholelwa: kunabantu abaningi ababi kakhulu kunawe, futhi akukho lutho, bamba-ngaphandle kwamahlaya nokuthunjwa. Ngomzwelo, iningi lezinkathazo kanye nezinkathazo zethu akuzona izindlovu nezinyosi, kodwa izimpungushe nezinambuzane, ezimbi futhi ezihluphayo. Ukuziqeda ngokuphelele ungeke kwenzeke kunoma ubani. Kodwa ngenxa yalezi zindlela ezincane ezingcolile, ukuguqula iminyaka yabo engcono kakhulu? Ngeke balinde!