Abantu abakhulu bathi ukuqala kweqiniso komuntu kubonakala uma engenakho okumele akwenze. Ngakho-ke yiyiphi inkinga yiningi lethu?
Ukuchitha isikhathi ku-cafe, ibha, indawo yokudlela kuyindlela ejwayelekile kunazo zonke yokuphumula, ngakho-ke ukusho ukuphumula kwe-gastronomic. Abantu bazama ukudala umkhathi ocolile ngosizo lokudla okungajwayelekile nokuphuza utshwala. Le ndlela isivele isiko elihle, futhi lokhu, ngokuyinhloko, akukubi.
Kodwa yini engaba yizinto ezihlukahlukene zokuzilibazisa kwethu?
Ososayensi baye basungula ukuthi "ukunambitheka kokuphila" kungachazwa ngomzamo wokuqonda okutsha, okuvuselela izithakazelo zabathengi.
Isikhathi samahhala singaba futhi akudingekile kuphela ukuzuzwa kwesisu, kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo.
Kunezindlela eziningana zokusebenzisa isikhathi sakho samahhala, isibonelo, imfundo. Kungasetshenziswa ukutadisha ulimi, uma uthola ulwazi olusha kuyisithakazelo esimnandi kakhulu, lapho uthola khona injabulo yangempela ekuzwa ukuthi uchithe isikhathi sakho sokuphumula ngenzuzo.
Ungazenzela uhlelo lwamasiko oluthandayo, imibukiso ehambelayo, iminyuziyamu, ama-cinema, amakhonsathi. Lolu hlobo lokuzilibazisa luzokulethela injabulo enkulu futhi lucebise ngolwazi olusha.
Ungathola ukuzilibazisa okuthakazelisayo komphefumulo wakho, kungaba yinto: ukudansa, izinkondlo zokubhala, umculo, konke okukuthokozisa ngempela.
Ukuphumula emvelweni, yedwa ngemiphefumulo yakho, uyancipha kakhulu futhi uletha imicabango ngendlela. Ukuphumula okunjalo kugcwalisa amandla isikhathi eside ngaphambi.
Ukuxhumana nabafowethu abancane, lokhu kungenye yezinhlobo zokuzilibazisa, ngoba izilwane zethu ezithandekayo zinganqanda ukucindezeleka.
Ngokwemvelo, ungachitha isikhathi uhamba wodwa, imali izosetshenziswa kakhulu, futhi ukujabulela ukuhamba ngeke kube mncane.
Kukhona into eyodwa kodwa ekuphumuleni okuzimele, lapha into eyinhloko akufanele ikhukhumezeke, ngoba kukhona ingozi yokukhulelwa ekhaya nokulutha, ngokumnandi, utshwala. Nakuba umphumela onjalo ongajabulisi ungaba nabangane abahle - ama-comrades, kubalulekile ukuba nekhanda emahlombe akho bese uzilawula.
Abantu abaningi abakwazi ukucabanga ngeholide labo ngaphandle kwemimoya. Ngamaholide sivame ukuhlobisa idili ngezidakamizwa ezihlukahlukene, futhi sibona kule ndlela kuphela indlela efanele yokuphumula. Eqinisweni, utshwala aluphumuli, kodwa lukhululekile, lushiya umuzwa wokukhathala nokukhungatheka okuphelele.
Manje, emcimbini we "isiko" lokuphumula, utshwala buba nesimo esiqinile. Abaningi bethu abamele umhlangano nabangani noma baya ebhola (ikhonsathi) ngaphandle kokuphuza utshwala.
Naphezu kokwaziswa okubanzi kakhulu mayelana nokulimala kotshwala, ukuphuza, njengendlela yokuphumula, kuyaqhubeka nokuqhutshwa. Kulesi simo, ukusetshenziswa kotshwala okwenzakalayo kudla umzimba, futhi akunikezi izidakamizwa ezingokomzimba noma ngokomzwelo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukuphuza utshwala njalo kuholela esibhedlela ezifana nokudakwa ngokweqile. Umzimba usetshenziselwa lolu hlobo lokuphumuza futhi umuntu akayeke ukuba nesithakazelo kunoma iyiphi injabulo, ezinye izinjabulo, ngisho nangezocansi, azijabulisi kuye. Ukwelashwa kokudakwa ngokweqile kunzima kakhulu, njengoba kuncike ekuthembekeni kwengqondo okuqhubekayo kotshwala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, emva kweholide elinjalo elibucayi, kunzima kakhulu ukuhlangana nemicabango namandla ukuze uqale ukusebenza izinsuku zamasonto. Kufanele nje uzibophezele ukuya emsebenzini.
Ngokuphambene nalokho, kunikezwa isikhathi samahhala kumuntu ukubuyisela amandla ekuthuthukiseni ngokomoya nangokwenyama. Izazi zengqondo zinikeza lo mqondo incazelo yazo - ukuzithokozisa, lesi yisikhathi umuntu adinga ukukhulumisana ngobungane, imfundo, ukusebenza kwemisebenzi yomphakathi, ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo, ukudlala mahhala kwamandla emvelo nangokwenyama.
Yiqiniso, nguwe kuphela onganquma ukuthi ungasebenzisa kanjani isikhathi sokuzilibazisa ngenzuzo, yedwa noma enhlanganweni yabantu abalungile. Kuningi kuxhomeke kulohlobo luni lomsebenzi onalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi luxhunyaniswe nokuxhumana okuqhubekayo noma luhle kakhulu futhi lubangele. Kungukuthi uchitha kanjani amahora akho okusebenza, phakathi kwabantu noma uhlezi endaweni eyodwa futhi uxoxisana kuphela namaphepha kanye nekhompyutha, kuxhomeke ekufisweni kokuchitha iholidi lakho (ikhefu) yedwa noma nomunye umuntu.
Isibonelo, ungumuntu omncane futhi onenjongo, futhi wazi kahle ukuthi yini oyifunayo ekuphileni, usuku lwakho luhanjiswa ngokwemaminithi, isikhathi esincane samahhala. Kodwa isifiso sokuthuthukisa nokufunda okuthile okusha sisesekhona? Emva kwakho konke, ungakwazi ngisho nokuzithuthukisa ngesikhathi sokuphumula. Ungamema abangani bakho ukuthi badlale ibhola, i-paintball noma omunye umdlalo osebenzayo, noma ngabe ukhona kuwo, isikhathi ngeke sichitheke futhi ulwandle olubonakala ngokucacile luqinisekiswa kuwe. Ukuphumula okusebenzayo kuyisinqumo esiphelele kunoma yimuphi ubudala.
Mhlawumbe ibhola angekho kuwe, khona-ke ungajoyina ubuciko bomculo. Umculo uyinhlangano eningi kunazo zonke zobuciko, uma wake waphupha ngokufunda ukudlala isiginci, upiyano noma ama-bass amabili, ngakho-ke? Amaphupho agcwaliseka, kungumzamo omncane nje. Ungathola izifundo eziningana ezivela kumngane ongadlala isiginci, noma ngisho nge-Intanethi. Ngenhlanhla, kunezingosi ezikhethekile ezikufundisayo ukuhlunga izinketho. Ukufunda ukudlala isiginci, ungaba kalula umphefumulo kwanoma yimuphi inkampani kunoma iyiphi ipikikiki. Kupholile ukuhlala ngomlilo bese uhlabelela ingoma eqotho.
Saphinda sabuyela eqinisweni lokuthi enkampanini yokuchitha ezokungcebeleka ezithakazelisayo. Kodwa asingakhohlwa ukuthi wonke umuntu kufanele azizinikele ekuphumuleni komuntu ngamunye ukuze athole amandla. Uma ukhetha ukuzinza izinkampani ezinomsindo, yenza okuthile okudala, isibonelo, ukudweba. Ukudweba kuyithuba lokubonisa lokho okubonayo. Akunandaba ukuthi siyibonisa kanjani, ngohlobo, ikhanda noma impilo. Futhi akudingekile ukuba ube nekhono elifana noPicasso, into eyinhloko ukuvula inhliziyo entsha, ukuphonsa imizwelo
Into eyinhloko akufanele uzizwe ukwesaba ukuqala okusha, futhi udinga ukuphumula ngomphefumulo wakho! Yiba nokuphumula ngenzuzo kanye nenjabulo!