Konke lokhu kungase kubonakale kuncane kumuntu, kodwa ukunqoba kwezinkimbinkimbi kuyinkinga enkulu empilweni, engabangela ukuthembela okunamandla embonweni womunye umuntu. Yilokho okuholela ekuhlulekeni ukwenza izinqumo, ngaphandle kokubonisana nabanye, kuyohlale kubonakala sengathi izithakazelo zabanye abantu zibaluleke kakhulu kunabo, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, isifiso esiqhubekayo sokuvunyelwa yibo bonke, futhi lokhu kungaba kokubili abantu abaseduze nabantu abangaphandle ngokuphelele. Ukuphila nezinkimbinkimbi ezingapheli kunzima kakhulu.
Noma ake sithathe umhawu: bonke bafa futhi bagcwele umcabango wokuthi ingxenye yesibili ngokuqinisekile izothola umuntu ongcono, ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala kubo ukuthi ama-satellites afuna ngenhloso le ndawo esikhundleni esihle.
Kumelwe ngithi abesifazane basuke bejwayele ukuhlaselwa ngokugxekwa futhi ngenxa yalokho, ukubonakala kokungaqiniseki kubo, kodwa futhi amadoda ayenesandulela ngculaza ngoba angenalo igciwane lesandulela ngculaza kule gciwane. Ukunqoba kunqotshwa ukwesaba, futhi kuthatha ukungabi nokuqiniseka.
Ubhubhane lwezinkimbinkimbi, lena yindlela kuphela yokubiza le nkinga, bonke abantu bayathandana nalesi sifo, futhi lokhu kuba umjikelezo wangempela, amadoda ahlambalaza abesifazane, abesifazane besilisa ngisho nezingane zethu zifunda ukushaya ababoshiwe ngendlela ebuhlungu ngangokunokwenzeka.
Indlela yokubalekela kulolu buhlungu, ngoba ngokubona kwalo isizwe nje asikwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi uphephile ngokwengqondo. Futhi konke lokhu kungaholela ezinkingeni ezinkulu kakhulu, ngoba kaningi abantu abanezinkathazo bahlukumezekile futhi bakhipha intukuthelo yabo hhayi nje ngokuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi.
Zifundise ukuthi ungaqapheli ukugxeka okuvamile, noma ukunikezela okusanhlamvu okusanhlamvu bese uzama ukushintsha okuthile kuwe, kodwa qhubeka uzizethemba !!
UKsenia Ivanova , ikakhulukazi indawo