Into ebaluleke kakhulu okumele uyikhumbule ukuthi leli holide likhulu kuwe, abazali, hhayi ngomntwana. Yiqiniso, umuntu wakhe kufanele acatshangwe, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuqonda - imibuthano enomsindo, izinkampani ezinobungane kanye namaholide "amahle" eziteshini zezingane zonyaka ongathandeki.
Yini ongayicabangela? Qinisekisa ukwakha isimo semilingo nokuthakazelisa - vumela ingane kusukela esemncane, usuku lokuzalwa luhlotshaniswa neholidi. Vuka ekuseni bese uhlala eduze kwama-balloons efulethini, ama-garlands kanye nama-posters amahle. Vumela ingane ngalolu suku ukuba ibuyele emithethweni futhi ibe nemiphumela engaphezu kokujwayelekile. Khetha umculo - kungcono kakhulu uma kuyintandokazi yazo zonke izingoma ezivela ku-kathathu. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, qiniseka ukuthi izinga elizwakalayo alidluli umbundu othile - uma ingane, ezama ukukwabelana nawe imizwelo yakhe, kuzodingeka ikhanda - ingase ibe nokwesaba okukhulu futhi igxile.
Uma kunokwenzeka, mangala ukuvuswa. Okumnandi, futhi uma kukhona intandokazi, umculo, amathoyizi ozithandayo embhedeni - njengokungathi uza ukuhalalisela, ukuhlobisa isikhalazo (okuwukuphela kwalokhu okudingeka ukwenze kusengaphambili - ngisho nasebusuku). Zama ukuhlala eceleni futhi ubuke umzuzu lapho umntwana evuleka amehlo akhe - isipho esingcono kunazo zonke ukuze uqale usuku ngokumomotheka nokumanga kukaMama.
Vumela umsunguli we-identity ukuthi azimele. Mnike ilungelo lokukhetha ingubo. Yiqiniso, ungakwazi ukubeka izinketho ezimbalwa ezithandekayo kuwe, kodwa uma ingane ingathandi lutho - ungayilinganisi ekukhethweni. Uma umgubhi womkhosi efuna ukuthatha ingxenye esebenzayo emalungiselelweni - mnike imisebenzi embalwa, ngakho uzogcizelela ukuthi usuvele esekhulile ngokwanele futhi leli liholide lakhe.
Ukumboza itafula, khumbula ukunamathela ezimisweni ezimbili - enempilo futhi enhle. Ukudla kufanele kube nokuphilile futhi kunempilo, uma ufuna isoseji noma into, zama ukubeka izitsha endaweni yokufinyelela yengane. Izaladi zokuhlobisa nezitsha eziyinhloko zizosiza imifino emifushane futhi evamile, ihlolwe ngokomfanekiso. Manje kwi-intanethi ungathola izindlela eziningi ezithakazelisayo - ama-saladi njengama-volcano, amazambane ahlambulukile nenyama njengolwandle olwandle olunemikhumbi yama-pirate, ama-sandwich ngesimo sezilwane, izitshalo nokunye okuningi.
Imemori ephawulekayo futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo umhlobiso wegumbi - amaphosta namaphephandaba odonga. Omunye wemibono ethakazelisayo kakhulu uhamba nje phakathi kwabazali - umuthi wofuzo lomfana wokuzalwa - uqobo uyisipho somuntu ngamunye. Kukhona egatsheni ngalinye kunesihlobo futhi isithombe sinamathiselwe. Ngisho neminyaka eminingi kamuva, ukukhipha lo maphosta kusuka emaceleni emfihlo, ingane yakho iyajabula futhi ingase imangale nokuyifunda.
Enkumbulweni, kuhle futhi ukukhipha izintendeni nezinyawo zentombazane encane. Lokhu kungenziwa ngokuxhumana nezinkampani ezikhethekile, nangokuthenga isethi "yenzeni ngokwakho" futhi ngokuzimela wenze zonke izindlela.
Abazali abaningi bethisa izingane ngonyaka, i-nalyso, kukholakala ukuthi lokhu kunomthelela ekukhuleni kwezinwele ezisebenzayo nakakhulu. Futhi uma unentombazane, futhi unama-curls amahle, ngisho nonyaka? Khona-ke ungakwazi nje ukunquma ngokucophelela umcibisholo owodwa bese uwufihla esimweni esikhethekile senkumbulo.
Isipho esihle kunazo zonke singaba umlando wonyaka wokuqala wokuphila. Uhlobo luni kumzali ngamunye ukuzikhethela yena. Inguqulo elula ama-albhamu "Ngazalelwa / ngazalwa" futhi "Ngonyaka wokuqala". Basivumela ukuba sibhale ngokucophelela zonke izinguquko ezibalulekile, ngokusho kwabahleli, nosana. Ukukhula, isisindo, lapho kuqala okokuqala futhi wonke amazinyo aphuma, amagama okuqala, azama ukuvuka nokuhamba. Konke lokhu kuhambisane namafasitela wezithombe nemigqa yencazelo. Ngandlela-thile, abazali bethu benze okufanayo, kodwa ke kwakungekho ama-albhamu akhethekile futhi babhala konke lokhu ngokwabo ezincwadini nezincwadi.
Izipho kufanele zikhethwe ngokucophelela, kungcono ukweluleka izivakashi ezihlangabezana nezidingo nezidingo zengane kule minyaka. Kungaba izinto ezilula zokuzijabulisa - izihlalo zabakhubazekile, izimoto, amathoyizi athambile. Ngakho-ke kuthuthukisa imidlalo - umculo womugqa, abaqambi, ama-cubes, izincwadi nokunye okuningi.
Uma ukamema izivakashi, khetha labo bantu abajwayele ingane, abavame ukubona, futhi ngeke besabe. Inani labantu abadala lilinganiselwe kangcono - abantu abayisihlanu noma ayisithupha bangaphezu kokwanele ukudala isimo seholide engavamile.
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungalungiselela kanjani usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana oneminyaka eyodwa ubudala, zama ukukwenza iholidi idili elijwayelekile futhi izivakashi zikhumbula umsunguli womkhosi. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukuza nemincintiswano nezizabelo. Ijaji, Yebo, kudingeka ukhethe umfana wokuzalwa. Kungenzeka ukwenza umjikelezo wemincintiswano ngokuqagela izintandokazi - ukuthi uthanda ukudla, okumele ukwenze, ithoyizi lakhe eliyintandokazi, igama lakhe eliyintandokazi nokunye, umsunguli womkhosi. Ngokuvamile ngezimpendulo, ngoba akekho owaziyo umcebo wakho, kusukela kuwe. Ukuncintisana komdwebo omuhle, vumela ukuthatha futhi kuthathe ingxenye futhi uzizwe ukubandakanyeka kwayo ekujabuliseni jikelele.
Kuye ngenkathi, ungahlela imicimbi encane emgwaqeni. Ebusika - ungenza izibhamu, usebenzise izibani zaseBengal bese ufafaza izinyoka, nemidlalo yangaphandle eqhweni iyosiza ingane ukuba iphumule endlini. Ehlobo kuhle kakhulu ukukhulula izibani ezikhethekile noma amabhaluni avamile emoyeni.
Ngesikhathi seholidi, ngezikhathi ezithile vumela ukuxoshwa kuphumule esixukwini - hamba naye ekamelweni elilodwa - ngakho uzokwabelana nawe, oye waqoqa okubonakalayo kancane kancane, futhi ngeke akhulume ngokweqile. Ukuze angazizwa ejeziswe noma ecasulwe ngesikhathi esifanayo, ungambiza ngokuziqhenya ukukusiza ngento ethile.
Isikhathi sokuthatha izithombe sibaluleke kakhulu. Sonke sifuna ukuthatha usuku olunjalo olubalulekile empilweni yezingane zethu, kodwa ukuthi yini okufanele yenze uma ingane ingathandi ukuthatha izithombe bese ibalekela, ingaboni ikhamera. Esimweni esinjalo, zama ukuthatha izithombe ezingabonakali uma kukhona okumele kuthathwe. Ungazami ukwenza uhlelo olukhulu kakhulu noma ukufuna ukumomotheka. Kungcono ukuvumela izithombe zijabule futhi zivelele kunokuba zonakalise ingane ngedili elibi.
Futhi ekugcineni ngizosho - into ebaluleke kakhulu akuyona indlela osebenzisa ngayo lolu suku, ukuthi yini ophekayo, ozofika - into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi lolu suku luzojabulisa, lujabule futhi lujabule ngane yakho nakuwe. Futhi ukuthi wenza kanjani ngeke kube nandaba nhlobo.