Ngakho, wena, once, wazibuza ukuthi ungamkhohlisa kanjani umyeni wakhe ukuba ayeke ukuphuza. Wabuya futhi evela kubangani noma umakhelwane ophuzile futhi waphinde wabhekana naye. Ziqonde ngokwakho ngokucacile nangokucacile ukuthi awunina, kodwa umkakhe, futhi uqine ngesibindi ukukhathazeka komyeni wakhe.
Okokuqala, ukuphoqa umyeni wakhe ukuba ayeke ukuphuza, udinga ukuyeka utshwala bese utshela umyeni wakho ukuthi unomthetho owomile emndenini wakho. Noma yikuphi ukuzitholela kwakho kuwe kanye naye, ngisho noma kwenzeka ngamaholide amahle, kuzokwenza kuphela kumyeni wakho, njenge-red rag ngenkunzi, futhi nakanjani ngeke ukwazi ukukwenza umyeni wakho ayeke ukuphuza.
Indlela yokukhohlisa umyeni wakhe ukuba ayeke ukuphuza, uma eseke wawela phansi futhi akafuni ukuholela impilo ephelele - lokhu kuyimbuzo engokomqondo yabesifazane baseRashiya. Ezweni kunezindlela eziningi ezinhle nezindlela zokuqinisekisa ukuthi umyeni wakhe ayeke ukuphuza utshwala. Futhi-ke, uthi, uthola impendulo yombuzo wokuthi ungamkhohlisa kanjani umyeni wakhe ukuba ayeke ukuphuza, futhi okwesikhashana wanquma ukuyeka ukuphuza. Kuthatha inyanga noma ezimbili futhi ngokuzumayo umyeni wakho uqala ukuphuza futhi ngeke ahlanganise nale mkhuba omubi. Futhi isizathu sokuziphatha kwakhe kungaba yinto eyodwa kuphela: uma ulawula ukukholisa umyeni wakho ukuba ayeke ukuphuza, ngeke nje enze lutho, Ngeke azi ukuthi benzeni ngesikhathi sokuphila okunengqondo. Abangane, abangane bokuphuza bayomfulathela kuye, futhi yena, ongakwazi ukumelana nokuhlaselwa komphakathi, uzoqala ukuphuza futhi. Futhi amadoda, omkakho owakwazi ukukhohlisa ukuba ayeke ukuphuza, angashintsha kakhulu uhlamvu lwakhe kangcono noma olubi kakhulu. Abantu abanesihlobo esingabaqinisekisa ukuba bayeke ukuphuza utshwala, njengoba izibalo zibonisa, ngokuvamile zifuna indawo esikhundleni esishisayo emsebenzini othile. Isibonelo, oshade naye, owakwazi ukukhohlisa ukuyeka ukuphuza, ungazitholela ekuqoqeni izitembu, futhi, mhlawumbe, uzobe ekhononda futhi ekhononda ngakho konke. Lapha, njengoba bethi, isiphetho asibikezeli izipho. Uma nje ungenza umyeni wakho aqinisekise ukuyeka ukuphuza, kuzodingeka uhambe nalesi sifo esinzima "umyeni osanda kuzalwa." Ngendlela, uzosizwa ukunyakaza okunjalo kwengqondo ukuxazulula inkinga yakho, indlela yokukhohlisa umyeni wakho ukuba ayeke ukuphuza - into yokuzilibazisa entsha noma imigomo ongayibonakalisa kuyo. Mphakamise ukuthi anike isikhathi esiningi ebhizinisini lakhe elithandayo noma okuzilibazisa, khona-ke umyeni wakhe uyoba nethuba elincane lokudakwa. Indlela yokukhohlisa umyeni wakhe ukuba ayeke ukuphuza, uma wena kuphela, oshade naye, uzama ukumphoqelela ukuba akwenze. Khumbula, akukho okuzofika kuyo kuze kube yilapho efuna ushintsho empilweni. Zama ukuthola imigomo yakhe engakhuthaza umyeni wakhe ukuba ayeke ukuphuza. Ukuphikelela emcabangweni womyeni ukuthi ukwenqaba ukudakwa akusiyo ukuphela kwezwe, kodwa ukuqala kokukhanya okusha nokuphila okugcwele, lapho kungekho ndawo yesikhumba.
Indlela yokukhohlisa umyeni wakhe ukuba ayeke ukuphuza, uma engenathemba ezicelo zakho. Nawa amanye amathiphu enothi ukuze ukhombise utshwala ukuyeka ukuphuza. 1. Qiniseka ngaphakathi emoyeni nangobunjwa. Ngikholelwa, uyaqaphela kakhulu indlela enjalo. Futhi, mhlawumbe, umbuzo wokuthi ungamkhohlisa kanjani umyeni wakhe ukuba ayeke ukuphuza uzoxazululwa ngokwayo. Uma ezwa into engalungile, uzobuya emafwini aye ezweni elithembisiwe lomndeni noma, noma kunjalo, ucabange ngaye ngokuziphatha kwakho. 2. Susa kuye futhi ubonise ubulili nokuheha, ungazivumeli. Ungaguki ngamadolo akho ukuze uqinisekise umyeni wakho ukuthi ayeke ukuphuza. Ungacabangi ukuthi ungamkhohlisa kanjani umyeni wakhe ukuba ayeke ukuphuza, kodwa kubalulekile ukuxazulula le nkinga ngekhadikhadi: ukuqonda okubuthakathaka kotshwala oludakayo kanye nomshushisi. Zizinakekele kuqala, futhi hhayi ngakho. 3. Endabeni yokungathembeki emtholampilo womyeni, sebenzisa izinyathelo ezifana nalezi: - ukuyeka ukuhlukumezeka nxazonke zendlu; hlamba, upheke, uxoxe naye lapho ephuzile. - bangela umhawu. Lapha kufanele uqaphele. - sengathi sengathi uyisikebhe esifalayo futhi ususa abangane bomngane wakhe endlini. - Uma kunethuba lokususa ama-antics odakiwe womyeni ekhamera, bese ulisebenzisa. Ngikholelwa, ngaphansi kokusongelwa komphakathi kweziphathamandla ezihlotsheni uzokwazi ukukholisa umyeni wakho ukuthi ayeke ukuphuza. - Ukuthi uma engabophi, khona-ke isehlukaniso asikude - uma siqala ukuhlukumezeka, khona-ke amaphoyisa azoyidambisa. - uma i "squirrel" (i-white fever) ikhambela kuye emphefumulweni, bese uyiphatha esibhedlela sengqondo. Ukusuka lapho uyobuya ngokuqinisekile kubamnene futhi angaphuzi. Ngakho-ke, othandekayo wami, impumelelo kuwe kule ndaba enzima nokuthi ungamkhohlisa kanjani umyeni wakhe ukuba ayeke ukuphuza. Ngithemba ukuthi uzophumelela.
