Ngeke ukholwe, kodwa izazi zengqondo zithi: ubuvila yikhwalithi yomuntu onengqondo nokudala. Kunezinhlobo ezimbili zabantu. Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi ukuhlala kahle ukusebenza kanzima, kuyilapho abanye behluleka ukumelana nomsebenzi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bakuthola kunzima ukwenza konke abangafuni ukukwenza. Owokuqala abe nesikhathi esiningi kunesibili, kodwa izinga lokuphila kwawo liphansi. Ngoba ngenxa yamarekhodi abasebenzi abakhokha ngokuthula kwengqondo, impilo, ubudlelwane nezihlobo. Ngakho ngangifuna ukusho amagama ambalwa mayelana nobuvila obuwusizo. Phela, konke okudingekayo ngezinye izikhathi ukuze uthole injabulo - i-pofilonov ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ...
Usuku lobuvila.
Yiqiniso, akuwona wonke ubuvila obuwusizo obufanayo. Uma uzwa ukuthi akukubi ukuba uvila, akusho ukuthi kufanele ushintshe masinyane ama-pajamas bese ubukela "Hlala uphila" usuku lonke, udla izikhumba ngokukhathazeka ngekusasa lamaqhawe (leso sikhathi sokuphumula singasetshenziswa okungaphezu kodwa ngonyaka ). Ubuvila obuhle yilokho okukusindisa ekucindezelekeni okungenakwenzeka ukuthi kuhlanganiswe: kufanele ulandele njalo iziyalezo zomuntu nesinyathelo emqaleni wakho ezidingo zakho siqu kulo lonke isonto elisebenzayo. Ukuze ungazitholi amandla, udinga ukuphumula - njengoba uthanda wena.
Abantu banikeza imali eningi ukuze baqhubekele "enhle kakhulu", futhi, eqinisweni, abakhokhi ithikithi lomoya. Iqiniso liwukuthi amabhishi angaphandle kwezilwandle ahlanganiswa nethuba lokungenzi lutho - ungazipheki wena kanye nesidlo sakho sezintandokazi, bese udla esitolo sokudlela, shintsha i-suti ebophayo yehhovisi ukuze uthole i-sundress enemibalabala, iqhwa emagqumeni, ukhohlwe ngemibuthano edingekayo engamashumi amabili nanhlanu echibini. Kodwa ubani ovimbela ukwenza into enjengale ekhaya? Thatha umgomo wokuzihlela njalo "ukukhulula izinsuku" futhi wenze kuphela okufunayo. Ngakho-ke, ngeke nje ukwazi ukuphumula kancane futhi unciphise ukucindezeleka - uzofaka futhi izinhlamvu zemali ezincane zemali esithombeni somcebo wenjabulo yakho. Phela, umgodi ubuhle kakhulu ukuba ube intombazane embi, owabalekela kuzo zonke izindaba zakhe zomdala nemisebenzi yakhe.
The Fast and the Furious.
Ebudlelwaneni, kuhlale kunjalo njengawe: kubonakala sengathi kuyoba kuhle kakhulu emva kwalokho - uma imali yama Maldives izovela; lapho ekugcineni ekutholeni lokhu kukhula futhi kuphenduke umuntu ojwayelekile; lapho unina eyokuyeka ukukubona njengesilwane esiyingozi ... Kulindeleke lokhu "ke" ungaphila iminyaka, ungaboni yonke into enhle manje etholakalayo.
Ngothando, sivame ukusebenzisa izimo zomsebenzi - setha umgomo bese uya kuwo. Kodwa kukhona umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwenkonzo kanye nobuhlobo phakathi kwababini. Ukuba yinhloko yenkampani kuyathandeka ngempela kunomqhubi womkopishi, kokubili ngokwemisebenzi, nangokwemali yomholo. Kodwa othandweni akukho okuthunyelwe. Kunezigaba kuphela - ubuhlobo, ukuphila okuhlangene, umndeni - futhi zilingana ngokuphelele. Lokhu kungukuthi, ungajabula kakhulu, ngokuba "intombi yakhe" nje, futhi hhayi ukuzama ubuhlungu ukuba "umkakhe", bese uphumule futhi uqale ukuzijabulisa.
Ngakho-ke yeka ukuxosha ubuhlobo bakho ngaphansi kokubekwa yi-cinema ne-TV. Ukuze ulungise isidlo esiphundu ngezandla ezine, akunakulungeli ukuthi uthathe isigaba samakhono kusuka kumpheki "Ritz". Ngezocansi okufanayo. Ekuphishekeleni i-orgasm, ungakwazi, njengomoya we-greyhound, ujikeleze enkundleni, uzame ukubamba i-hare mechanical. Futhi ngenkathi ungajabuli umsebenzi womzimba wakho, ungazizwa umoya, ungayithokozi inkululeko yokugijima. Ngoba kukhona iNjongo. Uma uzama ukuba ngowesifazane owanelisayo kakhulu emhlabeni, ungakwazi ukweqa zonke izinto ezimnandi ezikhona ekwenzeni uthando. Funda ukujabulela inqubo.
Ukukhululeka kokuba.
Uma abantu bebengabesivila, mhlawumbe babezokwakha imizi ngokusebenzisa amasu aseGibhithe lasendulo nama-Aztec: ama-kilogram ayisihlanu wamatshe e-scruff entanyeni nasendleleni eya endaweni yokwakhiwa. Ukungazimisele ukwenza umsebenzi ongadingekile (futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nanoma yimuphi umsebenzi) kudala isifiso sokufuna izixazululo ezingajwayelekile. Ngakho-ke inkulumo yokuthi ubuvila yinjini yentuthuko ayikho isisekelo nhlobo. Zahlulela ngokwakho: kwakuyivila futhi ivila, i-oven microwave, isilawuli esilawuliwe kude, kwakhiwa isomisi sezinwele. Manje zonke lezi zimangaliso zobuchwepheshe zigcina amandla ethu nesikhathi sethu, esingasetshenziswa kwenye into emnandi kakhulu.
"Ngiyivila!" - uma ucabanga ngakho, kuyisisusa esikhulu. Akuyona imfihlo abesifazane abaningi abathanda ukuhlanzeka, kuyilapho bezonda ngokuthula. Futhi abanye babo baxazulule le nkinga ngakho - thola umsebenzi ukuthenga umshini wokuhlanza umshini wokuhlanza. Futhi ngemuva konyaka bathola ukukhuthazwa futhi baqashe umgcini wezindlu. Esikhathini sabo samahhala emsebenzini wesikole, bathola okukhethekile okuthembisayo, okwenza kube lula ukucabanga: eminyakeni embalwa bayokwazi ukukhokhela umpheki wabo. Awukwazi ukumelana nomsindo we-pots, noma!
Mina nobuvi bami.
Kusukela ebuntwaneni, sifundiswa ukuthi abantu abavilaphayo bachitha isikhathi. Kodwa uma ucabanga ngakho, kuphutha ngokuphelele. Phela, isikhathi asiyona indawo ehlangene, futhi noma ubani ongenakugwema ukuwusebenzisa ngokwengqondo yakhe akalokothi asuse ekusebenziseni okuqotho! Eqinisweni, nguwe kuphela owaziyo ukusebenzisa amahora akho nemizuzu ngokufanele. Ngezinye izikhathi ubuvila - kusho nje ukuthi "ungachithi isikhathi."
Uma uvila kakhulu ukufunda i-bestseller entsha, ngoba uyazi ukuthi kulokhu inamba enkulu yezingqinamba kanye nezigameko akuyona idivayisi yesitayela - kuhle. Ngoba ukuhlehlisela incwadi ephukumezayo, ungenza okuthile okujabulisayo noma okuwusizo. Ngendlela, ngokuqinisekile waqaphela ukuthi awufuni ukuqonda izifiso zakho. Mhlawumbe, nsuku zonke wena uphendulela umcibisholo wamahoreni amahhovisi nge-glance kanye ncamashi ngo-18: 00, ukhohlwe ukukhathala, uphule ekuqeqesheni? Ngakho-ke kungenzeka ukuthi yisikhathi sokuba ube ngumfundisi wezempilo? Noma ingabe ulungele ukugijima eduze kwesigamu sedolobha ukufuna ukugqoka okukuphela okukufanayo, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa isibindi ngokufaneleka kwesihlanu? Kungani uqhubeka nokwenza imibiko yonyaka uma ungaba ngumcwaningi womuntu siqu?
Cabanga ngalokho okwenza ujabule ngempela. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukuzilibazisa kwakho kungaletha imali! Ubuvila kukuvumela ukuba usulele esitokisini se-squirrel, okuhamba nsuku zonke umjikelezo womsebenzi-wendlu, futhi ubheke nxazonke. Kungenzeka ukuthi, ukujikeleza ngesivinini esikhulu, ulahle phansi iphupho lokuphila kwakho, okulinda kuphela, lapho ekugcineni uvila, ume bese ukhetha.