Abesifazane abaningi benza iphutha kakade eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila komshado, ngaphandle kokuhilela umyeni ukusiza nxazonke zendlu. Laba besifazane bazama ukuba abafazi bezindlu ezinhle, basindise umyeni wakhe ekuhluphekeni komnotho, ukuphatha konke. Kodwa kukhona izingane, imisebenzi eyengeziwe futhi owesifazane uyeka ukubhekana nakho konke. Futhi lo wesilisa usuvele ephangiwe futhi wenqabe ukusiza nxazonke zendlu. Nakuba umshado wakho usemusha, kuyilapho uthando nothando lungabanda, kulula ukuba uxoxe nomyeni wakho. Kusukela ekuqaleni kokuphila kwakho okushadile, yenza uhloniphe umsebenzi wakho futhi wabelane ngemithwalo yemindeni. Umshado wakho ubumbano obulinganayo wabantu ababili abanothando. Futhi ukulingana akumele kubonakaliswe nje ekwenzeni imali, kodwa futhi ukutshala izimali nesikhathi ekhaya lakho nasempilo yakho. Khuluma ukuthi ubani othanda ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Ubani owaziyo, mhlawumbe umyeni wakho uhlale ephupha ekubeni ngumpheki we-restaurant enkulu futhi iqukethe amathalenta okucubungula. Masibabonise. Lahla ukuphazamiseka ukuthi lezi yizibopho zesifazane kuphela.
Ukuhlambalaza njalo nokukhalaza ngeke uthole usizo kumyeni wakhe. Yiba nomsindo kuphela futhi uvalo. Indoda izophendula ngokungafuni noma yikuphi kwezicelo zakho, uqale ukuhlala ngemva komsebenzi bese uzama ukuba ngaphansi ekhaya, okungukuthi, lapho ehlala ehlambalazwa futhi ephoqelelwe ukwenza okuthile.
Amadoda amaningi anamuhla asengozini yokukhuliswa komama wabo. Kodwa ngobuvila obutholakalayo kungenzeka futhi kubalulekile ukulwa. Vumela umyeni wakho angacabangi ngesidlo sakusihlwa, izitsha zokugeza, zigeze futhi zinezinsimbi njengeqiniso ngempela. Futhi ufundisa amadodana akho, khumbula izinkinga zakho nomyeni wakho, ufundise futhi usize ingane yakho ekhaya kusukela esemncane.
Indoda ephangiwe izolala phambi kwe-TV ngaphandle kwe-conscience ye-conscience, ebhekisela eqinisweni lokuthi ukhathele, futhi uzothatha njenge-squirrel ngesondo. Mhlawumbe sisola lokhu?
Ungesabi ukuba buthakathaka. Bonisa ukuthi awukwazi ukubhekana ngaphandle komyeni. Futhi ake wena ngokwakho wazi ukuthi ungashintsha kanjani isibani sokukhanya esishisayo, ukubopha isikhali. Vumela umyeni wakho angazi ngalokhu. Amadoda afana nokukhombisa ukuphakama nokubaluleka kwabo. Ngakho sebenzisa lokhu. Ungazami ukuba yinkosikazi yensimbi nomfazi ozimele, oqinile. Ncoma njalo umyeni wakho nganoma yiluphi usizo oluzungeze indlu. Ungadonsa udumo, yenza njalo ngangokunokwenzeka futhi ngangokunokwenzeka. Khuthaza izinhlelo zomyeni wakhe, ngisho noma engazange ageze izitsha njengoba ujwayele. Noma yikuphi ukugxeka kubulala isifiso sokwenza okuthile esikhathini esizayo.
Myeke umuntu abe ngumuntu. Ngoba ngokuvamile sibachitha amadoda ethu. Cela umyeni wakho usizo futhi umethembe ukuthi akusize. Ukuthembela okunjalo kumyeni wakho kuyobuyiselwa kuwe kaningi. Kusukela manje, awudingi ukuchitha amandla namandla ekuheha umyeni wakho ukusiza nxazonke zendlu.