Iyini inhlama enganeni?

Ngisho nezihlakaniphi zasendulo ziye zafunda ukubikezela isiphetho sabantu ngezici zabo ezihlukile zokubukeka. Ukwakhiwa kwempumlo, ukusika kwamehlo, ama-moles nanoma yikuphi ukubonakala kokubonakalayo, ngokwazi kwabo, ukuchaza okuningi futhi kube nomthelela omkhulu ekuphileni komuntu.

Abantu abanomfutho emakhaleni abo bahlonishwa ngokuthi "babanga onkulunkulu" futhi umphakathi uhlale ubaphatha ikakhulukazi. I-chinki ene-dimple iyinselele yangempela ekubukeni komuntu noma owesifazane. Futhi noma yisiphi isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esazi ukuthi singayichaza kanjani izimfihlo zomuntu sisho ukuthi bonke abanikazi bezinsipho ezinjalo banomsindo okhululekile.

Iyini inhlama emangeni okusho kwabesifazane?

Imvelo inikeze umnikazi we-dimple ngendwangu isimo esinamandla nesingathandeki, okuphawulekayo ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwabanye abameleli besifazane obuthakathaka. Owesifazane onjalo unenkani, engesabi ukuthwala umthwalo wemisebenzi futhi ufanelwe nezimo ezinzima kakhulu. Ngenxa yalezi zici, ngisho nentombazane engenalwazi kalula iphakamisa izinga lezemisebenzi futhi ngokuvamile iphumelela kakhulu.

Ekuphileni kwangasese, i-fovea esithombeni ingasho imfihlakalo nenhle. Ngokubambisana namandla amakhulu angaphakathi, lokhu kwenza umnikazi we-dimple akhangele kakhulu emehlweni amadoda aheha ngokoqobo owesifazane onjalo ngamagnet. Intombazane enjalo ebuhlotsheni izohlale izimele, ingenangqondo futhi imibono yakhe. Futhi akubona bonke abakulungele ukubekezelela lezi zici zomlingiswa. Kodwa-ke, indoda engakwazi "ukuluhlaza" owesifazane onjalo, izothola ngokubuyisela isimo esinomdlandla, esihloniphekile futhi esinamandla, esingakaze sibe yisidingo sokuphila.

Iyini inhlamba yomuntu?

Isikhumba somuntu singatshela okuningi ngomnikazi wakhe. Kungasetshenziselwa ukwahlulela ukuthi umuntu uqiniswa kanjani, ngabe uyazi ukuthi ungaqhubeka kanjani ukugcina izinkinga zekusasa futhi ugxile ngesikhathi esifanele. I-chin enamandla futhi ehamba kancane ibhekwa njengesibonakaliso semvelo engathandekayo, futhi iqhubekela phambili ngokuqinile, kodwa ikhula, iveza uhlamvu oluthambile, olungenakulinganiswa kumuntu. Abanikazi baqhamuka emangeni banamaqhinga, abanenkani nenkani - umbono onjalo uqhutshwa cishe bonke abathandi ukuxazulula izimfihlo zomuntu. Ngezinye izikhathi umnini womgodi ubizwa ngokuthi u-egocentrism ngokweqile.

I-fovea e-chinyinini ingasho ukuthandwa. Ngokuvamile owesifazane ubona ubulili bakhe. Izimbiza zinikeza okufihliwe "kazanov" - fan enkulu ubuhle besifazane. Indoda enjalo isalokhu isikhala isikhathi eside. Kodwa uma eshada, kuphela uthando olukhulu futhi njalo ugcina umkakhe ethembekile.

Gxila kwizintshevu!
Bheka eduze futhi uzokuqonda: phakathi kwabantu abanezintshe, okuyizinhlayiya zabo ezihlotshiswe ngama-dimples, kunabaningi bamabhizinisi nabaphathi, abanamandla nabangenakubekezelelana kwabantu.

Iyini imbobo emangeni?

Ngokuvamile, noma ubani ophethe umgodi onobuchopho bakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi owesilisa noma owesifazane, unezici eziningi ezifanayo. Phakathi kwabo, umuntu angagcizelela amandla, ukubekezela, enye i-egocentrism nokungakwazi ukulahlekelwa. Iziphi ezinye izici ezihlanganisa abantu abanezinsalela esibukweni?

• Inhloso.
• Intando yokuwina nganoma iyiphi imali.
• Amandla okwenza izinqumo ezinzima.
• Ikhono lokugcina ikhanda ngisho nasesimweni esinzima kakhulu.
• Ukucindezeleka-ukumelana.

Ngezo zonke izifanele zabo, abantu abanezinhlayiyana zabo ezincane, kaningi abanaso isimo sokuzivikela. Lesi sici senza ukuba bathathe izinqumo ezingenangqondo, bezama "ukusika imiphetho", bese ekujuleni kwezinhliziyo zabo ukuzisola.

I-dimple ku-chinyane izuzwe njengefa

Kuvela ukuthi noma iyiphi i-dimple ine incazelo ezwakalayo ngokuphelele. Odokotela bathi isizathu sokubunjwa kwalezi zinhlanzi ezihle zikhona ekuthuthukiseni izicubu ezingenele ezihlanganisa isikhumba namathambo. Ngaphezu kobuso, zingase zivele lapho izicubu ze-muscle zixhuma ezinhlakeni ezijulile zesikhumba: izihlathi, ama-elbows ngisho nangemuva. Kwenzeka ukuthi ama-dimples avele lapho amafutha efaka khona ngaphansi kwesikhumba, isibonelo, emadolweni. Izici ezinjalo zingase zizuze njengefa.