Owesifazane ovuthiwe ohlakaniphile uzokwazi ukuzuza eminyakeni yobudala bukaBalzac: noma ngabe lokho kungase kube, isigamu sokuphila kwakhe siphile, futhi uma engakuvumelani nento ethile, khona-ke kukhona ithuba elihle lokusebenzisa ngokuzayo ukulungiswa kokubaluleka kwendawo noma emhlabeni jikelele, ngoba izidingo zowesifazane okhulile Ikhulile ngokwanele.
Indodakazi eneminyaka ayiyona nje ugogo obeletha abazukulu bakhe noma isula iziketi zebubusha bakhe emnyango webhentshi - lo owesifazane ofuna ukuthanda futhi ufuna ukuthandwa. Futhi ngubani othi abesifazane abakhulile abafanelanga kakhulu ukuthi akukho uthando lwangempela? Phela, oontanga-amadoda ngaleso sikhathi ajabulele amantombazane othando ezandleni zamantombazane amancane!
Yini ebi kakhulu kunowesifazane? Kungani bengenakusiza ukudalula uthando lomfana osemusha, abe ngabeluleki noma abaphathi bezintandokazi kakhulu? Angakwazi, futhi namanje ngangokunokwenzeka! Amadoda angu-30% ayekhona nakuba ayifushane, kodwa uxhumano lothando nomfazi omdala oneminyaka yobudala.
I-Balzac, ngenxa yokuthi igama elithi "unkosikazi kaBalzac" livele empilweni yansuku zonke, yayiyikosikazi "evuthiwe" - unina onabantwana abaningi futhi, ngeshwa, ungumfazi ongathembekile emjondolo ngokwakhe. U-Honore wayengumkhiqizo wakhe, njengoba yena, ngokungafani nomyeni wakhe-chump, waqonda imicabango yakhe, imizwa, izifiso kakhulu.
Amanye amadoda akhetha ukuthula, kodwa kuyiqiniso. Ngisemusha, mina nginomthandi we "iminyaka yobudala kaBalzac," engimdala kunami, ngakho-ke ngingu-20 nge hook. Futhi wangitshela ukuthi naye wayenomfazi ovuthiwe ebusheni bakhe owamfundisa amacebo amaningi, hhayi nje embhedeni, kodwa empilweni nasenkonzweni ... Angikhulumi ngebhizinisi leRussia show kanye nezibonelo, ukuthi yilokho okushiwo wonke umbukeli phambi kwamehlo akhe ...
Angizange ngicindezeleke ukuqinisekisa ukuthi bonke abafazi abavuthiwe bayithatha, bavela ezidlekeni zabo ezifuywayo futhi bahamba ngemva kwamadoda amancane abathandekayo, akekho owaziyo ukuthi kungani noma kuphi. Ngisho nje ukuthi ngisho nangenkathi owesifazane unelungelo lokuthokoza, uthando, futhi nokuziqhenya ngokuziqhenya emigameni yomphakathi noma yomsebenzi.
Kusobala ukuthi owesifazane ovuthiwe kunzima ukuthola hhayi kuphela omhle futhi omncane, kodwa futhi ukuqonda indoda - ihlombe lomuntu onamandla ngempela. Futhi, ngitshele, kulula kangakanani ukwenza iminyaka yobudala? Yilokho, ukuthi kuhle kuphi lapho kungekho khona.
Izibalo ezomile zithi cishe ama-50% omfana abasha bakhetha ontanga yabo, cishe ama-20% wabantu abathanda kakhulu futhi abakhuthele ngaso sonke isikhathi bakhetha amantombazane amancane kunabo ngokwabo (noma kunjalo, ngenkathi bengakwenqabeli ubudlelwane bobulili nomshado nabamele amanye amaqembu obudala), kanye namadoda angama-30% bakhetha ukuthembela ekubhekaneni nasekunakekeleni, cishe ehlombe lomama, owesifazane omdala oneminyaka engama-40, ekuqaleni kokukhula.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abesifazane abanempahla ehlukile, njengelwandle olumnandi, umthombo ongathembeki wokuba nethemba, izinga eliphezulu lezenhlalakahle, izintaba zegolide - amathuba angenamkhawulo wezezimali, abesifazane abahle, abahlakaniphile, abanempilo, abangempela nabesifazane abanesithunzi esingathí sina kulabo abathengisi abavuthiwe. Uma ungakholelwa ukuthi insizwa ingayithanda ngobuqotho ubuhle besifazane omdala, khona-ke ungafunda amanoveli ngesikhathi sikaBalzac.
Nganoma yikuphi "imali yokuqala" futhi kunoma yikuphi, wonke owesifazane ovuthiwe uzokwazi ukuzama ukujabula. Futhi uma injabulo enjalo kuwe kumuntu nangothando, udinga ukunakekelwa ngokucophelela impilo, ngoba inkinga yempilo yabesifazane ilingana nodaba lobuhle kanye nenhlalakahle.