Kunezinyathelo eziningana ezisiza ukuhlanganisa imizamo yabo kulabo abaye banquma ukushintsha izimpilo zabo, ukuze lezi zinguquko zihlale isikhathi eside kunosuku noma ezimbili.
Okokuqala, cabanga ngezizathu zokuthi kungani ufuna ukushintsha impilo yakho. Yini engahambisani nawe esimeni samanje sezinto? Yini ezoyithuthukisa, yiziphi izinguquko ezizokwenzeka? Bhala phansi ephepheni. Cabanga ngemiphumela engafanele yezinguquko. Ingabe bayoba noma cha? Uma kunjalo, umthelela wabo unganciphisa kanjani? Cabanga futhi unqume ngokucophelela ngangokunokwenzeka ukuthi yini kanye nesikhathi ofuna ukuyenza ukuze uqale impilo entsha. Kungaba umbono omuhle wokwakha uhlelo lokusebenza nokucabanga ukuthi noma yikuphi ukuqeqeshwa kuyadingeka, noma yiziphi izimo zokuqaliswa kwalolu hlelo.
Izenzo zizosiza ukuthola izimpendulo zemibuzo elandelayo. Iyini injongo yokuphila kwami? Ngiphi indlela ekuphileni engiyigugu kakhulu, yiziphi izinto eziza kuqala kimi? Ngifuna kanjani ukuba eminyakeni embalwa, ngifuna ukufezekisa ini? Yini edingekayo ukufeza lezi zinhloso? Yiziphi izithiyo ezingaba khona endleleni, yiziphi izithiyo engizobhekana nazo? Lezi zithiyo zinganqotshwa kanjani?
Uzothola uhlobo lwe-essay oluzosiza ekunqumeni izinto eziza kuqala ekuphileni kwakho kanye nenqubo yokubaluleka, kanye nokwenza uhlelo oluthile noma oluncane. Futhi umuntu onomgomo, kunokuba abe nemibono ephazamisayo, kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi afinyelele okufunayo futhi angalahlekelwa indlela ehlosiwe. Futhi uma lo muntu ehluleka, uhlelo lokusebenza luzomsiza ukuba abuyele ngokushesha endleleni elungile. Cabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ngolunye usuku kuyoba nzima kuwe ukulandela uhlelo olukhethiwe. Uzokwenzenjani ngaleso sikhathi? Cabanga futhi, ingabe ufuna ngempela ukushintsha impilo yakho, noma kungcono ukushiya konke endaweni yayo? Cabanga ngezinguquko ezinhle empilweni owawunayo ngaphambili. Ngenxa yalokho, yiziphi izenzo ozifinyelele kuzo? Okuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphambilini kuzonikeza ithuba lokuqonda ukukhishwa kwamanje. Uma usanda kuqala ukuguqula impilo yakho, cabanga bese ubhala ukuthi yikuphi ukuthuthuka okwenzekile kakade?
Uma kungazelelwe kukhona isifiso sokuyeka konke, cabanga ngezizathu zokuthi kungani uqale konke lokhu, funda okufakiwe kwakho. Cabanga ngemiphi imigomo oyothola yona, uma uqhubeka, cabanga ukuthi kuyoba kuhle kanjani kuwe. Uma ezinye izinkinga zesikhathi esidlule zikugcina wena futhi ubuyela emuva, zama ukuhlala endleleni yakho efanele, funda uhlelo, uzikhuthaze, ucabange ngezinto ezinhle. Ngokuvamile ngemva kokuhlupheka kokuqala, abantu bayashiya izinhlelo zabo, beqaphela ukuthi konke kunzima kakhulu kunalokho okwakubonakala kuqala. Lokhu akulungile. Cabanga ngalokho okusukufezile kakade. Yeka ukulahleka emgomweni okhethiwe bese ubuyela endleleni yakho ehleliwe. Khumbula ukuthi amandla akho, okuyingqayizivele nokuhlakanipha akuwe! Funda ukusebenzisa lokhu ukuguqula impilo yakho.
Uma ufuna ukuguqulwa, zama ukuyeka izinto ezedlule, ukuthethelela izikhalazo zakudala, zisho ukuthi lezi zinkimbinkimbi zithinta. Zama ukukhanya, ukuqiniseka okuningi, ucabange kahle, uqalise uhlelo loshintsho lwakho kanye noshintsho. Uma kunesidingo, phindaphinda ukuqinisekiswa. Ngokwesibonelo, uma uzizwa ungalondekile ngawe, phinda uthi: "Ngiyaqiniseka ngami!" Futhi njalo ngokufanekisa. Gxila ekuhloliseni kwakho, kholelwa kuwe, ngaleyo ndlela uzihlele ngokwakho impumelelo. Kodwa lokhu, okwenzeki, akukwenzeka ngesikhathi esheshayo, lokhu kumele kusetshenziswe, ikakhulukazi uma siqala ukusebenza kithi ngokwemvelo kanye nakanjani kusukela ekuqaleni, okungukuthi, cishe uzishintsha ngokuphelele.
Uma ubheka ama-analogues ezishintsheni zakho, ke kusibonelo ungaletha ukulungiswa endlini. Okokuqala ulahla udoti nodoti, ususe iphepha lodonga nokuningi. Ngakho-ke kufanele uzikhiphe udoti, udoti nothuli, okwenza indawo "yokuhlelwa" okuhle. Ngendlela, futhi i-oda elisekhaya lihle ngempela ukuletha. Uma ufuna ukushintsha impilo, ungenza izinguquko ezingaphakathi: uphonsa izinto ezindala, uhlele ifenisha, uhlanganise i-wallpaper, wenze ukulungisa izimonyo noma okuyinhloko, njengoba uthanda.
Kuhle futhi ukushintsha ikhabethe, ikakhulu uma ungazange ulibuyekeze isikhathi eside. Thenga ngokwakho izibuyekezo ezimbalwa, shintsha i-perfume, makeup, ungashintsha izinwele zakho. Uma ungakwazi ukuyikhokhela, qoqa zonke izingubo zakho zakudala uphinde unikeze usizo, futhi uvuselele ngokuphelele ikhabethe lakho. Ungacabanga ngisho ngesitayela nesithombe esisha, zama izinhlanganisela ezintsha nezinhlanganisela. Thenga wena isihlangu esisha, isikhafu, isikhwama, izesekeli noma enye into. Into esemqoka - ushintshe futhi ungesabi ukuzama!
Zama ukushintsha imikhuba yakho noma ukuzilungisa. Uyaphuza ikhofi ekuseni kuphela? Zama ukushintshela ku-juice, itiye, i-cocoa, njll. Ukusetshenziswa ukuhamba nokugibela endleleni efanayo? Zama ukuyishintsha. Zama ukungena ezemidlalo, uhambe kaningi, vele uhambe emgwaqweni.
Cabanga ngalokho owaphupha ukwenza isikhathi eside, kodwa kwakungenaso isikhathi, akukho isifiso. Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi eside ufuna ukubhalisa kumdanso, inkambo yezinwele noma ufunde isiNtaliyane? Thatha isenzo. Thola ukuzilibazisa, uhlukanise impilo yakho, wengezele kuso into yokuzikhethela. Funda amabhuku amahle, funda izinto ezintsha, uxoxe nabantu abalungile, wenze abantu abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo. Ungazama ukushintsha isimo, hamba endaweni ethile okwesikhashana, uma kungenzeka. Zama ukwenza izinguquko eziningi ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze kube ngcono, ngaphandle kwalokho izinto ezivamile zizokudonsela emuva, zibe sesikhathini esidala futhi esivamile sezinto.
Ungaqala kanjani ukuphila kusukela ekuqaleni? Kholelwa wena kanye namandla akho, ushintshe hhayi nje ngaphandle, kodwa futhi ngaphakathi, shintsha umbono wakho wezwe, umbono wezinto, uye emigomweni ebekiwe futhi ujabule!