Ukuphathwa okuhlangene akuyona nje igama. Ezweni lakithi, leli fomu lokuhlala liye lalinikezwa kakhulu. Ake sithi uhlala nomuntu othandekayo, kodwa lo mshado awubhalisiwe ehhovisi lokubhalisa. Khona-ke waphikisana futhi wanquma ukusakaza ngezindlela ezihlukile. Imoto, indawo yokuhlala, i-dacha oyithenge ngemali ejwayelekile, ibhalelwe umyeni - unethuba lokuhlukanisa impahla, uma kukhona ofakazi abanamandla okuqinisekisa ukuthi uholele ukulima okuhlanganyelwe, kodwa isabelo ngasinye sixhomeke ekubambeni kwayo. Sithemba ukuthi uyaqonda ukubaluleka okuhambisana nokuphathwa okuhlangene ezweni lethu? Mayelana nokudabukisayo ukuthi ngeke senze. Ake sicabange ndawonye ngezinto ezimnandi ndawonye. Isibonelo, indlela yokwenza isabelomali semindeni ibaluleke kangaka, ngakho-ke, imali eyengeziwe yokukhulula ukuthenga okumnandi nokubiza. Ngeke ukholwe, kodwa kunezinyathelo eziyisithupha zomcebo - ngokusindisa. Mayelana nabo futhi kuzoxoxwa ngezansi.
Ukuphathwa kwesabelomali akusikho kithi, besifazane, njengesiqingatha sethu sesibili. O, othile, futhi siyazi ukuthi isitolo sishibhile, yimiphi imikhiqizo edinga ukuthengwa emakethe egcwele ... Futhi uma senza ngendlela ehlukile, sinesizathu esihle salokhu. Amadoda, ikakhulukazi uma ehola kahle, azibheka njengabaphathi bokuphila: basebenzisa imali, bangabala, ngenkathi benayo. Futhi-ke ... bangena esikweletini, noma bahlushwa ukuzisola, bezama ukuthola okungenani uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi omncane. Ukuhlukunyezwa okunjalo akuzuzi impilo yabo, ngakho-ke, abesifazane abathandekayo, ukuchitha amadoda kudinga ukulawulwa okungaqondakali. Isinyathelo sokuqala sokusindisa kuyincwadi ethi "granari", lapho zonke izindleko zamagrafu kufanele zirekhodwe: uhlobo lwenkokhelo, inani, inani, usuku. Uma okuthile ekugcineni kukhulu noma kuncane kakhulu, phawula leli qiniso kumugqa ohlukile. Kodwa, uNkulunkulu akavumelani, ukuba afune umbiko ofanayo ovela kumyeni wakhe (ngaphandle uma ukubalwa kwesabelomali kungumqondo wakhe), uzokhubeka. Zonke izindleko zakhe zifakwa ebhokisini elilodwa, ngaphandle kokucacisa ukuthi kanjani nokuthi kanjani. Iqiniso lokugcina amarekhodi wezindleko kumele linikezwe njengesithunzi somuntu siqu. Umyeni ohlakaniphile ngokwakhe uzomangala ukuthi cishe ingxenye yesithathu (isigamu, ingxenye yesine) yonke imali yomndeni igeleza "ezintweni" zakhe. Uyakwazi ukuhlaziya isimo sakhe futhi, ngaphandle kokuyeka imikhuba yakhe eminingi (kungcwele!), Thola izindlela zokonga zokuzigcina. Kubi nakakhulu uma lo muntu engenzi iziphetho kuye. Kuzodingeka ngisebenzise "amazwi amakhulu." Okuthi: - UDarling, ngengozi ngena enkonzweni yemoto eduze komsebenzi wami, izinga lenkonzo lifanayo, kodwa amanani angimangalisa kakhulu. Noma: - Umnakekeli wezinwele wakho uyeke ukungithanda. Isikhundla ohlala kuso sidinga ukunakwa okwengeziwe ekubukeni. Ake sizame ukukhipha izinwele kusuka kwenye inkosi. "Amacebo" anjalo azoba isinyathelo sesibili ekugcineni. Noma kunjalo, uzofunda okuthile okusha kusuka kubhuku "lokugcina". Isinyathelo sesithathu: qembu konke ukuthenga ngokwemigomo yokusetshenziswa. Isibonelo, kanye ngesonto udinga ukuthenga inyama engu-3 kg, ibhotela elilodwa, ama-5 amalitha obisi, kanye nengxenye yonyaka - u-5 kg wefulawa, u-1 kg we-buckwheat, u-3 kg welayisi, njll. Ngakho-ke uthola ukuthi yikuphi ukudla ubuningi nokuthi udinga kangakanani ukuthenga. Manje ungathatha isinyathelo sesine: ukuthenga le mikhiqizo. Thola indawo eshibhile. Ngokuthengwa okuphelele, ama-kopecks ambalwa okulondolozwa kilogram noma isikhwama ngasinye azokunika ithuba lokuwuthatha wonke itekisi (uma kungekho imoto), futhi uzithenge enye i-trinket (noma, ngokuphambene, into encane kodwa ewusizo). Ekuthengeni kwansuku zonke awukwazi ukulondoloza, kungcono ukhethe indawo efaneleka kakhulu kubo: endleleni esuka emsebenzini, eduze kwendlu, ngaphandle kokulinda ... Vumela isinkwa sithengise ngaphezulu ku-ruble, uzosindisa okuningi okuyigugu - isikhathi sakho. Isinyathelo sesihlanu: isifinyezo somhlaba wonke. Fundisisa okuqukethwe "kwenqolobane" yencwadi yonyaka. Uzobona ukuthi ezinyangeni ezahlukene uchitha imali eningi epulazini. Ebusika - ngaphezulu, ehlobo - ngaphansi. Kodwa ehlobo kunezindleko ezingalindelekile zokuphumula. Isinyathelo esilandelayo akulungile ukubiza ucingo lwesithupha , kunalokho, kungukuthi, ngoba udinga ukuqala kusukela ngesikhathi okhethekile ukusindisa, ngoba siyazi ukuthi udinga ukulondoloza imali kuphela, kodwa futhi isikhathi. Njengoba ososayensi sebebalwe, sichitha u-12% wesikhathi sokugcina indlu. Ezitolo sichitha isilinganiso samahora angu-2-3 ngesonto. Imali kanye nesikhathi kukhona izinto ezithandanayo. Uma ulondoloza okokuqala - thenga inqubo bese ulondoloza okwesibili. Qala enye incwadi - idayari, okungcono ephulwe iwashi. Bhala lokho owenza njalo emaminithini angu-30: ugeza, udla kwasekuseni, uye emsebenzini, ubukele i-TV ... Ngezansi, faka umugqa bese wengeza konke okumele ukwenze (noma ufuna) ukukwenza, kodwa awuzange. Ulahlekelwe isikhathi esingaki? Bheka lapho ungakholeka khona manje: mhlawumbe bekufanele ukwandise ijubane, into yokukhansela, ukuhambisa, ukuhlanganisa ... Qinisekisa ukuphumula: nsuku zonke amahora angu-2-3. Kufanele kube nokuphumula okuhle (ukufunda, ukuhamba ngaphandle), futhi ungaboni i-movie ngenkathi u-ironing, hhayi uhambo oluya esitimeleni.