Iziphi izipho ongayinika intombazane? Madoda, ungalokothi unike owesifazane ubucwebe eshibhile. Nasi iqiniso, imininingwane ozoyifunda esihlokweni sethu.
Sonke siyazi isikhathi eside ukuthi indoda efuna ukunqoba inhliziyo yowesifazane isikhathi eside, ingahle ikwenze ngendandatho. Futhi kuyoba kubiza ngokwengeziwe futhi, kubika ngokucacile kokubili kokuthandwa kakhulu, nakwabanye besifazane abaseduze naye, ukuthi le ndoda ilungele ukwabelana nayo yonke imithombo yakhe nalona wesifazane. Ngisho noma umuntu enesamba esincane semali, kungcono ukuthatha isikweletu futhi uthenge indleko ebiza kakhulu kunokunikeza owesifazane umhlobiso omncane neshibhile.
Kungani kufanele kube nobulili obuqinile lokhu? Amadoda amaningi awaqondi lokhu. Eqinisweni, isipho esinjalo sibaluleke kakhulu kowesifazane. Umnikazi wendandatho uyambuka njalo, kuyilapho ekhumbula zonke lezo zifungo lowo muntu ayemnike zona. Owesifazane uzobonisa indandatho yakhe kwabanye abesifazane, lapho becabanga ngesipho, bazozama ukuqonda isifiso somuntu sokudala ubuhlobo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngemuva kokudala umndeni, lo mbhangqwana ungase uhlale efulethini elincane, bese ushayela imoto endala. Kodwa lo wesifazane, into ebaluleke kunazo zonke kuyisinye iqiniso: indandatho enhle izobe isayithokozisa umnikazi wayo, ngoba ithengwe ngokukhethekile kuye futhi kubonisa ukuthi uyathandwa kangakanani nokuthi indoda yakhe ifuna ukuba eduze kwayo.
Lapha ngifuna ukunikeza isibonelo kusuka ekuphileni.
Indoda enegama elihle uDmitry wayazi kahle ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuthi owesifazane ubufakazi besithandwa besilisa njengendandatho ebiza kakhulu, ngakho njalo wathenga izingubo ezinhle kumfazi wakhe, kanti yena ngokwakhe akazange agqoke izigqoko zokugqoka, ngaphandle kwendandatho yomshado nesihenqo amahora.
Umfowabo kaDmitri uViktor wayengazi lutho mayelana nokulinganisa okunjalo kwabesifazane. Ngakho-ke, wanikeza umkakhe u-Elena izicabha ezingavamile, futhi ngokuqondile, ngaso sonke isikhathi abesebenye ndawonye, wamnika: enye indandatho engabizi, eyathengwa nge-pawnshop namaketanga amaningana, ayenzile esuka eThailand. Akazange aqaphele ukuthi ngezipho ezinjalo wanciphisa ukholo luka-Elena ngesifiso sakhe sokudala ubudlelwane obude naye. Ngemuva kwalokho, wayazi ukuthi angakwazi ukumenza nezipho ezibizayo, kodwa ngesizathu esithile akazange abanike. UVictor akazange anike izimbali zakhe nezimbali zakhe, ngoba, ngokubona kwakhe, izimbali ezinsukwini ezimbalwa zizobe zimile, okungukuthi, ukuthenga isixha sezimbali, ekuqondeni kukaVictor, kungumonakalo wemali. U-Elena wacabanga ngenye indlela: zonke izimbali ezinamaphiko ziyokwenza uVictor ithuba lokumnika elisha futhi ngaleyo ndlela ambonise futhi uthando lwakhe. Ekuqondeni kukaVictor, isipho esihle kunazo zonke imbali ebhodweni, ngoba iyozuza esikhathini eside kakhulu. Futhi ngakho ngelinye ilanga wathenga u-Elena enye imbali ebhodweni, ngalesi sikhathi kwakuyi-rose. "Imbali yothando," wamemezela ngokumangalisayo. Ngemva kwesikhashana wanezela ukuthi u-Elena, uma efuna, angathatha ama-offshoots avela kulesi rose, aphakamise futhi athengise. O, angakwazi ngisho nokuvula isitolo sembali! Ukugcina kwendaba kwakulandelayo. Ngalobo busuku, lapho u-Elena esithola isipho sakhe esilandelayo, udokotela wathatha umgogodla kusukela emagodini kaVictor, ezinsukwini ezimbalwa uVictor uzokwazi ukuhlala futhi.
Ukuziphatha kwale ndaba yokuphila yilezi: uma umuntu ecabanga ngendlela engqondweni futhi ecabanga ukuthi imbali ebhodweni yisipho esiwusizo kakhulu kunezimbali ze-roses - indoda enjalo kufanele ilale yodwa. Iseluleko sethu kumadoda yilokhu: ungagcina empilweni ezintweni eziningi, kodwa akufanele uphinde uhlose izicathulo ozinike lona wesifazane. Uma ekuqaleni kobudlelwane unikeza intombazane yakho ethandekayo encane, ngoba unemali encane, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngokushesha, kungenzeka unike owesifazane indleko ebiza kakhulu futhi enhle kakhulu. Ucabanga ukuthi lokhu kulungile noma cha, noma kunjalo kungathuthukisa impilo yakho. sineluleka ukuba uqaphele ukuthi yiziphi izipho ezifakiwe ukunikeza intombazane.