I-Tantra iyihlelo lonke lefilosofi elivela eNdiya eminyakeni eyizinkulungwane zeminyaka eyedlule. Ubulili be-Tantric yisici esisodwa sezimfundiso zamaBuddhist aseTibetan. Kodwa phakathi neminyaka engamashumi ayisithupha, lapho i-yoga kanye nokuguqulwa ngokocansi kwaba yindabuko eNtshonalanga, ubulili beric et neotantra babonakala. Lezi ziyalo zithinteka ekutadisheni amathuba emzimbeni womzimba, ukutholakala kwenjabulo yaphezulu ngokusebenzisa ukuhlanganiswa kwamadoda nowesifazane. Ngenxa yalokhu, izifundo zesayensi yasendulo yaseNdiya zingabonakala zingaphezu kocansi futhi zithandana. Kodwa uma kubonakala kungazelelwe kubonakale kuwe, ungahamba ngokuphepha. Asikho isidingo sokudlwengula ngokutadisha nomfundisi ongenamsebenzi, kungenza kuphela ukulimala. Amabhuku on theory of Tantra ayengakhanselwa okwamanje, futhi ungakwazi ukujwayela ekhaya, yodwa nomthande wakho.
Izinhlangano ezinjalo zivela esimweni seTantra . Kodwa ubulili beqembu no-Tantra yizici ezingavumelani. Yebo, ngesikhatsi sesithandani sokuthandaza ekamelweni futhi kungase kube nemibhangqwana eminingana, kodwa abazange bahlanganyele nabo abalingani, kuphela ukwenza ingxenye yabo. Phela, ubudlelwano nomuntu othandekayo ngaphezu kwakho konke kuTantra. Ku-neotantra, kuyiqiniso, konke kungenzeka: kokubili ukushintshanana kwabalingani kanye nobulili nabantu abaningana, kodwa lokhu sekuvele kube yisinqumo somuntu ngamunye. Ukuphoqelela ezintweni ezinjalo akekho onelungelo. Ayikho indawo yokwehliswa nokudakwa ngokweqile eTantra. Ubulili bamaBuddhist aseTibetan akusho nje ukuxhumana kocansi kuphela, kodwa futhi ukuhlanganiswa kwemiphefumulo, izinhliziyo zabathandi. Ngakho-ke, ukukhathazeka kuye kuyinde futhi kunomzimba, akugcini ngokugxilisa izitho zangasese, kodwa kuhlanganise wonke umzimba. Ukunyakaza kwe-sexric ye-tantric nakho kukhululekile, "ngokunambitha."
Bonke abenza i-propagandists yocansi lobuhlobo obungavamile ngathi - tantric - kukhona altruists, ngoba into esemqoka lapha akufanele afinyelele i-orgasm yakho, kodwa ukujabulisa umlingani. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma umuntu esesemkhatsini wesifazane isikhathi eside, amandla angaphezulu angayenza ukuba ahlawule amandla ayo alahlekelwa ngenkathi ejaculation. Iseshini enjalo yothando ingahlala emahoreni amabili kuya kweshumi.
Ingafana nokusikinyeka kwe-erotic , kufaka ukuhleleka okungavamile, ukuzivocavoca noma ngisho nokwelula. Kodwa into esemqoka eyenza ubulili be-tantric ukugxila okugcwele kumlingani. Eqinisweni, umlingani wezocansi eTantra ungumbumbulu ongenawo owenza ucansi. Ngendlela, ngobulili be-tantric, unkulunkulu kufanele azincome, aziphelele ngokuphelele kulokhu kumdumisa hhayi okwesibini ukungangabazi ukuthi uvelaphi. Ngesikhathi socansi lwe-tantric, bobabili abalingani basusa izinkimbinkimbi futhi, ukuthi lezi zinsuku zibalulekile, zikhulisa kakhulu ukuzethemba komunye nomunye. Uma ufunda ukufeza ukuvumelana okufanayo nomlingani wakho, empilweni yakho kuyoba nokudumazeka okuncane nokunganeliseki embhedeni, "ukulimala" kanye "nomhawu" kuzophela, futhi bayothathelwa esikhundleni sengqondo evamile yokuthandana nokuqonda.
Ngaphandle kwesici somzwelo , ubulili be-tantric bunamandla okuphilisa nokuphulukisa okumangalisayo. Abantu abakhuthaza le nqubo, cishe abangeke baphenduke odokotela. Phela, banendlela yokwelashwa kwabo: okunamnandi kunamathebulethi.
Okokuqala, udinga ukufunda kahle, uzizwe umzimba wakho nomzimba womlingani wakho. Ukuze wenze lokhu, ungazenza umzwelo, zama ukuzwa okuvela kulo nto, yiphunga - thola imbali efanele noma iphunga lamafutha, futhi ekhonsathini - lalela ithuluzi elilodwa kuphela ku-orchestra lonke. Lokhu kunzima ekuqaleni, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzophumelela.
Emva kwalesi sigaba sigcwalisiwe, ungaqala iseshini socansi lwe-tantric. Wena nomlingani wakho kuzodinga ukukhipha usuku olulodwa kuphela komunye nomunye. Akufanele kube nezinto eziqhakazile noma umsindo omkhulu nxazonke, futhi kungcono ukukhohlwa nge-TV noma isikhungo somculo esimweni esinjalo. Nakuba ungafaka umculo ongahlosiwe wokuphumula noma umsindo ovelele wokuqopha manje wezilwane zasendle. Ngesikhathi socansi, akufanele uphazamiseke komunye nomunye, khumbula: kubalulekile ukuthi ugxile kumlingani uqobo, hhayi ngezocansi.