Inkosi yakhe engazi lutho ...
Ngenye yemisebenzi yakhe uMarku Twain utshele inkolelo emnandi mayelana nemvelaphi yobuciko, ikakhulukazi izinkondlo. Njengokuthi, ukusungulwa kwama-syllables okuphindaphindiwe ngokweqile kwabantu abantu bokuqala kwakuqhutshwa yindlala. "Oh, inyama, oh, inyama ebomvu!" Kwakuhlaba umxhwele i-piite yokuqala egqoke izikhumba, ephuma phakathi kwendilinga yabantu bakubo. Futhi wathola amahlombe esiphepho kanye nemali enhle-isiqephu esiqinile sokuphangwa. Ukudalwa kweTwain kwaba yisikhumbuzo sezincwadi zomhlaba. Yiqiniso, ezweni lesayense, enye inguqulo iqhutshwa mayelana nesimo semithetho yokudala. Yenziwa ngumsunguli we-psychoanalysis, uSigmund Freud. Ngakho, i-géeni iphikisana: isisekelo kwanoma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa kobuciko kungqubuzana ngokocansi. "Ake ngithume umlilo!" - uhlabelele ingoma enengqondo ngomuntu ongenakho intombi okwamanje. Kodwa-ke, hhayi nje kuphela ukuthi ukungabikho kocansi kwezokuthengisa ngokobulili kwenza abantu basebenze. Izimpande zendalo, ngokusho kwenkolelo kaFrud, zilele ngokungazi lutho.
Iqoqa izingxabano (ukuvinjelwa, ukuhlunga kwengqondo) okwakhiwa ebuntwaneni obujulile. Lokhu kungase kube ukuziphatha kahle, imfundo ye-Puritan - uma ingane ingavunyelwe, isibonelo, ukuxhuma nabangani emva kwezinsuku eziyisishiyagalolunye kusihlwa noma ukugqoka izingubo ezingaphezu kwesibindi. Ukungqubuzana nakho kuyisimo senhlalakahle: izingxabano phakathi kwabahlobo, ukuhlukaniswa emsebenzini (ukungakwazi ukuhambisana nozakwethu, nabaphathi). Iziphepho zingaba umndeni - ukungabi nelulimi oluvamile phakathi kwabazali nezingane. Konke lokhu kuphazamiseka kwengqondo kuyisizathu sokuguqula amandla amancane okuhlukumezeka-amandla okuzibandakanya nobulili (isibonelo, ukunganeliseki ngomsebenzi womuntu-ephupha lokuba ngumhumushi futhi usebenze njengobhala) ekudaleni. Kodwa isitini esikhulu sokwehlukaniswa kwemvelo (ngendlela, leli gama elithi psychoanalysis laphinde laqaliswa nguSigmund Freud) konke, futhi kwakukhona futhi kuhlala ubulili. Futhi igama elithi "ukungqubuzana" akufanele lizwakale njengelinye elibi. Injabulo iyashukumisa umphefumulo, uyisuse ekuthuleni okuqhubekayo. Ngakho-ke, abantu abajabule othandweni nabo bangabalandeli abamangalisayo.
Ubulili njengenjini yokusebenza
Ubani obuncane be-sublimation? Kuvela ukuthi konke kuhilelekile ekuhunyushweni kwamandla wezocansi zibe ngumbono! Umkhiqizo olula owenza ungazi lutho. Ingabe uphupha ukuhamba ezindaweni ezishisayo, phakathi kweziqu ezinamathele nge-liana futhi ujabulele izimbali ezinhle? Noma ingabe uyaphupha ukubhukuda emagagasi olwandle olwandle oluthulile? Ngakho-ke, abazange bafune, bazithoba ngokwabo - babesebenza ngobuciko. Futhi umphumela wale nqubo yokudala kwakuyiphupho elimibalabala. "Isiteji esiphezulu" somsebenzi wokungazi lutho ngendalo. Yilokho okuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi ubuciko - izinkondlo zokubhala kanye nezindatshana, izithombe zokubhala, imidwebo yamabhantshi ezindongeni zomuzi ompunga, ukwakheka komculo okulotshwe encwadini yomculo, ukudansa, ukudlala isiteji semidlalo yaseshashalazini, nokuklama izinto zangaphakathi. Khumbula izinsuku zesikoleni: ngubani ovela kumngane-ntombazane, othandana nomfundi ophakeme, akazange akhonze okuthile encwadini yokubhala ngokukhanya kwesibane sasebusuku!
Kodwa-ke, akukho ivesi elilodwa noma ukudlala upiyano ukubonakaliswa kwezinto zokudala. Ukunciphisa amandla kungaba yinto yokuzilibazisa - isibonelo, ukuqoqa izitembu, amabheji, nezinye izinto. Ukusanhlamvu okubalulekile kuyisenzo sokusiza, ukuphathwa kwempahla. Ingabe uthanda ukuthola nokusekela amakhono, ukudlulisela ingxenye yomholo wakho, ukuthumela amathoyizi noma izingubo kwintandane? Ngakho wena unguMdali, wenza okuhle. Ngamanye amazwi, i-sublimation yikho konke okuqondiswa ekudalweni. Ngisho nasekhishini elivamile, ungaba umdali ongenakuqhathaniswa. Ngokwesibonelo, ngoLwesihlanu kusihlwa, lapho umndeni wonke ulindele isidlo esiphundu, bawulungiselela isaladi le-shrimp bese bebeka epulatifomu enesimo senhliziyo, ehlobisa utamatisi we-cherry? Siyakuhalalisela, uguqule ukuhlukaniswa kwemvelo - amandla esondo nobuciko. Kulesi sici sokupheka, it, ngendlela, iyoqinisa umndeni.
Ukuhlukaniswa kwemithwalo yemvelo kukhuthaza ukukhula komsebenzi. Isibonelo, uthanda, ungalungisa uphinde uguqule i-Khrushchev encane ku-oasis encane: ngefenisha ye-wicker emvinini, ne-vases, ama-ashtrays ngendlela yezithelo zangaphandle. Bese ujwayelene nabaqambi bezobuchwepheshe futhi uqiniseke ukuthi kukhona abantu abenza indlu kangcono. "Ukuzamazama komhlaba" kwezocansi kwaphakamisa enye ingxabano - umphakathi. Umoya wokuncintisana uvusa. Isinyathelo esilandelayo sibhala izifundo zokuklama nokufunda umsebenzi omusha.
ULibido egqoke elimhlophe
Kusukela ekubukeni kwe-psychoanalysis, i-sublimation yendalo. Ngalo, ungakhula ngokomoya futhi uphulukiswe. Yisisekelo sokwelashwa kwezobuciko (isiqondiso esithandweni sokusebenza kwengqondo, lapho umuntu ehluleka ukubhekana nokuzizwa kwakhe ngokomzwelo ngokusebenzisa ubuciko: ukwakha kusuka eplasini, ukudala amanzi, imidwebo). Lapha, futhi iningi lememori ye-muscle (okwamanje ebuntwaneni ayithandi ukudweba!), Nokukhululwa kwemigomo yokuvinjelwa. Ngezikhathi zokwelapha ubuciko, izithiyo zomphakathi zisuswa. Umuntu uyangena engqondweni, avuselele futhi axazulule izinkinga zakhe ezingokwengqondo. Izikhathi ezenziwa kanye nokwelapha ngesihlabathi - uhlobo lokwelapha ubuciko. Ochwepheshe bezinkanyezi bavame ukubona into efana nalokhu: umuntu omdala nje efaka isandla sakhe esitsheni ngesihlabathi futhi emva kwesikhashana eqala ukudweba into ethile ngeminwe yakhe, enze izibalo. Okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe okwanele ebuntwaneni, lapho edlalwa e-sandbox, isebenza! Ngendlela, ubuciko bokuphulukisa, ungangena ngokuzumayo ube umbhali obambisene nomsebenzi wokubhala.
Uthando noma u-sculpt?
Umbuzo onengqondo: yini ngokujwayelekile ukuthi ulale ocansini, uma kukhona i-sublimation? Futhi uthole okuningi amabhonasi: nenkazimulo, nokwanda kwesikhwama, nokukhula komsebenzi. Kukhona omunye umbono. Kungani uguqula ukuhlukaniswa kwemvelo - amandla ezocansi nobuciko bokusondelana kwenye into? Ubulili - lokhu kuyi-tranquilizer enhle kakhulu eyenziwe ngemvelo, inikeza into yenjabulo. Yiqiniso, akufanelekile ukuyilahla egameni lokuzalwa komdwebo omusha noma i-symphony emangalisayo. Kodwa awukwazi ukulungisa ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ubuqili bugcwele amandla angokomoya, kusiza ukuthola incazelo entsha yokuba khona. Yingakho abadali bevame ukuba ne-luster enomusa emehlweni abo, futhi kube nomthelela omkhulu ngisho nangesikhathi esihloniphekile kakhulu. Akumangalisi ukuthi: "Owesifazane onomdla kumyeni wakhe akanandaba nanoma ubani." Ngakho-ke kungcono uma ubulili kanye nokuhlukunyezwa kuhambisana. Khona-ke konke ukuphila kuzophenduka ukunyakaza kusuka enjabulweni kuya enjabulweni.