Mhlawumbe uqaphele ukuthi isifiso sakho socansi asiyona ingozi. Ezinsukwini ezithile zenyanga unesifiso sobuqili sobulili, nakwezinye izinsuku - ngokuphambene nalokho. Kwenzeka ukuthi ukucasuka ngaphandle kwesizathu esivela kulokho kuphakama, kodwa kwenzeke, ngokuzumayo yonke into iba yilapho futhi ihle ngaphandle kwezizathu ezibonakalayo. Ungacabangi ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle nawe. Kuzo zonke ama-hormone amaphutha. Izinsuku zokujikeleza kanye nesimo sakho sengqondo socansi sixhunyaniswe ngokuqinile. Awazi ngisho ukuthi unamandla kanjani ...
Ama-hormone asithinta inhliziyo yethu, imikhuba yokudla, ukubukeka kwethu nempilo yonke. Futhi uma la madoda ezinzile kakhulu kule ndaba, khona-ke abesifazane esikhathini esingangenyanga isizinda se-hormonal sishintshwa kakhulu kakhulu. Naphezu kokuthi ubude bomjikelezo womuntu ngamunye wesifazane buhlukile, ngokuvamile, ukuqhuma kwama-hormonal kanye nokuwa kwe-hormonal kwenzeka cishe cishe ngezikhathi ezithile kusukela ekuqaleni kokuya esikhathini. Futhi, ukwazi izimo zakho eziphawulekayo zokushintsha kwe-hormone, ungayisebenzisa ngokuhlakanipha futhi ngisho nokwakha impilo yakho, uthembele ekuziphatheni kwamahomoni ngaphakathi kwakho.
Ngezinsuku ezahlukene zomjikelezo, ubuhlungu bobulili buhlukile kakhulu, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi yiziphi izici zomzimba wakho, ukuze ungazitholi izinkinga ezingathí sina ohlelweni lwezocansi. Kungaba kuhle ukubika lezi zici kumuntu othandekayo wakho. Uma ekuthanda ngempela, uzoqaphela futhi ngeke enze inkinga lapho engekho khona. Ukusebenza ndawonye ngezikhathi ezinjalo kusondelene kakhulu, kusiza ukwazi omunye kangcono futhi kubonise ukuthi uyakwazi kanjani ukuqonda nokwamukela izici zomlingani wakho.
Izinsuku ezi-1 ukuya ku-5
Phakathi nalesi sikhathi isikhathi sokuya esikhathini kwenzeka. Nakuba kungase kube bufushane noma bude kunezinsuku ezingu-5. Ngalesi sikhathi, umzimba wandisa ngokushesha izinga le-hormone estrogen. I-progesterone, ephoqa izifiso zobulili, manje ithinta wena obuthakathaka kakhulu. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukutshela, cishe akukhona. Ibhola lilawulwa yi-estrogen - i-hormone yomsebenzi nesifiso sobulili. Yingakho ngokuvamile owesifazane ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini (ikakhulukazi ekupheleni kwawo) uzizwa ekhuphuka ngamandla futhi eqonda ukuthi ufuna nje ubulili obubi. Futhi, ngokumangalisa, kulesi sikhathi lapho abantu bezwa khona isifiso esinamandla kunazo zonke. Lokhu kuyinhloko yobufazi bakho nobulili. Yebo, nawe ngokwakho uzizwa wesifazane futhi ukhululekile ngesifiso esivuthayo sokudlala ngothando.
Izinsuku eziyisithupha kuya ku-10
Ukuya esikhathini sekuphelile, futhi umzimba ulungele ukukhiqiza amaqanda amasha, okusho ukuthi umzimba uveza isrogen ngaphezulu. I-Estrogen iyi-hormone esenza sikwazi ukuvuleka futhi silungele ukuxhumana nabantu abaningi. Nokho, kulezi zinsuku, siba yizicabha nakakhulu, futhi singamemeza kuwo wonke umhlaba: "Ngithathe!". Ngalesi sikhathi, ukuthintana ngokomzimba kuyigugu kakhulu futhi kumnandi ukunikeza injabulo yomlingani kunokuthola i-orgasm. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, ubudlelwane nomuntu buyinto enesibindi kakhulu futhi ithenda, okuthakazelisayo futhi obuseduze. Sebenzisa lokhu ukuze uthole ubuhlobo obuseduze nokuhlala njalo.
Izinsuku ezingu-11 kuya ku-15
Lesi sikhathi singabizwa ngokuthi "Ukuqapha, ngiyeza!" Izinga le-estrogen lifinyelela phezulu, ukuvuthwa kwenzeka. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, i-hormone yesilisa i-testosterone iphinde ihlasele umsebenzi womzimba, okungenisa izixhumanisi zobudlova futhi ushintshe isimo sakho sengqondo socansi emmpandeni. Futhi, hhayi okungcono. Isibonelo, ungakwazi ukukhuluma ngokujabula nomfana omuhle, wenze ubuhlobo naye, kodwa ngokushesha nje lapho enza umzamo wokusondeza - uqhuma futhi uyinqabe. Ngezinye izikhathi kuhle kabi futhi kungenangqondo. Khona-ke unamahloni, awuqondi ukuthi yini engalungile kuwe. Kodwa angifuni ubulili nhlobo, ngisho nezwi lami liba libi kakhulu, ngezinye izikhathi ngifuna ukushaya umuntu. Lokhu konke kungenxa yokwanda kwezinga le-testosterone kanye ne-hormone ekhethekile i-oxytocin, umsebenzi okumele ukhiqize iqanda futhi uyivikele ekuhlaselweni ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Lona uhlobo lwe "antisex" emzimbeni. Ivuselela izithintelo ze-uterine ukuze uthole isisindo esinamandla seqanda kanye nokuhamba kwayo ngokusebenzisa i-tube fallopian. Ngalesi sikhathi, ungaba nobuhlungu esiswini esingaphansi, esifubeni, isimo sengqondo esinengiso ngisho nokuphakama kokushisa komzimba kuya ku-37.5. Ngokuvamile, akusona isikhathi esihle sokusondelana. Nakuba, uma uhlela ukuba nengane nomlingani, manje yisikhathi esihle kakhulu sokukhulelwa. Ngeke uthole lutho olujabulisayo ngobulili, kodwa amathuba okukhulelwa ngokomoya ngezikhathi ezithile.
Izinsuku ezingu-16 kuya ku-22
I-progesterone - i-hormone ephoqa ukulangazelela, ilahlekelwa ithonya layo. Ngalesi sikhathi, abanye besifazane banomuzwa wokuphuza ama-hormone, abanye, ngokuphambene nalokho, bayathukuthela. Lesi yisikhathi esiyinkinga kakhulu nezinsuku ezingavamile kakhulu zomjikelezo. Ukufutheka kwakho ngokobulili akunakulinganiswa ngalesi sikhathi. Kungashintsha izikhathi eziningana ngisho nangosuku. Isici esiyinhloko salesi sikhathi sinciphisa ubuzwe obuningi bomzimba. I-progesterone yenza njenge-anesthetic. Iqeda ukuzwela kwezindawo ezihlukumezayo, i-orgasm ayinamandla kakhulu. Kodwa, uma ubuzwa ubuhlungu (nge-trauma noma nje ngenxa yesifo), khona-ke phakathi nalesi sikhathi ubuhlungu buyanyamalala. Ungamangazi uma namhlanje uzobe "uzolile", futhi kusasa uzozizwa unxanela ukulala ngobulili - lokhu kuwumphumela we-prognozin.
Izinsuku ezingu-23 kuya ku-28
Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, uvame ukufuna ukuba wedwa. I-Estrogen ne-progesterone sebefinyelele ezingeni eliphansi kakhulu-manje i-testosterone inelungelo lokumisela isimo sengqondo. Umzwelo wokukhathala nokunganaki kuvela phambili. Abesifazane abaningi bayaqaphela ukuthi abakwazi manje ukuphendula kumlingani ngokuphindaphindiwe. Futhi, ngokumangalisayo, umzimba uveza ukuthi usulungele ucansi, kanti ubuchopho buthi: "Hlanganisa!". Lesi simo esingathandeki sezindaba senza uhlupheke futhi ucabange ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle kuwe, esikhundleni sokuvuma ngobuqotho kumlingani wakho.
Akufanele ukhohlwe ukuthi i-orgasm iyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuphumula. Kodwa kuphela lapho bobabili befuna. Ungakhohlwa ngezici ezithile zezinsuku ezithile zomjikelezo kanye nesimo sakho sengqondo socansi ngalesi sikhathi. Awudingi ukuphoqelela ukuba ufune ucansi, lapho umzimba uphikisa. Yazi nje ukuthi lesi senzakalo sesikhashana futhi siphila isikhathi esifushane, ngakho-ke kufanele nje ulinde kancane.