Umbala wamehlo nomlingiswa

Ngokuvamile sifuna ukuqonda uhlamvu lomhlaba wangaphakathi we-interlocutor. Ukuze senze lokhu, sihlaziya izenzo zakhe, silalele lokho akushoyo nokuthi kanjani, sibona ukuma kwakhe, ukubonakaliswa kwesbuso, ukubonakala kwakhe. Futhi uyazi yini ukuthi umbala wamehlo wembula umlingiswa womuntu?
Amehlo aluhlaza.
Inkani, inqunyiwe, iphikelela. Lokhu kuvame ukuqeqeshwa. Bajabulela igunya, kodwa abavame ukuphuma njengabaholi. Zingokwemvelo kokungokoqobo nobulungiswa.
Abanikazi bamehlo aluhlaza ngenxa yezimfuno eziphakeme abayitholi kahle. Bahlukaniswa yimfihlakalo, kodwa bona ngokwabo bayazi kahle abantu. Zibonakaliswa ukuthobeka nokungaboni ngaso linye.
Abantu abangabazi, bangenakuqhathaniswa futhi baziqhenya, ngenxa yabathandekayo babo - abathandekayo nabathandekayo.

Ama-Brown, amehlo amnyama.
Khombisa isimo esinzima. Zibonakaliswa ngamandla, uthando, injabulo. Bayibaholi abakhuthele, abazethembayo nabanenhloso. Kubo, ukuqashelwa ngabantu kuyimfuneko edingekayo emsebenzini.
Ziyizinto ezikhangayo, ezinokwenyama nokuthanda.

I-hazel ekhanyayo, amehlo e-hazel.
Umbala okhanyayo we-iris uyisibonakaliso samahloni nokuthobeka komnikazi wabo. Laba bantu abasebenza kanzima, abajwayele ukuthembela kuphela. Ziyavumelana nezimo futhi zizwela.

Umbala we-blue eye.
Izici: zothando, ziphupha, zisengozini, zizwela. Bangabantu abanomusa nabaqotho. Ngokuvamile abanamakhono. Isici sabo esiyingqayizivele ngumbono ocebile nomcabango.
Iphunga elibomvu elibandayo leso lingelabantu abanonya. Abantu abanjalo bazidinga ngokwabo nakwabanye, abanenhloso, njengokwehlukahluka.
Amehlo ama-shades afudumele ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka akhuluma ngokuncintisana komlingiswa.

Amehlo amhlophe.
Bachaza izisebenzi ezithembekile nezithembekile. Elinganiselayo, ehlakaniphile, ewusizo, evinjelwe futhi ngisho eyomile ekukhulumisaneni. Nikeza umuzwa wokulondeka. Zihlobene nabantu abangebona ubugovu, abanokwanele abagcinwa kahle. Nika njalo iseluleko nokusekelwa ezikhathini ezinzima.

Umbala obomvu okwesibhakabhaka.
Uhlamvu lwabo luyingxube yezimfanelo zabanikazi bamehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka nogrey. Inzuzo enamandla iyinhlanganisela ephelele yokucabanga nemicabango.

Amehlo aluhlaza-aluhlaza.
Abantu abanombala wamehlo bahlukaniswa yi-pragmatism, umbono ongokoqobo wezinto, ukucabanga okubandayo kanye nokukwazi ukuzwa isimo esibucayi. Bahlanganisa inzwa nokuhlakanipha, ukuguquguquka nokuqonda. Ziyabonakala ngokukhathalela nangesihawu.
Banobubele, kodwa umuntu ophikisana nawo, ubeka ingozi yokunyathelwa ngesihluku.
Ikhono lokulalela libenza bavame ukubamba iqhaza le-studio kwabanye. Ngokuvamile, bangabantu abanomdlandla futhi abasebenza kanzima.

Umbala wamehlo ophuzi (i-tiger, inyoka).
Akuvamile kubantu. Abanikazi babo, empeleni, ubuntu obuyingqayizivele: okungaqapheli, okwenziwe kahle, ubuciko. Bangabangane abahle futhi abazinikele. Kodwa uNkulunkulu angavumi ukuba abe phakathi kwezitha zabo. Bayifihlile kakhulu, bebuqili, baqondisisa futhi banamathele kakhulu emangeni - cishe akunakwenzeka ukubamba.

Amehlo abomvu-aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka.
I-shades ngayinye iletha uhlamvu oluthile kumlingisi, kodwa alulinganisani nomunye nomunye. Umuntu onombala wamehlo uvame ukudideka lapho ekhetha umugqa wokuziphatha esimeni sezinkinga, kodwa uguqule kalula cishe noma yisiphi isimo. Bangabangane abanokwethenjelwa nabanesineke, kodwa bayanqikaza futhi bahlelekile kancane. Izici ezinjalo zibenza babe nabalingani abangenakuhlala nabo eceleni komholi othembekile nonamandla.

Ama-shades ahlukene angaba khona kulo mbala wamehlo ngokulingana okuhlukile. Futhi yikuphi phakathi kwabo okubaluleke kakhulu, izimfanelo zayo zikhona emlingeni womuntu ngezinga elikhulu.

UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekile isayithi