Konke okungazelelwe kungabi njalo, konke okukuwe akuhambisani, kunamaphutha amaningi kakhulu kuwe futhi umane awuzicabangi ukuthi uhle. Kukhona zonke izinhlobo zokungafani, udinga ukulahlekelwa isisindo, udinga ukushintsha umbala wezinwele zakho, khona-ke ikhala lakho likhulu noma izindlebe zakho, kahle, ubukhulu babo bonke. Ngokuqinisekile udinga ukushintsha ukubukeka kwakho. Lesi simo singavela hhayi nje kuphela ngenxa yobusha obuncane, kodwa futhi ngenxa nje yezinkathazo nokungaqiniseki. Izizathu zingaba kakhulu, kakhulu, kodwa ikakhulukazi konke kuwela ngaphandle.
Kodwa zonke lezi zizathu kanye "nezizathu" ezingenangqondo - lokhu yisithelo somcabango wakho. Wake wake wazibuza ukuthi kungani amantombazane amaningi engathandekayo, abesifazane beba ngamakhosikazi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho namadoda ahle kakhulu futhi athembisayo? Indoda ngokuyinhloko ikhetha intombazane okuzokhululeka kuyo, ezolile, ezithakazelisayo ukuba ziphile, futhi zithande futhi zamukele ngokuphindaphindiwe nokunakekelwa okuningi.
Amazwi amahle omdlali owaziwayo, eqinisekisa ngokugcwele lokho okwakushiwo ngenhla, ukuthi noma yimuphi umuntu ohloniphekile uzomnaka owesifazane onentshisekelo kubo, kunokuba intombazane enemilenze emihle kuphela. Okusho ukuthi, noma ngabe ungumuntu omuhle futhi awunalo lutho kodwa ubuhle ngaphandle, lokhu akuyona inkomba yokuphumelela.
Ukuthi "ukubukeka okuhle" kusho ukuthini?
Ngisho namaGreki asendulo azama ukukhomba izinto eziza kuqala ezibizwa ngokuthi "ukubukeka okuhle." Namuhla, amazwi omculi we-Renaissance, u-Albrecht Durer, ayeyobonakala ngathi amahlaya. Wake wathola uhlelo lwezinga elihle lobuhle, ngokusho ukuthi kwakukholelwa ukuthi izingxenye ezinjalo zobuso njengezindebe nezindlebe kufanele zibe nenani elilinganayo, nobude phakathi kwamehlo - izikhathi eziphindwe izikhathi nesigamu ngaphansi kwesayizi kwezindebe.
Ezikhathini ezehlukene zesikhathi kwakukhona amazinga ahlukene kanye nemigomo yobuhle. Kungaba "abesifazane abakhulu" kakhulu, nabesifazane ku-corsets, okuyinto ngezinye izikhathi abaqinisa kakhulu kangangokuthi bawela ekuguleni. I-proletariat yayinezinhloso zayo kanye nemigomo yokuheha, kwakuyizintombi ezinezinhlobo eziningi "zokuqonda". Inhlangano ihlale inombono wayo mayelana nobuhle beqiniso, futhi ayisoze iqondakala.
Amadoda futhi ahlukaniswe phakathi kwabesifazane abaningi ukulungiswa, izinga, elihambisana kuphela nokunambitheka nokukhethwa kwalo. Noma yimuphi umuntu uzoba nesici esifanele, ukungavumelani, okungeke kufaniswe namazwi "ukuthi ungashintsha kanjani ukubukeka, uma ngingenhle". Futhi kukhona njalo isici, indlela, isici esingamane sihlukanise indoda futhi hhayi ngempela imbangela yalokhu kuyoba ukubonakala. Emva kwakho konke, kukhona amahle ngokuphelele futhi cishe abantu abahle emhlabeni.
Yebo, kukhona nombono othi ingaphandle inendima eyisisekelo kudivayisi endaweni yokusebenzela, ikakhulukazi labo abasebenza lapho isici sokuqala sokuthatha indawo emsebenzini kubonakala kahle: onobuhle, abalobi, abasizi bomuntu siqu, umethuli kanye n njll Futhi kuyaqondakala ukuthi kungani amantombazane amaningi efisa ukushintsha ukubonakala, endaweni ethile ukususa amaphutha abonakalayo futhi asuswe ngokuphelele, futhi ngezinye izikhathi abuye ahlinzekwe ekuhlinzekeni ukuze ashintshe noma iyiphi ingxenye yomzimba wayo. Kodwa ungacabangi ukuthi bonke abaphathi bahlelwa kuphela ekubukeni okuhle kwangaphandle, ngokuyinhloko, imfuneko esemqoka iyoba ngamakhono ochwepheshe.
Ngokwezinye izivivinyo ezenziwa nabantu abakhangayo abangacabangi njengabanjalo. Imiphumela eyithakazelisayo yatholwa, okwakusho ukuthi lowo owayenguye ngaphambili wayenqume kangcono kunalokho okwakamuva. Kodwa futhi, owokuqala kubo wayeqiniseka kakhulu uma kuqhathaniswa neyesibili, okuyinto ekhangayo kakhulu kubaqashi. Kulandela lesi siphetho ukuthi udinga ukuzethemba kuphela, hhayi nje ngobuhle bakho!
Futhi wayazi ukuthi kuneNhlangano Yezwe Yezwe eyazibheka njengabantu ababi. Kukhona manje abantu abangaphezu kuka-25 000 abazibiza ngokuthi "izilo" nabo bonke abavela emhlabeni wonke. Itholakala edolobheni lase-Italy lasePibicco, eliholwa yi-Telesforo Jacobelli oneminyaka engu-68 ubudala.
Emuva ezikhathini zasendulo, kwakukhona umlando mayelana nezintombi ezindala ezingu-128 ezazizicabangela ngokuthi "urodynes", ngenxa yalokho abakwazanga ukuthola amadoda abo. Kwakungenxa yabo ukuthi bavula i-ejensi okuthiwa umshado, okwabasiza ukuba bathuthukise izimpilo zabo.
Bangaki kule nhlangano ngesikhathi esaziwa nabesilisa nabesifazane abangaziwa. Kuyini okuthakazelisayo ngakho kakade 4 "ITALY MISS" !!! Futhi lapha ungabonana nabadlali, izintatheli, osombangazwe, abalobi kanye nabanye abaningi, abaningi.
Kulelo dolobha kwakhiwa isikhumbuzo esithakazelisayo, esizinikezele kubo bonke abazicabangela abantu ababi, ngesimo "somuntu omuhle," esesandleni sakhe isibuko. Ngokusho kweTelesforo, uvumela abantu bazi ukuthi ubuhle akufanele bufunwe ngaphandle, kodwa ngaphakathi kwakhe.
Qiniseka ekungabikho kwakho okungaqondakali!
Kodwa konke akuyona into edabukisayo njengoba laba bantu banalo nhlangano. Abaningi bamane nje aboni "okude kunamitha" kusukela ku-nekrasota okuthiwa yi-nekrasota bese bazama konke okusemandleni abo ukuze bashintshe ukubukeka okubi kumuntu omuhle.
Mhlawumbe udinga ukuguqula isithombe sakho, nje ushintshe izingubo zakho kanye nokwakheka, izinwele zakho. Kuvele kube mnandi, ubuhle futhi buhle. Lapha imithetho elula futhi engahloniphiyo, into eyinhloko ukuthi izingubo zaziyizinga lakho, ikhanda likhishwa ebusweni bomzimba, futhi ukwakheka kufana nesikhathi sosuku (imini, kusihlwa), futhi ngokusho kohlobo lwezinwele (nge-brunette, ama-blondes, abathandekayo abathandekayo abathandekayo babo bezimonyo zezimonyo). Ungesabi ukusebenzisa usizo lwabantu abangabazi, kodwa kunalokho ochwepheshe bezinsimu zabo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi u-stylist, umculi wezinwele noma umculi wokwenza, nokunye okunjalo.
Kodwa into eguquguqukayo kakhulu eyokusiza ukuba ube mnandi, ngokungangabazeki ukuzethemba. Lahla zonke izinhlobo zezinkimbinkimbi nezindlela zokuziqhenya. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma uqinisekile ukuthi indoda ayikwazi ukukunaka, khona-ke lokhu kuqinisekile futhi kuyoba njalo!
Futhi-ke zonke izivalo namathuba kuzoba ezakho!