Iminyango yocwaningo ehlola izinkinga zokugembula nemiphumela yayo emphakathini iphetha ngokuthi ngokuyisisekelo iba umlutha wokugembula labo bantu abafuna ngokushesha futhi kalula ukuthuthukisa isimo sabo sezimali. Kodwa leli phuzu alikwabo bonke, ngoba kunabantu abaningi phakathi kwabadlali abakhululekile. Ngakho-ke, ochwepheshe abaningi abahlanganyeli umbono wokuthi isizathu esiyinhloko yisifiso sokuthuthukisa isimo sabo sezezimali.
Kukhona abantu abangenandaba neze nokugembula, kanti abanye banomzwelo kakhulu. Isigaba sesibili sabantu abanesimiso esingenalutho sezinzwa futhi baba izisulu zokugembula. Abantu abanjalo banenjabulo enjalo, elingana ngokulingana nokujabula okukhulu kunabo bonke. Ngakho-ke, kuze kube yimanje, inkinga yokugembula ibeka ezingeni elilodwa ngezinkinga ezinjalo zomhlaba njengokulutha kwezidakamizwa, ukusetshenziswa kabi kwezidakamizwa nokudakwa ngokweqile.
Ucwaningo lwanamuhla emkhakheni wokugembula lunikeze imiphumela evumela ukuba sihlulele ngezizathu zesifiso esinamandla sokugembula. Ochwepheshe abafanelekile kule nkambu babika ukuthi ngesikhathi sokugembula, ubuchopho okuthiwa ama-hormone ajabulisayo (endorphins) ahlanganiswa egazini lomuntu. Yi-endorphins eyenza umdlali ajabulele njalo inqubo yomdlalo, futhi umphumela womdlalo kubantu abanjalo abaxhomekile akubalulekile kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, ngisho nokuncintisana okukhulu, abadlali ngeke bakwazi ukuyeka.
Ochwepheshe emkhakheni wokutadisha kwengqondo yabantu bahlukanisa amazinga amaningana okuthuthukiswa kwalokhu kuxhomekeke. Esigabeni sokuqala, umuntu udlala kuphela isifiso, ngenkathi enethemba lokuwina. Ngemva kokulahlekelwa imali ethile, lo mdlali uqhubeka edlala, enethemba lokubuyisela emuva imali elahlekile. Emazingeni alandelayo okugembula, abantu bavame ukucindezeleka ngomqondo wokulinda ukunqoba okukhulu futhi kuba nzima ukuyeka isifiso sokudlala. Ososayensi bakuthola kunzima ukuphendula umbuzo lapho umuntu esevele esexhomeke ngokuphelele kumdlalo. Mhlawumbe, lapho umgijimi ngokuzimela ezitatimendeni nasezifisweni zabangane, izihlobo nezihlobo beya ekhasino noma eqembu lezemidlalo. Esikhathini esizayo, ngokulahleka okuqhubekayo, umdlali uyancipha kakhulu futhi ulaka, izigameko emndenini ziqala, izinkinga zivela emsebenzini. Futhi ngenxa yalokho, ukulahlekelwa komndeni nokusebenza.
Into ethakazelisayo kakhulu esimweni samanje ukuthi abantu abancike ekutheni baqonda ngokugcwele ukuthi banecala le nkinga futhi bahlale bebuza futhi becela ukuthethelelwa futhi bathembisa ukuthi ngeke baphinde badlale, kodwa lokhu kuphela baze babone ikhasino noma umdlalo wezemidlalo.
Ekugcineni, ukulahlekelwa komsebenzi oseduze nokuthembisayo kwenza umuntu angene ekucindezelekeni okujulile ngisho nasemicabangweni yokuzibulala noma ukuthunyelwa kobugebengu.
Kuyaphazamisa ngokukhethekile ukuthi izingane nentsha zigula kakhulu ngalesi sifo.
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