Ngoba nguwe owephupho oye waba yinto engokoqobo, indaba yezinganekwane ehlaziya impilo yakhe yempilo yansuku zonke ngemidwebo enemibala. Phela, akekho ofuna nje ukuba isinyathelo esiphakathi, isinyathelo empilweni, izinkumbulo ezingenakwenzeka kanye nesikhathi esichithwayo, ngesikhathi lapho umzuzu ngamunye ulinganiswa nentombazane enhle futhi ukukhulunywa kwalo kukhanya, kuqotho futhi kucacile.
Kodwa yini okudingeka yenziwe ukuze ibe yinto ehle kunazo zonke futhi ethandekayo ngaye? Mhlawumbe kukhona enye i-algorithm, amanye amathiphu? Noma ube yintombazane enhle kakhulu kumuntu othandekayo futhi othandekayo - khona-ke okuthile okuvela kumbono wendaswana nakho konke kuxhomeke kuphela ekufuneni kweso? Ngokuyinhloko, ngicabanga ukuthi ngisho noma konke kusezandleni ze-Destiny, ngeke kulahleke kuwe uma uzama ukwenza into ebuhlotsheni bakho, ushintshe ngokwakho okungcono, ushintshe endaweni ethile, ukuze umfana athande nawe ngokuphindaphindiwe . Kuyadingeka ukuba ube intombazane enjalo-iphupho, ephemeral, ehlakaniphile, engaqondakali. Yiba kuye ukusekelwa okubuthakathaka kodwa okunokwethenjelwa.
Kodwa manje wonke amazwi mayelana nentombazane ekahle, intombazane enhle kakhulu futhi ethandekayo emhlabeni, kuyilapho bona ngokwabo babonakala bezinhle, kodwa ukuba babe yile, ngempela okusemandleni, kubonakala sengathi kuwumsebenzi onzima kakhulu. Empeleni, akunjalo; Umphumela ofunayo ungatholakala ngendlela elula. Kunomthetho owodwa kuphela olula: mjabulise!
Intombazane ekwazi ukunikeza isoka layo injabulo futhi "iyafana": ekhethekile futhi efiselekayo kuye. Umbuzo uvela: yini edingekayo ukwenza lokhu? Indlela yokunikeza, lokhu kuyinjabulo engavamile?
Okokuqala: Mhloniphe futhi umethembe. Wonke umuntu ufuna ukuzizwa efana nokusekelwa kwakho futhi akunike ithuba lokuzizwa "njengodonga lwamatshe." Ufuna ukwazi ukuthi uyamethemba futhi ubheke ukuthi unamandla futhi unesibindi, futhi uyamthanda. Ungalokothi umhlazise futhi ucabange umbono wakhe, ulalele ngokucophelela imicabango yakhe - futhi nawe ufanelwe ukuthembela kwakhe.
Okwesibili: Masiqaphele ukuthi uyamdinga nokuthi uthanda njalo. Ungamsoli njalo ngesisu sesibisi, ugoqa ekhaleni lakhe futhi ukhumbule ukuthi kukhona indawo enjengokuthi "i-gym", futhi ukuzamazama ukucindezela indlu kuyoba, ngendlela ... futhi ngokujwayelekile ngokungazelelwe ufuna ukuthi ubukeke njengaleli - esembozweni somagazini. Kungcono uvumele isoka lakho lizwe lihlale likhangayo futhi likhethekile kuwe, futhi kuyadingeka. Ake akusize ngandlela-thile futhi amqinisekise ukuthi uyamdinga.
Okwesithathu: uthembeke kuye futhi ungaqondile. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele umtshele ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi usebenzise kanjani usuku ngalunye, futhi ngesikhathi sokuqala ukuhlanganyela naye zonke izimfihlo zakhe, uphawule ngakho konke into encane, tshela ukuthi ucabangani ngezizathu ezithile. Wonke umuntu uyazi inkolelo yokuthi intombazane kumele ihlale ingacacile, futhi nenhloso lapho indoda kufanele iyizingele futhi iyinqobe, njengenkosikazi. Kodwa, akekho odingayo izinto ezingavunyelwe njalo, imishwana engavamile, efihlekile, ukubukeka okungenakufinyeleleka okungabonakali. Awunayo i-moose, ukuthi uhlale uzingelwa, okubaluleke ngokwengeziwe kuyoba ukwethembeka okulula nokuvuleka okudingekayo.
Okwesine: Inani labangane bakhe nabazali. Kuyaziwa ukuthi abangane kumfana - kungcwele, futhi ubungane besilisa - bunamandla kunamaketanga amaningi. Akudingekile ukuba ujoyine indawo yakhe futhi ube "isoka lakhe" kubangani bakhe. Kwanele ukuqonda umuntu osemusha futhi uphathe abangane bakhe kahle, futhi ungalokothi umthobe phambi kwabo, futhi uma kukhona ithuba-ngokuphambene - ukuletha.
Okwesishiyagalolunye: Hlola wena. Iso liyathokozeka nentombazane enhle. Iqiniso lokuthi usekukhethile kakade, lifakazela ukuthi nguwe futhi ukholelwa ukuthi uhle futhi uyamthakazelisa. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi manje kufanele uyeke ukuzibuka, ngokusobala ngoba kufanele akujwayele indlela oyikho ngayo. Ukuba nombono omuhle, uzokwenza kube mnandi hhayi ngokwakho kuphela, ukwandisa ukuzethemba kwakho, kodwa ikakhulukazi umfana. Ngamunye wabo ngandlela-thile u-connoisseur ubuhle. Ngakho qhubeka phambili ubuhle bese ulondoloza umhlaba!
Yichitha isikhathi esiningi naye, okungenzeka, kungenzeka, kungaba okuhlukahlukene futhi kuthakazelise kakhulu. Isibonelo, ungakwazi ukuhamba epaki, ugibele inqwaba ephakeme edolobheni lakho, vakashela i-cafe entsha esanda kuvulwa, noma uhlele ipikinikini, uhanjane ukuze uthole ividiyo ehlekisayo ozoyikhumbula isikhathi eside ngokuhleka. Ubudlelwane bungathuthukiswa ngokuthakazelisa, okwenza izipho zothando noma zokudala komunye nomunye: kubhalelana incwadi, ukuhlanganisa ivesi noma indaba ngawe nabangani bakho, ukudweba imephu emcebweni, ekugcineni, ukuthi uzoba yini.
Ungathathi ubuhlobo nje njengendlela yokusebenza kanye nomsebenzi, ngoba, eqinisweni, ungathola izinto eziningi ezithakazelisayo nemizwa, yenza usuku ngalunye luhlangane ndawonye, olukhethekile. Kufanele futhi ukhumbule umqondo wamahlaya abantu abawazisa ngempela. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ube yi-jester kuye, ongalokothi akhathazeke futhi ehleka yonke into ayishoyo, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ithuba lokumenza ahleke emagumbini omzimba. Kodwa izithombe ezimbi manje azikwaziswa, futhi noma ubani ofuna ukuchitha isikhathi nentombazane-inhlekelele, ohlala ekhononda ngento ethile.
Funda ukuba uqobo lwakho, uhloniphe ubuntu bakho bese ukhetha incazelo yegolide kukho konke. Khona-ke asikho isizathu sokukhathazeka ngenxa yokuziphatha kwabo. Futhi okugcina, kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu: yithande. Mthande futhi umenze abe nomuzwa wokuthi uyathandwa - bese uzothola injabulo yangempela. Ngempela, akuyona yonke into edingekayo ukuba ibe yinto enhle, kwanele ukuba ube ngokwakho, ungakhohlwa ngamanye amaqiniso alula ...
Lapha lapha kufanele kube intombazane enhle kumuntu: uthando, isiguli nokuqonda. Futhi ukuba ngowesifazane onjalo kumuntu othandekayo akuyona neze nzima - kungaba khona isifiso!