Indoda ngokwemvelo isithembu kanye nomuntu oyedwa - kungcono nje ukulungiswa, hhayi ukubusa ngokwayo. Abesifazane abaningi, befunda la mazwi, bayodabubula, yilo kuphela olulodwa kimi nokuphila. Indoda idalwe ukunqoba, ukuvikela nokuqhubeka nomndeni wayo, futhi owesifazane akhulise izingane futhi avikele ikhaya. Futhi empeleni kunzima ukuphikisana nemvelo, kuwukuhlakanipha kithi.
Umzwelo wothando uncike ngokuphelele kubo bonke abantu abavamile. Ukuthanda umuntu okufana nokuphefumula. Uma umuntu engakaze azwe umuzwa wothando empilweni - lokho kakade isifo somzimba. Kanye nokungafani nemithetho - ukuthanda umuntu oyedwa konke ukuphila kwakhe, ikakhulukazi uma lo mzwa ungenasici. Futhi kulokhu, kunalokho, amaphuzu angalungile kunokuba ahle.
Futhi ngokuvamile, ngeshwa, ukuphela kuhlale kuqinisile empilweni. Indoda eyodwa ihlale icabanga futhi ikhumbula into ekhonjisiwe futhi ihlushwa ukunqoba konke ukuphila kwayo, kodwa amaphesenti angamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye nesishiyagalolunye ayiphumelelanga. Yiqiniso, ukubuka ifilimu ngothando oluphakade kuthinta futhi kuthandana, kodwa impilo yenza izinguquko zayo, futhi ukuhlala nomuntu oyedwa kubangela izinkinga eziningi.
Yonke impilo yakhe, wonke umuntu ovamile angathanda owesifazane, kodwa ngokunye ukubhuka. Lesi sihloko esihluke ngokuphelele - ungakwazi yini ukuthethelela ukuphinga nokukhohlisa. Indoda engumyeni oyedwa izokuhlupheka iminyaka eminingi, uma imizwa yakhe ingabikho. Ngakho-ke, uma uhlangana nobungqingili endleleni yakho yokuphila futhi akuhambisani nawe, kungcono ukuthi uphule ngokushesha ubudlelwane bonke, ngakho-ke psychihika yakhe izokwazi ukukhipha enye into yokudumisa, uma ubuhlobo bulibalekile, khona-ke uzoba nzima ukuhlukanisa nomuntu onjalo.
Abesifazane abaningi iminyaka eminingi bahlala nabantu abangathandeki odnolyubami kuphela ngenxa yokuzizwa benecala noma ukubonga, noma ngisho nokwesaba ukuphila kwakhe iPsihiku, kodwa hhayi ngenxa yokuzizwa komzimba.
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi uma kukhona abantu ababili phakathi kwabantu ababili bodwa. Kodwa sizophindaphinda, lokhu kuyinto engavamile kakhulu futhi, mhlawumbe, kuphela ezindabeni zezinganekwane noma ezinkampanini namafilimu. Eqinisweni, uthanda eyodwa kuphela, kanti omunye uthanda yena. U-Sostoron ubonakala sengathi lo mbhangqwana uphelele - indlu iyinhlamvu "ephelele", indoda ayibuki ngakwesobunxele - konke kusekuyeni, konke okuqondene nomfazi. Kodwa njengoba bethi, "akekho obuka izigqoko ekamelweni lomunye umuntu." Futhi ngemuva kokuphila okulile, okulinganisiwe nokukhululekile kufihliwe ukuhlupheka kowesilisa ovumela ukuthi athande.
Njengoba lo wesifazane ongowesifazane oyedwa kuphela engaboni imizwa yengxenye yakhe yesibili. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ngimthanda kakhulu, futhi konke okunye akubalulekile, ucabanga. Futhi kakade ucabanga kabili, ehlukumeza owesifazane wesinyathelo sokubonisa imizwelo, ebaphuca ithuba lokuthanda hhayi ukuthandwa. Ukuzikhukhumeza okunjalo ngokomzwelo akuholeli lutho oluhle ebuhlotsheni balo mbhangqwana.
Unquma kanjani ukuthi unamanye amaphesenti amahlanu e-odnolyubov yindoda, noma ayikho.
Uke wahlangana isikhathi eside, futhi akakakutshelanga lutho mayelana nemizwa yakhe, uyaqonda ukuthi uyathandana, kodwa akazange azimisele ukuwamukela isikhathi eside kakhulu. Qonda, wenza ukhetho elilodwa kuphela empilweni yakhe kanye nhlobo, ngakho-ke angakwazi ukuhamba kule minyaka.
Enkampanini noma kumbuthano wabangane kuzo zonke izibonakaliso zokunakwa ohlukile kobulili obuhlukile, akunandaba, futhi ngobuqotho. Yebo, kungenzeka ukuthi lo muntu oyedwa.
Uma kuhambisani nanoma yisiphi isikhathi sokuzijabulisa - kungaba yiholide noma uhambo oluphuma edolobheni ngempelasonto, noma ufuna ukumema i-cinema ezweni lakubo. Yebo, kungenzeka ukuthi ungumuntu oyedwa. Abantu abanjalo bamane babekezelele ngokomzimba ukungabi khona kwezinto zokudumisa.
Engxoxweni, "yami" isetshenziselwa njalo. Yebo, amalungu ama-odnolyuby asabekayo emphakathini futhi ahlale ecindezela lokhu.
Kodwa khumbula ukuthi ukwethembeka nokuzinikela okugcwele kanye nothando olungenabugovu, uyodinga futhi abuye, njalo, njalo, nsuku zonke.
Lungiselela ukuba ube yisibonelo sobumsulwa nomgcini wendlu, akukho ukuvutha nokudlala ngothando nomngane wakho akwamukeli futhi ngeke avumele.
Futhi ulungele, ukuthi uzohlala ehlala eduze nawe njalo njalo njalo yonke indawo, ngisho nase-sauna enezintombi zakhe, ngoba kufanele uzinikezele kuye.
Kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi uzothola uthando olusha noma uzothathwa ngumthwalo omdala, bese uqaphela. Ukusabalalisa ngokuthula nangokuthula ne-odnolyubom ngeke kube lula. Ngeke akuvumele ukuthi ukhohlwe wena ngomzuzu - izingcingo eziqhubekayo, abafika ngezikhathi ezithile nangaphandle kwesizathu, izipho nezimemo zizohamba nawe ngaso sonke isikhathi. Futhi uyohlale uzwa umhlangano ofanayo njalo-ukuhlangana ndawonye futhi uhlale ndawonye, ukhohlwa zonke izinkinga.
Khona-ke lona wesifazane ulindele ukuhlolwa okungathí sina - ukwamukela izimo zakhe noma ukugxila kwi-nasvoem. Lungiselela ukuthi uzocindezela ukuzwelana nozwela, futhi umzwa wakho wecala uphinde wathweswe icala, ukuthi nguwe owabangela ukuba ahlupheke futhi ahlupheke kakhulu. Abesifazane abaningi emva kokuvinjezelwa kwengqondo eside isikhathi eside nje bazinikela futhi baqhubeke behlala nendodana yabo ngaphandle komzwelo, futhi ekugcineni baqhubeke benza ngokwabo ukuhlupheka. Noma kukhona ukukhetha - namanje ungayeki futhi ugcizelele nge-nasvoem. Yebo, uzomenza ahlupheke, kodwa kungenangqondo ukuthi kungenangqondo ukusabalalisa ngokuthula nangokuthula.
Ngakho-ke, uma uguqula nomuntu oyedwa, cabanga izikhathi eziyikhulu - usulungele ukuvivinywa okuphelele.
Noma ingabe usengamaphesenti angamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye nesishiyagalolunye abantu abangenasimo sengqondo futhi abesabi ukukhombisa imizwa yabo nezifiso zabo, futhi balinde okufanayo kusuka okhethiweyo wabo.