Abesifazane abaningi, beya eholidini, bafuna ukuthandana emphefumulweni: njengokungathi uhlangana nomuntu oyedwa futhi oyingqayizivele ozungezile nge-caress nokukhathalela nokunakekelwa. Futhi ngifuna ukuthi uthando olunjalo ludlulise ikhanda lami hhayi kuphela ngesikhathi seholide, kodwa futhi luhlala kuze kube phakade.
Ngakho-ke ungaba kanjani nesikhathi esihle futhi ungahambi ekhaya ngenhliziyo ephukile?
Into yokuqala ongayikwenza ukusetha umgomo: ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo, thola inkaba. Konke kuzokwenzeka ngendlela okufanele kwenzeke ngayo, ngokujwayelekile, ujabulele ulwandle, ulwandle, ukuphumula.
Khumbula ukuthi okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, abantu abaya e-resort ngenxa yezindaba zothando, kufanele baqaphele ngokugcwele ukuthi lobu buhlobo kanye nesikhathi esichithwa yi-resort ngokwayo nje kumnandi.
Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ukuhlobana nencwadi yendawo yokubhuka yowesifazane wesilisa kuhluke kakhulu.
Njengomthetho, amadoda adinga ukuzijabulisa kuphela isikhathi esithile, bafuna ukukhipha, ukuphunyuka empilweni. Izinkemba zabo kulula, zivumele ukuba zihlakulele ebuhlotsheni ngaphandle kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lwezibopho.
Owesifazane ucabanga ngendlela ehlukile, ngombono wakhe, ufanelwe ngisho nenxenye encane yenjabulo, futhi ufuna ukufakazela kumuntu ukuthi yikuphi kakhulu kakhulu. Angakwazi ukuvela enkathini eyodwa enhle ekhanda lakhe inkaba yonke futhi akhumbule iminyaka eminingi.
Indoda ikhona yonke indawo futhi yonke indawo ingumzingeli, umgomo wakhe ukuwina owesifazane, ufuna ukumbonisa ukuthi ufanelekile. Ngakho-ke, masizinakekele, sibonise ukuthi sinikezwa ithuba lokuzithanda thina, ngokulinda.
Kodwa akukho okubi nakakhulu kunomfazi kunesikhathi lapho ehlukumeza, ebuka nxazonke futhi ebamba imibono yabantu, efuna izibopho zesikhashana. Lezi zinduna zigijimela echibini ngamakhanda abo, kuphela emva kokuzwa ukuncoma kokuqala endaweni yokudlela.
Ngalesi sigaba, singathanda ukuhlola zonke izici ezimbi nezingobuhle bobuhlobo obunjalo ukuze sihlole amandla ethu engqondo, futhi, uma kunesidingo, kuqinisekisile izifiso.
Yiziphi izici ezinhle zokuthandana kwamaholide abesifazane?
- Indawo yokubhuka iyiholide yansuku zonke. Lena yithuba lomfazi (njengendoda) ukuba babe yilokho bebelokhu bekhona emphefumulweni - ophanayo, onobuhle, onobukhulu, onomdlandla. Kodwa-ke, ngesizathu esithile, empeleni, umuntu akatholi ukuveza: kuyabiza, kunzima, futhi kuhlanganiswe nokuphila. Futhi indawo yokudlala ingadlala indima eyodwa, indima yokucabanga okude.
- Ukuphumula - iningi le-svidaniy yothando, imizwelo emihle, ukuhamba ngomkhumbi ngesikebhe kanye nemihlangano ogwini lolwandle.
- Ungabelana ngothando ngaphandle kokucabanga, ukhulume ngokwakho ngakho konke okufunayo kuphela. Akekho ozoyihlola!
- Mhlawumbe lo mdlalo wezokuvakasha uzoba ukuqala kwalolu thando lwangempela, noma mhlawumbe, ukuze uthole isiphetho sakho.
- Uma eholidini ubudlelwane nomuntu buyophumelela, ungathola ukuvuselela okusha empilweni, uzokwenqabela ukucindezeleka kwehhovisi le-annoying!
- I-Adventures e-resort ingachitha ubuhlobo nomuntu othandekayo noma umyeni. Awudingi ukukhuluma ngobuhlobo bakho obusha nezintombi zakho.
- Ngeshwa, emabhishi awukwazi ukuhlangabezana nabantu abathandana nabo kuphela, kodwa nabashadile abashadile, amasela. Bangakwazi ukukugcoba, ukuphoqa ikhanda, bese nje uhlala ngezindleko zakho noma ngaphezulu - ukuphanga.
- Ngezihlobo ezingenangqondo, ungabuyela ekhaya ngesifo senereal noma okhulelwe, ngakho kufanele uvikelwe njalo.
- Ubulili ngaphandle kwothando bungabonakala bubi, awufuni ukuhlangabezana namehlo akho, inhliziyo yakho iyobe ingenalutho, ufuna ukuphonsa konke ngokushesha, uphume inhliziyo yakho ...
- Kodwa-ke, ubulili othandweni bungashiya insalela esindayo, ngakho ungathathi kahle kakhulu i-holiday romance.
- Ukuthandana nomuntu ongeyena mfokazi, ungahambi ngehora lokuqala ekomelweni lakhe futhi ungabizi. Kumele siqale siqonde ukuthi ubhekene nobani.
- Ngothando lomshado ungaba nobugovu. Ungacabanga nje ngawe, mayelana nokuthi yini oyifunayo nguwe. Ungathola kumlingani wesikhashana oyifunayo (ukunakekelwa, izipho, ubulili). Kodwa into esemqoka akumele umvumele ukuba asondelane kakhulu nomphefumulo.
- Ngaphambi kokuba wazi kahle umngane wakho omusha, ungathathi ngokungathí sina zonke izithembiso zakhe zokushada, hlukana nomkakho. Uma kwenzeka ngempela, kuyoba mnandi ukumangala.
- Ungakwazi ukuzijabulisa, ujabule! Hamba namaqembu akho omusha, ama-discos, izinkambo. Ake uqondise futhi ulula kuye. Bheka izihloko ezintsha zezingxoxo nezokuzilibazisa ezivamile.
- Ngokuvamile bakholelwa ukuthi amantombazane awawathengi uthando, kodwa athengisa izethulo, izingubo, amakha, futhi akhokhe ekudleni kokudla. Amadoda aseVotov adlala indima yabathandi abathandekayo abalungisa inyama yabo ethandekayo ngaphambi kokuphela kweholide. Ebudlelwaneni awudingi ukuvumela lokhu kwenzeke, khumbula, kuphela umuntu okufanele anakekele.
Unganquma kanjani ubuhlobo obusha?
Uma ungeke unqume ukuqhubeka, khona-ke udinga ukuyeka ubuhlobo obuqalisiwe uma useholide. Tshela umndeni wakho omusha ukuthi uchithe isikhathi se-chic naye, kepha uthando lwakho luphelile kanye nokuphela kokunye, akukho ithemba lokuqhubeka. Izizathu akudingeki zichazwe, futhi akufanele ube nomuzwa wecala.
Kodwa uma uthandana kakhulu futhi ungashiyi umuzwa wokuthi ngaphandle kwalowo muntu awukwazi ukuphefumula, khona-ke ungaphila kanjani ukuhlukana kuleli cala?
Inkinga kuphela ukuthi kusukela endaweni yosuku lwakho lomshado eholidini kuzodingeka uhambe emadolobheni ahlukene. Futhi uhlupheka ukuthi le nkathi ikunike injabulo kusuka kude.
Futhi yilokho ukuhlehliswa kwesikhulumi, izinyembezi zokubamba izithembiso nezithembiso. Kwaphela, futhi ushiywe wedwa. Ufuna ukukhala njalo, futhi uhlale ukhumbuza izinkumbulo, khumbula ubuso bomdabu. Wonke umuntu wesifazane ngalesi sikhathi ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ubhekene naso, kunzima yena kanye nawe, noma "Kuthiwani uma esekhohliwe kakade ngami?"
Ukuze ungalokothi ulahlekelwe ithemba, kufanele ulandele imithetho:
- Umthetho wokuqala: ungacabangi ngokubi. Ngisho nalapho uhambela kwelinye idolobha ngesitimela, ungaphuthelwa, uthathe umagazini othakazelisayo noma iqoqo lama-non-jokes ukuze uthole isimo sakho sengqondo.
- Ungabandakanyi umculo we-melancholy mayelana nokuhlukanisa, uthando. Kumelwe sikholwe ukuthi awunaso isizathu sokudabuka, kulungile ukuthi ubuhlobo obuhle kangaka buphelile. Zonke izinyembezi zakho namazwi akho aqotho futhi aphuma enhliziyweni.
- Akudingekile ukwakha udonga lokungathembeki - kuyoba kubi nakakhulu. Vele ukhulume ngemizwa ngokwakho, ngaphandle kokulahla. Uzobona lokho okukhathazayo ngakho, ukuthi uhlala kuphi.
- Kumele siziphathe ngesithunzi. Akudingeki ucingo kuqala, i-nikudon ngeke ilahleke uma ithanda ngempela. Ukuxhumana kufanele kube kuhle: ungakhathazeki futhi ubuze "Ingabe usangithanda?".
- Phila ngokuzithokozisa kwakho: uhlele amaholide ezihlotsheni, ujwayele abantu abasha, unesithakazelo esikhulu esivumelwaneni esisha, usebenze noma ufunde.
- Ngaphandle kokuhlukaniswa, akukho mhlangano. Cabanga futhi ukholwe ukuthi uthando lwakho luzodlula isikhathi sokuhlolwa.
Kodwa kunoma yikuphi, ungadabuki ngothando lomsebenzi, ungazizwa unecala noma unonya, owehliswa isilingo. Ukusesha ngothando kuyiphutha njalo nokuhlolwa.