Amatshe angaphansi kwamanzi weveli yokubhuka

Abesifazane abaningi, beya eholidini, bafuna ukuthandana emphefumulweni: njengokungathi uhlangana nomuntu oyedwa futhi oyingqayizivele ozungezile nge-caress nokukhathalela nokunakekelwa. Futhi ngifuna ukuthi uthando olunjalo ludlulise ikhanda lami hhayi kuphela ngesikhathi seholide, kodwa futhi luhlala kuze kube phakade.


Ngakho-ke ungaba kanjani nesikhathi esihle futhi ungahambi ekhaya ngenhliziyo ephukile?

Into yokuqala ongayikwenza ukusetha umgomo: ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo, thola inkaba. Konke kuzokwenzeka ngendlela okufanele kwenzeke ngayo, ngokujwayelekile, ujabulele ulwandle, ulwandle, ukuphumula.

Khumbula ukuthi okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, abantu abaya e-resort ngenxa yezindaba zothando, kufanele baqaphele ngokugcwele ukuthi lobu buhlobo kanye nesikhathi esichithwa yi-resort ngokwayo nje kumnandi.

Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ukuhlobana nencwadi yendawo yokubhuka yowesifazane wesilisa kuhluke kakhulu.

Njengomthetho, amadoda adinga ukuzijabulisa kuphela isikhathi esithile, bafuna ukukhipha, ukuphunyuka empilweni. Izinkemba zabo kulula, zivumele ukuba zihlakulele ebuhlotsheni ngaphandle kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lwezibopho.

Owesifazane ucabanga ngendlela ehlukile, ngombono wakhe, ufanelwe ngisho nenxenye encane yenjabulo, futhi ufuna ukufakazela kumuntu ukuthi yikuphi kakhulu kakhulu. Angakwazi ukuvela enkathini eyodwa enhle ekhanda lakhe inkaba yonke futhi akhumbule iminyaka eminingi.

Indoda ikhona yonke indawo futhi yonke indawo ingumzingeli, umgomo wakhe ukuwina owesifazane, ufuna ukumbonisa ukuthi ufanelekile. Ngakho-ke, masizinakekele, sibonise ukuthi sinikezwa ithuba lokuzithanda thina, ngokulinda.

Kodwa akukho okubi nakakhulu kunomfazi kunesikhathi lapho ehlukumeza, ebuka nxazonke futhi ebamba imibono yabantu, efuna izibopho zesikhashana. Lezi zinduna zigijimela echibini ngamakhanda abo, kuphela emva kokuzwa ukuncoma kokuqala endaweni yokudlela.

Ngalesi sigaba, singathanda ukuhlola zonke izici ezimbi nezingobuhle bobuhlobo obunjalo ukuze sihlole amandla ethu engqondo, futhi, uma kunesidingo, kuqinisekisile izifiso.

Yiziphi izici ezinhle zokuthandana kwamaholide abesifazane?

Ake sibhale izici ezimbi zobuhlobo obunjalo:
Indlela yokuthakazelisa indoda?

Unganquma kanjani ubuhlobo obusha?

Uma ungeke unqume ukuqhubeka, khona-ke udinga ukuyeka ubuhlobo obuqalisiwe uma useholide. Tshela umndeni wakho omusha ukuthi uchithe isikhathi se-chic naye, kepha uthando lwakho luphelile kanye nokuphela kokunye, akukho ithemba lokuqhubeka. Izizathu akudingeki zichazwe, futhi akufanele ube nomuzwa wecala.

Kodwa uma uthandana kakhulu futhi ungashiyi umuzwa wokuthi ngaphandle kwalowo muntu awukwazi ukuphefumula, khona-ke ungaphila kanjani ukuhlukana kuleli cala?

Inkinga kuphela ukuthi kusukela endaweni yosuku lwakho lomshado eholidini kuzodingeka uhambe emadolobheni ahlukene. Futhi uhlupheka ukuthi le nkathi ikunike injabulo kusuka kude.

Futhi yilokho ukuhlehliswa kwesikhulumi, izinyembezi zokubamba izithembiso nezithembiso. Kwaphela, futhi ushiywe wedwa. Ufuna ukukhala njalo, futhi uhlale ukhumbuza izinkumbulo, khumbula ubuso bomdabu. Wonke umuntu wesifazane ngalesi sikhathi ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ubhekene naso, kunzima yena kanye nawe, noma "Kuthiwani uma esekhohliwe kakade ngami?"

Ukuze ungalokothi ulahlekelwe ithemba, kufanele ulandele imithetho:

Kodwa kunoma yikuphi, ungadabuki ngothando lomsebenzi, ungazizwa unecala noma unonya, owehliswa isilingo. Ukusesha ngothando kuyiphutha njalo nokuhlolwa.