Ukubheka isikhathi eside nokuhlolwa okungaqiniseki: Yebo! Amakhono athile kanye nezakhiwo zomlingisi ziyiqiniso kithi. Kodwa ngesikhathi sokuphila bashintsha, ezintsha zithola, zishintsha izici zobuso. Ngakho-ke ukunganeliseki njalo kunciphisa izingxenyana zezindebe phansi, inkani yenza i-clench yesikhumba iphinde ikhiphe isikhumba esibucayi, isimo sengqondo esilula sifaka emaceleni omlomo. Yini ongayifunda ngomuntu ngokutadisha ubuso bakhe ngokucophelela?
Amehlo
"Isibuko somphefumulo" - akusilo lutho leli gama elisetshenziselwa ukukhuluma ngamehlo! Bakwazi ukukhuluma nge-interlocutor kakhulu kunalokho ngezinye izikhathi yena ngokwakhe.
- Amehlo amakhulu. Ngokuvamile bakholelwa ukuthi abantu abanamehlo amakhulu, abanamehlo amaningi banesidingo, ubuciko, baqonde, futhi benza ngokuzimisela futhi ngokukhululekile. Kodwa-ke, bathambekele ekucabangeni okufisa futhi bevilapha.
- Amehlo amancane anelungelo lomuntu siqu, kepha kunokuba avaliwe futhi engavumelani, engakulungeli ukubeka abanye imicabango yabo. Ngokuvamile babe nomhawu kakhulu.
- Amehlo amakhulu akhuluma ngokubona kwangaphambili komuntu nomcabango othuthukisiwe kakhulu. Izimo ezinjengalezi, njengombuso, abantu bayakha futhi banemisebenzi eminingi.
- Amehlo asondelene - isabelo, qaphela imininingwane. Kodwa ngasikhathi sinye ngokuphathelene nokulimala futhi futhi unomlingisi owomile.
- Ukuthambekela kwamehlo kuya phezulu kubonisa uhlamvu oluhle, intukuthelo kanye nombono ojabulisayo empilweni.
- Ukuthambekela kwamehlo phansi kukhona ikhono lokuzwelana nokuvimbela izinkinga ngaphambi kokuba zenzeke.
- Uma izingxenyeni zangaphakathi nezangaphandle zamehlo zitholakala cishe emgqeni owodwa wengqondo - ngaphambi kokuba ube ngumuntu okhukhumezayo nonenkani, owazi ukuthi ufuna yini empilweni futhi ufeze imigomo ebekiwe.
- Amehlo ekuqalisweni akubonakaliswa ngentshiseko kanye nesifiso sokuhlanganyela emiphakathini yabanye.
- Ukutshala ngokujulile - mayelana nokugubha, ukuqapha nokuvimbela.
Ngokuphambene nenkolelo evamile, ukuhlala isikhathi eside akusho ukuthi "ukuthanda." Kunalokho, kuyisibonakaliso se-conservatism. Kodwa uma ikhala lide kakhulu futhi likhulu, kunobuntu obonisiwe ngokucacile noma ngisho ... ubuhlakani obungenasisekelo.
- Ikhala elifushane lithi umnikazi wakhe unengqondo evulekile, usebenza kanzima futhi unenhlalo. Abantu abanjalo bathanda ukuthola yonke into emisha nengafundiwe, izimfihlakalo nemigqabhezana ibabheka.
- Ikhala elikhulu lingelabaholi, ubuntu obuhle, bezama ukulawula abantu abazungezile.
- Abantu abahlukumezekile baphatha kalula ukudala umkhosi wokuzijabulisa, abayimimoya futhi banamandla ngokwemvelo.
- Ikhala le-Bony elinenhlanzi - inkomba yokuziqhenya, inkani nokuziqhenya. Lapho kukhulunywa ngokwengeziwe le ndawo, abantu abangakhululekile kakhulu.
- Ukwanda phansi kwempumu kungabonisa isifiso sokunakekela nokusekela abanye.
- Kancane, njengokungathi kucindezelwe ekuqaleni, ukuzimela nokungafuni ukwamukela usizo. Iphuzu lempumulo, eliphakanyisiwe, likhuluma ngokuphambene nokucindezela komuntu. Uma ikhala libuye libukhali - mayelana nesifiso nokukhukhumeza. Bent phansi - umuntu akathandeki ukuthembela kwabanye, uyangabaza, ugobile futhi abukhali - ubugovu nokuzikhukhumeza. Amaconsi amancane amemezela ngenkuthalo, uhlamvu olunempilo kanye nokungafani, okukhulu kakhulu - mayelana nokukhetha nokuphana. Uma amaphiko omuntu ebanzi ngokwanele, khona-ke singasho ukuthi uvame ukuzethemba ngokweqile, kukhona ububi nokungabaza.
Ngesimo, ubukhulu nesimo sezindlebe, futhi, umuntu angafunda okuthile ngomuntu.
Izindlebe ezinkulu - isibonakaliso sokuba khona kwamakhono omculo nememori enhle. Abantu abanezindlebe ezinjalo bavame ukuphazamiseka, kodwa kuhle-kumvelo.
Izindlebe ezincane. Abanikazi bezindlebe ezincane abathandi ukuhleka futhi bathambekele ekuthembeleni amehlo abo, bazimele futhi basebenze ukuze baphumelele, ngokuvamile kufanele basebenze kanzima.
Izindlebe eziphakeme kakhulu ziwuphawu lokuhlakanipha okukhulu. Ukuphansi - ukuphuza nokukwazi ukulalela ulwazi olusha. I-Lop-eared, njengombuso, inenkani, inemfundo enhle futhi ijwayele ukuhlaziywa.
Izindlebe, ifomu elincane, libonisa ukuthi umuntu uyakwazi ukuqonda yonke into endizeni.
Umlomo
Njengamaso, umlomo uthathwa njengenye yezingxenye ezikhangayo kakhulu ebusweni. Ukulingisa ubuhle beTV, amantombazane amaningi azuza izinhlobo ezahlukene ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene. Futhi konke ngoba uhlobo oluvuthayo lwezindebe luhlobene nokuzethemba nokuziphatha ngokobulili. Ngabantu abanjalo futhi ningabi nesithukuthezi: zivulekile, zijabule, ziyakwazi ukujabulela ukuphila. Akuyona nje umthwalo wemfanelo, akukho isiyalo esivela kubo ongeke ulinde.
Abantu abanezindebe ezincane, ngisho noma banobungane futhi bezenhlalo, bangakwazi "ukujabulisa" hhayi izici ezinhle kakhulu: ubuqili, ukufihla, ukuqamba. Unomlomo omncane? Ngakho-ke, uyisixwayiso, uqaphele, ukhululekile, ukwazi kuphela omunye umuntu osondelene naye, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi uzibandakanya kancane.
Izindebe ze-convex, njengokungathi zilenga phezu kwesikhumba, ziyisici sabantu abathintekayo, abakhuthele nabahlakaniphile.
I-lip engenhla ihamba ngaphezu kwephansi-umnikazi wezindebe ezinjalo akayize, uthanda ukuba phakathi nendawo yomuntu wonke, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo kuyinto engacabangi, esaba ukwenza ukuhamba okungalungile.
Umlomo ophansi, ovelele phambili - umuntu unamandla, angeke ahlale phansi, uthanda ukwakha i-whirlpool yezenzakalo ezungezile, ngesikhathi esifanayo uyayiphendula futhi ngeke azinaki izinkinga zabanye abantu.
Ama-lips of lips
Ngokusho ukulinganisa kwezindebe zakhe, umuntu angakwazi ukufunda imizwa engathandeki kakhulu ye-interlocutor ukuze anqume indlela akuphathe ngayo nokuthi uyini isimo sengqondo.
- Izindebe ezicindezelekile - intukuthelo, ukudabuka, ukufutheka, inzondo, ukunganeliseki, usizi. Izindebe ezicindezelweyo, ezicindezelweyo ngentambo encane, intukuthelo engenamandla.
- Izindebe ezingenalutho zibonisa ubutha.
- Ukuphazamiseka komlomo lapho ukhuluma ne-interlocutor - umuntu uhlelwa engathandeki, ngisho noma engabonisi ngalendlela.
- Umlomo uhlaselwa kunoma iyiphi indlela - uphawu lokudelela.
- Uma umlomo uphazamisa futhi ushaqhaqhazela, khona-ke uxwayisa ngokukhathazeka nangokukhathazeka okukhulu kwe-interlocutor.
- Amakhonkco omlomo abheka phansi - isimo sokudakwa, ukudabuka, ukudabuka.
- Amakhonkco omlomo akhululekile futhi aqondiswe phansi - lo muntu usemoyeni othukuthele.
- Amakhonkco omlomo akhathele kakhulu futhi abuke phansi - lo muntu ulahliwe unfriendly, esimweni sokuhlekisa, ukuhlekwa usulu, ukucasuka, ukujula.