Bonke abantu bangabheka kuhle, bezinhle, behle, bangenasidingo, bahlambalaza, bahlambalaza, badabuka. Kukhona labo abanenhliziyo engenakuqonda okukuvumela ukuthi ube yizithonjana zesitayela, kanti abanye abangenalo lo mnandi bangalimaza kakhulu idumela lakho noma impilo yakho yonke.
Abanye abafana abanalo umuzwa wesitayela ngokuphelele, abanye bazalwa nabo, kanti okwesithathu kubangelwa yimizamo ende kanye nomsebenzi wokuzikhandla. Konke lokhu kuxhomeke ekufisweni komfana, njengoba wonke umuntu uyazi, ungafunda konke. Njengoba umfana efaka umqondo wesitayela futhi yini ehlobene nayo?
Imizwa esiza ekwakheni isitayela
Uma kuziwa ngesitayela, umuntu akakwazi ukusiza kodwa akhumbule ukuba khona kwemizwa eyisisekelo, isibonelo, ukuthinta, ukubona, ukuhogela, ukuzwa, ukunambitheka kanye nokufunda. Le mizwa isiza ukukhetha noma ukudala isithombe sakho, kepha lokhu kuyadingeka ukuba uthuthukise ngokwakho umuzwa obalulekile - njengomqondo wesitayela.
Umuntu unemizwa eyisithupha eyisisekelo ayisebenzisayo nsuku zonke: ukuzwa, ukubona, ukuhogela, ukuthinta, intuition. Yile mizwa eyisisekelo engenza inqwaba yemizwa ehlukahlukene eyengeziwe. Ukuphelele kwazo zonke lezi zemizwa kusiza ukwenza ukhetho lwakho ngalunye ekusebenzeni isitayela sakho esihlukile. Ukuthuthukisa umqondo wesitayela kumadoda kungenziwa ngomzamo, umzamo, kanye nomphumela ozophuma, ungadlula konke okulindelwe.
Imithetho yokwenza isitayela somfana
Ukuze uthole umphumela odingekayo, udinga ukukhumbula eminye imithetho:
- Ungesabi ukulingisa abantu abahlelekile futhi baphumelele. Uma ujwayele isithombe sakho, ungaqonda kancane kancane indlela yokuzimela ngokuzimela isitayela sakho.
- Kudingekile ukuthi ufunde ikhono elifanele lokuhlanganisa imibala ezembatho, ukuhlanganisa ubujamo nezitayela.
- Ungabi ovilapha ukufunda omagazini bezemfashini, udinga ukuqapha njalo izitayela ezimfashini nezitayela. Ungesabi ukuzama izitayela ezihlukahlukene.
- Kufanelekile ukuhamba nesoka lakhe ndawonye ezitolo bese uthatha izingubo ezinjalo, okuyinto, ngokusho kwentombazane, kumele agqoke, noma athathe lokho okuya kuye. Ngakho-ke, uzoqonda lokho akudingayo ukuze alwele.
- Kuyafaneleka ukulalela imibono yabanye abaqonda isitayela nemifashini yefashini.