Kubonakala sengathi akuyona into eyinkimbinkimbi lapha, intombazane ithatha isongo emlenzeni wayo futhi ingaya ekuhlangabezaneni nesiphetho. Kodwa bambalwa abantu ngesikhathi esifanayo bayazi ukuthi akuyona yonke intombazane efanelekayo le mhlobiso. Owesifazane othile udinga isongo esikhethekile.
Emathunzini abavubukuli bavame ukuthola amasongo ezinyaweni zabo, futhi bathwalwa ngenjabulo ngabesifazane besendulo. Lokhu okunethezeka kungavunyelwa kuphela abesifazane abavela emphakathini ophezulu. Kodwa lolu chungechunge lwalugqoke futhi ngamantombazane ayenomsebenzi omdala kunazo zonke - ukudayisa emzimbeni wabo. Amantombazane ayegqoke isongo emlenzeni wesobunxele, nalabo besifazane ababefuna ukuhlangana nokuveza inkululeko, bagqoke izinketho ezinhle kakhulu ezinyaweni zokunene.
Namuhla, le mithetho ayihlonishwa kakhulu, futhi bambalwa abazi ngakho. Uma esikhathini sethu intombazane inquma ukuthenga isongo emlenzeni wakhe, uzokwenza, ngoba lolu chungechunge alugcini nje kuphela, kodwa futhi lungagcizelela ukuthi owesifazane wale mhlobiso uyabesifazane nokuthi uthandeka kangakanani.
EMpumalanga, amantombazane ayegqoka amaketanga ngezinyawo zombili, futhi ngaphandle kwemisindo yalezi zibopho ezihambisana nokudansa kwesisu. Lesi siko safika kithi emazweni aseMpumalanga, sigqoke isongo esikhwameni, futhi le ndlela ifaka ngokushesha emhlabeni jikelele. Ngokuyinhloko, amasongo ayasebenza njengendlela yokuqinisa nokuhlobisa isithombe. Ngetheni elincanyana ngezinye izikhathi lifaka imihlobiso emincane, ngayinye yazo inencazelo ekhethekile. Isibonelo, bangabonakalisa izenzakalo ezibalulekile empilweni, izifiso ezigcwalisiwe noma zingafanekisela ukuhamba.
Phakathi kokuhlobisa kwazo zonke izinto zokuhlobisa nokuhlobisa, okunikezwa emakethe, noma yiyiphi intombazane ingathola ukuhluka okulungile kuye. I-ankle encane enomusa ingahlobisa ngokucophelela uketshezi lwezixhumanisi ezincane ezingagcwaliswa nge-pendant. Izobukeka isongo esihle, esenziwe ngepulasitiki enemibala eminingi. Uma le ntombazane inezinyawo ezinkulu nezinyawo, ezifana nomuntu, khona-ke ulayini lwezixhumanisi eziphakathi zingase zifike kuye, uyolungisa umlenze wakhe amnike umusa.
Uma ufaka isongo emlenzeni wakho, ungakhohlwa ukuthi abanye abantu bayazi umlando wale mhlobiso. Gqoka isongo ngakwesokunene sakho futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi isongo emlenzeni lisho inkululeko kuye. Kodwa, futhi uma ugqoka uketshezi njengomhlobiso, akekho ozokuvimbela ukuthi uyigqoke.
Manje siyazi ukuthi ungakhetha kanjani isongo ezinyaweni zakho, ngoba yilowo nalowo udala imfashini, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi imiphi imibono yabanye abantu.