Ngokuvamile kubusika, iningi lethu libhekene neqiniso lokuthi leli holide alikaqali, futhi sesivele sesaba kakhulu - njengokungathi akahambanga ize. Ngemuva kwalokho, yini enye okumelwe ikwenze ebusika ebusika, kanjani ukuthi ungalala embhedeni? Ungakhathazeki, sizokusiza ukuba ubhekane nobuvila futhi usebenzise iholide lakho lasebusika ngokugcwele ngezinzuzo ezinkulu zomphefumulo nomzimba!
Isizathu sokungabaza. Khumbula ukuthi ngesikhathi seholide lokugcina yasebusika wawela embhedeni phambi kwe-TV, udla amaswidi nama-saladi. Kwezinye izindawo, ngisho nenkumbulo enhle akuzange neze ibe namahloni uma ungazange uhlele eholidini lokugcina into efanayo nakuleli holide: i-ski ihamba epaki yasebusika, ihamba ehlathini lasebusika, ivakashela isikhungo sokuzimela kanye nenhlelo encane yokufunda. Futhi uma ukhumbule kahle, bese uhlala eholidini lokugcina yasebusika, futhi, kukhona amacebo amakhulu kanye nefa elifanayo ekupheleni komgwaqo. Ngakho-ke, ukukhathazeka kulungile ngokugcwele. Ziqine wena ekuseni!
Isifiso Sokweqiniso
Ngokuvamile (ngisho nangokwengeziwe kaningi kunokukholwa) uma umuntu engenzi lokho ahlele, lokhu kusho into eyodwa kuphela - akafuni ukuyenza ngaphakathi!
Futhi uma ungashisi ngesifiso sokuphuma emoyeni omusha, nge-tonic skis awukwazi ukuxoshwa endlini. Hlala, cabanga futhi ngobuqotho uqaphele izidingo zakho. Ingabe ubeke izifiso zakho kulokho ocabanga ukuthi kuyadingeka noma ukuziphatha okuhle? Futhi uma "yebo", kufanelekile ukwenza: emva kwakho konke, umbuzo wokuphumula!
Cabanga ukuthi kungani ubambelela ekuphumuleni kwakho okuhleliwe futhi ungacabangi ngokuphumula okuzenzekelayo njengenye indlela efanelekayo? Futhi yini eyenza wena, ngokubukeka okubuhlungu, ubambe iqhwa kwi-ice rink kunokuba uxhumano oluhle nalo bhuku? Ukusabela okuvame kakhulu kunomqondo wecala. Ngokuvamile izintombi kanye nabo osebenza nazo ziqinisa isimo sabo esiphelile ngemibuzo enobungozi: "Ukwazi kanjani ukulahlekelwa isisindo?" Noma "Ingabe ugejiswe esikhwameni noma ngaso sonke isikhathi?" Ungayinaki - bayakuhlonipha ubuvila babo. Like, hhayi yedwa esithanda ukulala embhedeni wethu ekuphumeni kwakho.
Inombolo yokubusa 1. Qaphela isifiso sakho seholide. Uma ulandela, umqondo wecala uvimbela kuphela, ukhohlwa ngakho futhi uphumule njengoba uthanda. Ngakho ungathola amandla amaningi kusuka ekuphefumulweni kwasebusika kunokuba uqalekisiwe ngeziqalekiso zonke ezisekelweni ezifanayo.
Zifundise wena
Ngezinye izikhathi awutholi iholidi ngenjabulo, ngoba awujwayele. Ukuze okuthile kusebenze kahle, kufanele kube nekhono. Abantu abanamahloni kuphela bacabanga ukuthi ungaqala impilo entsha ngoMsombuluko ngaphandle kokwenza lutho ngoLwesihlanu. Ngokuqinisekile noma iyiphi iphrojekthi kanye nokuphumula kudinga ukulungiswa. Lapho ulungiselela ukuphumula okusebenzayo, awukwazi nje ukuthenga i-cap yezemidlalo noma ukubhalisa kwiqembu lezempilo. Uma uzothola isisindo, ungadli ngaphambi kwalokhu inyanga, uzikholise ukuthi phakathi neholidi, konke okulungile.
Uzochitha amahora 3-4 emahlathini ebusika? Qala ukuhamba okungenani kanye ngesonto kwenye yezinsuku ezimbili. Vumela ukuhamba okufishane kwehora lesigamu kuyoba yingxenye yokuphila kuwe. Uma kungenjalo, ngisho nehora ehlathini lizobonakala lihle kakhulu, hhayi ukuphumula.
Isigaba somthetho 2. Qala ukulungiselela umbuso omusha kusengaphambili, kuhlanganise nesici sokuphumula noma umsebenzi ekuphileni kwansuku zonke.
Yiba nempumelelo
Izinhlelo zakho zeholide angeke zifinyeleleke, ngoba uzoveza imigomo ehlongozwe ngokungafani. Ungakhathazeki: akunakwenzeka ukwenza isikhathi seholide ngokuphelele konke. Xoxa ngezinhlelo zakho zeholide ngokuseduze, okwazi kahle ukuthi bazokwazi ukusho ukuthi yini eyenzekayo nalokho okungekho.
Isigaba 3. Planhorosh, kuphela uma kungokoqobo ngalesi sikhathi futhi nje kuwe.
Sifeza izinhlelo zethu
Mhlawumbe empilweni yansuku zonke awunasithukuthezi ngobuvila futhi "ujabule", kodwa ukugcwaliseka kwalokho okuhlelelwe ukuvakasha kwakho kwasebusika kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Yenza uhlu . Makube okuningiliziwe. Yebo, Yebo, ukhumbule ngenhliziyo ukuthi uzokwenzani okwesikhashana, kodwa amagama abhaliwe anamathuba amaningi okugcwaliseka.
Khetha isikhathi esihle kakhulu sento ngayinye nenhlanganisela elula kakhulu yamacala. Qinisekisa ukuthi ushiya amafasitela ukwenza izintandokazi zakho (ukuhamba nge-spa, ukubhucisa njll).
Amacala axoshiwe njalo adala ukukhathazeka, okukuvimbela ukuthi ungenzi lutho. Zibuze umbuzo: yini oyingozi, uma wenza okufanayo? Mhlawumbe ngeke kube khona lutho! Khona-ke zonke izithiyo endleleni eya ekusetshenzisweni kwalolu hlelo zizoqedwa.
Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi umonakalo ocacile unezisekelo zangempela. Isibonelo, uyaqonda ukuthi isizathu sokungathandi kwakho ukuhambahamba kungukuntuleka kwenkampani efanelekile kulezi zinhloso. Nakhu kuyadingeka ukuziqeqesha ukuthi ungahambi, kodwa ukuxazulula inkinga yedwa.
Noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, waqaphela ukuthi inkampani okhuphuka ukuyaya ejimini ayikufanelanga (ukuncintisana noma ukuncintisana kakhulu okuthuthukisiwe, okusheshayo ukhathele kakhulu).
Ukufinyelela empandeni yokungathandi kwakho, ngokuqinisekile uzothola isisombululo senkinga .
Yenza uhlu oluphoqelekile lwalokho ozothola ngokuqedela konke okuhleliwe, futhi udwebe uhlu olufanayo lwalokho oyolahlekelwa khona uma uvilapha kakhulu. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi asikwazi ngempela futhi ekupheleni okungenani kakhulu ukuhlola zonke izinzuzo zecebo lethu. Uma uqhathanisa zonke "izinzuzo" nethi "u-cons", uvame ukuthi zonke izinzuzo nezinkinga zithole ifomu elisobala. Futhi uzokwazi ukunquma ngokuqondile lokho okudingeka ukwenze ngesikhathi sokuphumula kwakho, nokuthi uyiphila ngokuphelele.
Futhi ekugcineni, kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi empeleni "ubuvila nje" akukwenzeki. Futhi ungamemeza: "Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka! Ngingumuntu ovilapha kakhulu emhlabeni wonke! ". Ubuvila, njengomthetho, akudingeki ukuba silwe nhlobo. Into eyinhloko ukuthola izimbangela zayo, bese ususa ngokuqondile. Kuphela emva kwalokhu konke, isifiso sokulala njalo embhedeni phakathi neholide lonke ngokuqinisekile siyodlula ngokwakho. Ngakho-ke, uma uhlushwa ngempela kule "sifo", esingenakusiza iholide lakho lasebusika, ungacabangi ukuthi kukhona okuzoshintsha ehlobo, futhi akulona iqiniso lokuthi uzochitha iholide lakho elilandelayo ebhedeni. Akukhona ngaso sonke isikhathi sonyaka - kungcono kuwe. Yingakho, okokuqala, zilwa nawe futhi kulokhu kuphela iholidi lakho liyoba mnandi futhi likhanda ngekhanda.