Amakilasi ezocansi, kanjalo, akekho ozofundisa akudingekile. Izimo zemvelo zinikezwa thina ngokwethu. Isimo sihlukile uma ufuna ukuqonda hhayi nje "isisindo esiyisisekelo", kodwa ufuna ukuqonda, njengenkosi enolwazi, ubuciko bokuxhumana nomzimba. Kulesi sihloko ngizokutshela indlela yokwenza injabulo ngosizo lwezocansi ze-tantric.
Kuyini ubulili be-tantric? I-Tantra yindlela yefilosofi yaseNdiya yasendulo lapho ubulili bubhekwa njengokungcwele. Ubulili be-Tantric abukho ukuthintana kakhulu ngokomzimba, njengobumbano obungokomoya bozakwethu. Phakathi nocansi, abalingani bakhulisa ubungqabavu namandla okuba nomunye nomunye, ngenxa yombono obucayi wendoda nowesifazane, i-Yin ne-Yang. Ubunye bokuphefumula, ukuthinta okucashile nokulungile komunye nomunye kunika injabulo engakaze ibe yindlala, hhayi nje ukugcwaliseka kwezidingo zenyama.
Isici esibalulekile sobudlelwano bobulili be-tantric ngumlingani ozocansi njalo. Yebo, umlingani angashintsha, kodwa kakhulu. Lokhu kubalulekile, ngoba udinga ukwazi okuthandayo, imikhuba, izithakazelo zomlingani, umhlaba wakhe wangaphakathi.
Eqinisweni, ubuhlobo bobulili be-tantric bunguhlobo lomsebenzi, ukuzivocavoca ukuze kutholakale ukukhanya okungokomoya, futhi kubalulekile kubo ukudala izimo ezithile: indawo ezolile ezoxolo, ukuthula kwangaphakathi kwengqondo, ukuqonda okufanayo nokuhambisana.
Ngesikhathi sokulala ngokobulili ku-tantra kuyadingeka futhi kubalulekile ukuzivumela "ukuxhumana okugcwele ngokomzwelo", ukukhululwa ngokocansi: ukukhala, ukumemeza, ukukhala, ngakho ikamelo kufanele libe nokuhleleka okuzwakalayo. Uma ungeke uphumule ngokuphelele ngesikhathi sokulala, unqotshwe ethandweni lesithando, khona-ke i-tantra akuyona yona.
Isenzo socansi ku-tantra kufanele sibhekane, esidinga ukuqeqeshwa kanye namakhono athile. Amadoda nabesifazane banamuhla benza okuncane ukuthuthukisa umzimba nomzimba wabo, okuyisikhathi esibi sokwenza ucansi lwe-tantric. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma unquma ukuya kuloluhlobo lobuhlobo bocansi, khona-ke unethuba elihle lokuqeqesha umzimba wakho ukufeza izinga eliphezulu lokuzijabulisa. E-Tantra, ubude bobulili buvela engxenyeni yehora kuya emahoreni owodwa nengxenye, futhi amandla e-orgasm aphakanyiswa kakhulu kunezocansi ezivamile.
Phakathi kwe-tantra ne-yoga, ungathola ukufana okuningi. Lezi zinhlelo ezimbili zihlose ukufeza ukuvumelana phakathi komphefumulo nomzimba, hhayi ngegama elilodwa elithi "tantra yoga".
Ukunyakaza kwezocansi e-tantra yoga kufanele kube lula futhi kungabonakali. Noma yikuphi ukungezwani kuyaphazamisa umbono wabalingani bomunye nomunye, kuphuthumisa ubulili futhi kuvimbele ukuhlangana okungokomoya. Ukuziphatha ngokobulili kufanele kubonwe njengomdanso, ukuguqulwa phakathi kwezimo kufanele kube bushelelezi futhi kungabonakali, njengomdanso omuhle.
Ukubaluleka okukhulu kudlalwa ngokusebenzisa ukutholakala kwezitho zomqondo: iphunga, ukuthinta, ukunambitheka, ukuzwa kanye nombono. Ikhono lokuzizwa nokuthokozela abanye, ukuvuswa njalo ngokocansi kunomthelela ekusebenziseni ukwamukela ngesikhathi socansi.
Inqubo yezocansi ze-tantric kanje:
- Esigabeni sokuqala, abalingani baphatha kahle, bebambezela isikhathi eside. Ukunyakaza kumele kube lula, kungaxhunywanga, hhayi ukuvuselela. Lesi sigaba senziwe ngobumnene. Owesifazane kufanele acindezele ngokucophelela umlingani wakhe, ungasheshi ukuthinta ipeni, ukuze ungabhubhisi. Uma bobabili abalingani emva kokugcina ama-caresses bazobe sebekulungele ukulala, khona-ke i-poseal pose isithathwa. Ukuqala kwesenzo socansi kuhlanganisa ukubeka ikhanda lepenisi ephaketheni phakathi kwelabia iminyaka engu-5-10 ukunciphisa ukujula kokuzibandakanya nokulawula i-orgasm.
- Isingeniso se-phallus esiswini, kepha angaphezu kuka-3 cm. Ukuphefumula okujulile nokuntuleka kwazo zonke izidakamizwa kusiza ukulawula ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili. Kulesi simo, kuthatha imizuzu engu-2, emva kwalokho i-penis isuswe esiswini - futhi iphinde iphule imizuzu engu-2 ngenkathi igcina ukuphefumula okukhulu. Ngemuva kwemizuzu engu-15 yalezi zinqubo, ukuqina kocansi kuyanda kakhulu, ngenxa yalokho abalingani babo bazama ukuphothulwa ngokushesha kocansi. Khona-ke le ndoda yenza ukwethuka okusheshayo okusheshayo, ngokucindezela owesifazane kuye. Ukuhlangana kocansi okwalandela kuphinda kuthathe imizuzu engu-15. Ama-pistol dips asetshenziselwa isigamu sobude bawo futhi ukunyakaza ngalunye kuthatha okungenani imizuzu emithathu. Ngemuva kokuphela kwesikhathi sokunyakaza okulawulwayo, abalingani bangakwazi ukuqhubeka nokufezekisa i-orgasm ngokusebenzisa ama-jerks amafushane, okusheshayo nokujulile.
- Ukuxhumana ngokocansi e-tantra yoga isikhathi eside futhi kudinga ukuthi umuntu alawule futhi avimbele ukujula. Kunezindlela ezimbili zokuvimbela. Indlela yokuqala: uma uzizwa unesifiso socansi esinamandla kanye nendlela yokwelashwa, kufanele uke ukuhamba konke ngesikhathi, uphefumle ngokujulile futhi uphumule imisipha yamadokodo. Indlela yesibili ukukhipha ngokuphelele i-penis kusuka ebusini nokuphefumula okujulile imizuzu engu-2-3.
- Ukuhlangana kocansi kwesithathu, kwesine nesikhombisa kusho ukutholakala kwamakhono ahle kahle. Ngalesi sikhathi, i-penis ingathathwa kusukela ekuqaleni kuze kube yingxenye yobude bayo, futhi ukunyakaza kudlule okungenani imizuzu emithathu. Kulesi sigaba, "umgibeli" ophakanyisiwe uyanconywa, uma owesifazane ephezulu.
- Ngemuva kokuhlangana kocansi lwesithupha, lapho uthola amakhono amahle ku-sexric ye-tantric, ozakwethu bafunde ukuvimbela i-orgasm, ungaba nobulili kunoma yisiphi isikhundla.
Ngikutshele izimiso eziyisisekelo zokulala ngokocansi ku-tantra. Uma unquma ukubuka "uthando" ngendlela entsha, ukuqonda indlela yokwenza ucansi lwe-tantric, khona-ke uzothola amandla amakhulu enjabulo yokuzijabulisa, futhi isimiso sobuhlobo sizoba luhambo oluthandanayo lomshado olude. Futhi ungakwazi kakade ujabule ngosizo lwezocansi ze-tantric.