Izizathu zokungafanisi ucansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa
AmaMedical mayelana nobulili, lapho owesifazane "esesimweni esithakazelisayo," ucabanga kanje. Ubulili nokukhulelwa okwenzeka ngokujwayelekile akubanga imbangela. Kodwa kunezizathu ezizwakalayo, ngenxa yokuthi ukulala ngokocansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa akunakwenzeka. Lezi yizi:
- ukukhulelwa okuningi;
- ukutholakala kwezifo zokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili kumlingani;
- I-placenta ephansi;
- ukuvuza kwe-amniotic fluid;
ukuphuma nokuphuma kwamanzi;
- ukuphuma kwesisu njalo;
usongo lokukhulelwa kwesisu.
Odokotela kuze kube sekupheleni kwesonto leshumi nambili lokukhulelwa ukulala ocansini kaningi akuncoma - ukuthi abathandi abavangeli ukukhulelwa kwesisu. Lesi yisikhathi esibaluleke kunazo zonke lapho ukhulelwe kakhulu. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, izitho ezisemqoka zengane zibeka. Kodwa lokhu akuyona ukuvinjelwa okuphoqelekile, kodwa kunokuvikeleka emiphumeleni engathandeki.
Emasontweni amabili edlule ubulili bugcwele ukubeletha ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Kodwa uma isikhathi sokuzalwa sesifikile, futhi umlomo wesibeletho uvula kancane kancane, odokotela ngokwabo baqamba ucansi njengento yokuvuselela abasebenzi.
Odokotela ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa abaphakamisi ukwenza i-cunnilingus (umlomo uqukethe amakhulu ezinhlobo zebhaktheriya), sebenzisa ama-vibrators futhi uhlanganyele ocansini wesilwane (iziphambano ezinzima kakhulu zesibindi zenzeka kunokuba ubulili obuvamile).
Uma lezi zingqinamba zingekho, odokotela bavunyelwe ukuba nobulili ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
Kuncansi ewusizo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa
Ngokukhulelwa okuvamile, ubulili bungaba usizo, ngoba:
- emdeni womlingani uqukethe ama-enzyme, i-prostaglandins, amahomoni abesilisa abalulekile okwenzelwe owesifazane ngisho nangomntwana;
- i-prostaglandins inikeza ukunciphisa umlomo wesibeletho kanye nokuvula kwayo ngesikhathi sokubeletha;
- uma ubulili kumuntu kuyinto enjabulo, khona-ke isimo sokwaneliseka sithinta inhlalakahle yowesifazane kanye nesisu;
- Ukuqashwa kobulili uhlobo oluthile lokuqeqesha imisipha yesibeletho yezingxabano ezizayo.
Odokotela bayeluleka ukuthi bangakhohlwa ukuthi uma ulala ocansini ngesikhathi ukhulelwe, awukwazi ukudala ingcindezi esiswini. Ngakho-ke, batusa lokhu okulandelayo: ukuma emadolweni akho, kusuka phezulu, uhlezi, eceleni kwakho. Ngendlela, i-pose ngakwesokunene iyimpumelelo kakhulu ku-trimester yesithathu yokukhulelwa. Kumele kuqondwe ukuthi ukungena kwesitho sobulili besilisa akufanele kube bukhali kakhulu, buqinile futhi bujulile.
Izazi zengqondo mayelana nobulili ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa
Uma ukukhulelwa kungahambisani ne-toxicosis, kuqhubeka ngokujwayelekile, ngakho-ke kuphela abesifazane (abesilisa) izingqinamba kanye nokwesaba kungaphazamisa ucansi. Amadoda adinga ukwazi ukuthi:
- Ukuzethemba kuphela, owesifazane ozolile uzojabula ngocansi;
- owesifazane onokuvuselelwa kabuhlungu komzimba, maduzane noma kamuva uzoqala ukungabaza ukuheha kwakhe emehlweni omthandekayo wakhe, ngakho-ke udinga ukuvuma okungaphezulu kothando nokuncoma;
- Owesifazane okhulelwe udinga umthamo ophindwe kabili wokuthintana nomzimba ngokomzimba;
- ungesabi, ingane ezayo ayikukhathaleli, kodwa injabulo egciniwe ingasinda nomama wakho;
- Uma odokotela bengakuvumeli ubulili, ungesabi ukulimaza ingane ngezocansi; i-fetus ivikelekile kahle esibelethweni;
- isifuba sowesifazane emavikini amathathu okuqala sibuhlungu kakhulu;
- Sibonga ama-hormone, owesifazane osesigabeni sesibili esiphezulu ususelwe esenzweni socansi.
Uma kunesidingo, kuyasiza indoda nendoda ukuba bahlangane ndawonye ukuze baxoxisane nomqondo wezengqondo. Phela, hhayi kuphela abesifazane okufanele bazivumelanise nezinguquko ezinkulu emzimbeni. Amadoda futhi athola kunzima ukwamukela isithombe esisha sowesifazane. Uma intombazane enhle kakhulu, enhle edala owesifazane okhulelwe enezinguquko ekujuleni, ekuziphatheni, ngokuphazamiseka ngokomzwelo. Futhi lo wesilisa ukwesaba ngokukhahlela kanye nezingane zomntwana. Ngesikhathi socansi, kungase kubonakale kuye ukuthi umntwana owalandela "ama-peeps", njll Yiqiniso, owesifazane okhulelwe uhle ngendlela yakhe. Kubangela inhlonipho futhi kufanelekile ukuhlonipha. Kodwa amadoda, ikakhulukazi abancane, ikakhulukazi lapho ukukhulelwa kwakungakalungiswa, bangase besabe. Kulesi simo, ngaphandle kosizo lwesazi sezengqondo, ubudlelwane bomndeni bungaba yingozi. Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke akukuthi uhlukanise nomunye nomunye ngesikhathi esinzima futhi esinomthwalo wemfanelo. Kubalulekile ukwabelana ngokuhlangenwe nakho komunye nomunye. Xhumana nabanye abantu abaye bahamba ngalokhu.
Yiqiniso, kunzima owesifazane okhulelwe, kodwa ngisho nasesimweni esinzima angamsiza othandekayo wakhe futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke. Kumelwe azame futhi aqhubeke eyaziwa njengowesifazane, azakekele, isitayela izinwele zakhe, aqhubeke ehle futhi enhle ukugqoka. Ngenhlanhla, imboni yezemfashini yabesifazane abakhulelwe iyathuthuka kahle. Kulesi simo, lo muntu uzobona ukuthi lowo owayengumshicileli, noma ngabe ushintshiwe, lapho enika khona inhliziyo yakhe.
Isimo esibaluleke kakhulu sobudlelwane bobulili obuhambelana nokusekelwa kwezinga elifanele lokuphila. Ungakhohlwa ngemibuthano enobungane, imihlangano ezindaweni zokudlela, ngemiboniso, emibonweni, emabhayisikobho, ehamba ngaphansi kwenyanga, ngokubheka ngaphansi kwemvelo, njll. Chaza wena bese uchazela umngane wakho: ukukhulelwa akusona isifo. Yebo-izinkinga kungenzeka, yebo - kufanele sikhuthaze imingcele. Kodwa ukukhulelwa yisimo esingokwemvelo kunazo zonke owesifazane. Ngemuva kwalokho, nguye oqhubeka nomndeni, umniki wokuphila. Ukukhulelwa kulungisa impilo yangasese yowesifazane, kodwa ayikhanseli.
Lalela umbono wodokotela mayelana nobulili ngesikhathi ukhulelwe. Uma odokotela benqabela wena ocansini ngesikhathi ukhulelwe ngezizathu zezokwelapha, lokhu akuyona inkinga enkulu ebusweni obuseduze. Unqatshelwe kuphela ngokocansi. Ama-hugs, kisses, petting, akekho okhansela. Odokotela abakwenqabela ukujabulisa umuntu othandekayo ngokucindezela izandla noma ngisho nangomlomo womlomo. Into esemqoka ukugcina ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo nangokwenyama ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.