Ngezinye izikhathi ukwakha into engaphezu kwendalo akufanelekile. Omunye wabangane bami uZhenya wahlangana nomninimali wakhe emsebenzini. Wayengumqondisi, futhi wayengaphansi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ubudlelwane bokusebenza bukhule baba yinto engaphezulu. Umqashi wayinqobe ngokuthandana kwakhe: izimbali ezinethezeka, izindawo zokudlela ezidumile, ubucwebe obubi. Hlobo luni lwesintombazane engazange liphuphe ngalo? UZhenya akazange adideke: waphonsa isoka lakhe, owayengumqeqeshi wezinzimboni futhi wazuza kancane, kodwa wamnika inkululeko ephelele yokusebenza. Kubonakala sengathi lapha futhi baphile, baphile, kodwa kwakukhona enye inkinga: uZhenya omthandayo owayengumnikazi ohlukumezayo, akazange amvumele ukuba asebenze futhi amphendule abe ngumfazi womuzi ophelele.
Njengokuzikhethela, ungathola umsebenzi ku-show yemoto bese uzithola ucebile. Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi lapho kubona insimbi ebiza kakhulu "ihhashi" umlimi ulahlekelwa isipho sokukhuluma, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzobona ngisho nowesifazane ovelayo kakhulu. Kukhona elinye ilitshe elingaphansi kwamanzi: abantu abacebile bakhetha ukuza kubanikazi bemoto ngamantombazane e-chic, ukubheka abanye futhi bazibonise bona. Ngakho-ke, uzodinga ukuthuthumela ngokufanele ukuheha.
Kumele futhi kukhunjulwe ukuthi abantu abacebile abavame ukukhetha ukuhlala emakhaya ase-elite. Ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukuba sisondele eduze ngangokunokwenzeka endaweni yabo "yokuhlala". Uma unemali eyanele ukuqasha isitezi eduze nendlu "yesisulu", futhi hhayi endlini efanayo yokuhlala, khona-ke lokhu kuzokwehla. Noma kunjalo, kuyoba namathuba amaningi okuhlangana ne "iphupho lakho" endaweni ethile esitolo noma egcekeni lendlu.
Ungasakaza amanethiwekhi akho kumbukiso wemidwebo, endalini kanye nemidwebo ehlukahlukene. Phela, izigidi zethu ziyakuthanda ukuhlobisa amakhaya abo ngezinto ezibiza futhi eziyingqayizivele. Kuyinto enhle kakhulu ukuthi ungaba yindoda ecebile, uma ujeziswa kahle. Ukuze wenze lokhu, kufanele ubhalise kwezinye izifundo ukuba okungenani ube ne-savvy ezindabeni zobuciko, bese uqala ngesibindi izingxoxo noma izivakashi kumbukiso, noma nomnikazi "walezi zingcweti ezingabonakali." Omunye wabangane bami wayejwayelene nomnikazi wombukiso, ongazange ahambe ngaphezu kobusuku obulodwa. Kodwa-ke, wayephindaphindiwe kithi ukuthi lo wayeyi-millionaire yokuqala, ayeyiqede.
Amanye amantombazane azingela abacebile emaceleni ama-fitness abizayo. Ngemuva kwalokho, manje sekuyisimweni sokunakekelwa kwempilo yomuntu. Kodwa ngisho nakulokhu, impumelelo ayiqinisekisiwe, ngoba Amadoda amaningi asezingeni lokuqeqesha aqaphela ukwandisa i-biceps, i-triceps nokunye okunjalo, kepha ngokuqinisekile akubandakanyi ukucubungula ama-blondes nama-brunettes ezinembathweni eziqinile. Kufanele futhi ukukhumbula ukuthi abazingeli "bangabodwa" kulawo maqembu noma yizinyanga eziyishumi nambili, futhi imali yokuthi uyakhangwa kwenye yezinkulungwane zemali izoyithatha okuningi.
Okukhethwa kukho ukuhamba. Futhi uma usesezindaweni zokungcebeleka, kuyinto enhle kakhulu. Kusemaphandleni ukuthi amadoda acebile avela ebhizinisini lika-shark abe ama-kittens aphuzayo afuna uthando nomzwelo.
Uma unomngane oshadile ocebile, kuwumqondo omuhle ukujwayelana nabalingani abasha abacebile kumabhizinisi abo amadoda.
Kodwa okwebuvila, ukhetho ekhaya kuyisesha somkhwenyana ku-Inthanethi. Noma kunjalo, ungafaki kuphrofayela yakho, kodwa ngokushesha ubhale izidingo ezicacile zomyeni wakho wesikhathi esizayo: ocebile futhi ophumelelayo. Kungaba kuhle ukufunda isiNgisi, ngoba Izivakashi eziningi ezingosini zokuphola zingabokufika. Omunye wabangane bami wathola u-chevalier, ude naye waxhumana naye e-ICQ, waze wathola isimemo esilinde isikhathi eside sokuhlala nomngane wakhe obonakalayo endaweni ehlala eSwitzerland. Manje uphakamisa izikhwama zakhe futhi azi ukuthi yiziphi izingubo okufanele azithathe naye.
Futhi-ke, ungacabangela ukhetho "lokulinda isikhulu ngehhashi elimhlophe." Abanye ngempela banenhlanhla. Umngane wami uhlangane nomyeni wakhe ocebile esikhumulweni sezindiza lapho ephuzile ngenxa yendiza futhi engozini yamshaya. Omunye wahlangana nababukeli bakhe abathandayo phambi komnyango, waba ngumdayisi odumile owafika ngesimemo sokunikeza inkulumo kubafundi baseyunivesithi ukuthi bangaphumelela kanjani futhi bacebile.
Kusukela kuzo zonke ezingenhla, kulandela ukuthi ukuthola umlandi akulula. Kunzima kakhulu ukumgcina futhi abe yedwa wakhe, futhi usuvele ukwazi ukuthola umyeni ocebile nonomusa.