Nakuba ukukhanga kumadoda akusho ukuthi udinga ukuguqula wena ukuze kungabikho muntu ongacabange ukuthi ngaphambi kwakhe kuyintombazane efanayo. Ukwazi ukuwina ukunqoba futhi ukwazi ukuthakazelisa, lezi zimfanelo zizodlula inani nokubukeka kwentombazane. Ukuze abanye bangabonakali ukuthi kunabesifazane abahle kakhulu abakuzungezile, kufanele uzame ukuthola ukuthula ngaphakathi kwakho bese ulandela amathiphu angezansi.
Siqondisa ubulili obufanele . Imfundiso yokuziphatha ngokobulili, ehlongozwa ngu-Geter Amman wayo, yenza into enjengokuqondiswa ngokocansi. Kuye kwacaca ukuthi intombazane eyayifuna ukuyihlakulela, kwakudingekile ukuba ingagxila ezintweni ezithandayo kanye nemizwelo yabo. Inkolelo yeGoetheer iphakamisa uhlobo lomdlalo lapho bobabili abalingani basebenzise khona amazwi amaningi abathandekayo nabokuziphatha ngokobulili ngangokunokwenzeka abhalwe phansi ephepheni. Khona-ke lawa magama azinikezelwe ngamunye wabadlali. Ozakwethu bhala kuphela lawo mazwi angathanda ukuwabiza. Umnqobi, owokuqala kubo, ekupheleni komdlalo kuzodingeka athembele emklomelo omkhulu. Umqondo onjengalo mdlalo ungabangela umuntu ukuba enze okuthile okuthakazelisayo nesesidlangalaleni. Yikuphi, ikakhulukazi, okungaba yilowo nalowo mvuzo.
Kuthunyelwe ngezwi . Ukuze ube mnandi, udinga ukusebenza ngezwi lakho. Kubalulekile ukuthatha intonation yakhe, okuyinto ngeke injabulo hhayi kuphela umuntu efisa, kodwa yena. Amadoda amaningi acabangela ukukhohlisa nokwehlisa ucansi izwi eliphansi, kusuka kulo liqala ukulahlekelwa ikhanda. Abanye babo bakholelwa ngisho ukuthi umphumela omkhulu ungatholakala ngezwi elinjalo, ngezwi elihlabayo. Phakathi kwabesifazane, futhi, kunombono mayelana nezwi elikhangayo elinamahloni, bakholelwa ukuthi uFrank Sinatra, uGaeru no-Adrian Celentano banezwi elinjalo elikhulu.
Sengeza ukuthungatha . Ukuze ube intombazane yentombazane enezwi elikhohlisayo, akudingekile ukuba usebenzise ezinye izindlela ezinkulu, ikakhulukazi ekuhlinzekeni kweplastiki. Intombazane akudingeki ibe nezici zomzimba zomzimba wayo oqubuzanayo. Ngezinye izikhathi udinga nje ukuthandana, ukuze izwi lakho lithuthumele futhi liyeke. Njengoba intombazane ethandwayo iqala ukukhathazeka, ithukuthele ngezintambo bese uthola ukwesaba. Ngezwi elidumayo, kwanele ngokwanele ukukhuluma ngokuzenzekelayo kancane kancane futhi ngokushelela, uzama ukungabi nokuxoxa ngaphandle kwesizathu. Futhi lapho uphuthumayo kudingeka uzame ukususa imisipha yomzimba futhi, ngokufanele, ekuphefumulelwe - ukuphumula.
Ukufunda ukubonisa . Isayensi enjalo njenge-kinesika inikeza umbono webanga eliphakathi kozakwethu engxoxweni kanye nezincazelo zabo. Kulandela ukuthi ukuze akhuthaze umuntu ukuba athathe isinyathelo esithile esinqunyiwe, umuntu kufanele angene endaweni yakhe eseduze. Uhlala eduze naye, cishe ubuso nobuso. Ungakwazi futhi ukunikeza izibonakaliso ngendlela yokubopha ikhanda lakho. Futhi i-nods esheshayo ingasho ngentshisekelo yomlingani, futhi ukuphuza nokuphindaphinda kungaphazamisa ingxoxo. Futhi, le ntombazane idinga ukuthatha okuningi okuvulekile futhi ungaphazamisa ngisho nokukopisha izenzo zakhe, ngaleyo ndlela imenza ukuba avalwe ukuxhumana nabanye.
Ungakhathazeki . Ukuze ube mnandi kumadoda, udinga ukufunda ukuthi ungabhondi induku. Lokhu kungathinta amandla wakho okuthanda, nomlingiswa wakho. Manje abesifazane abaningi bazama ukuba abade futhi banokuziphatha okuningi kunamadoda. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kungabangela ukuthukuthela nje kuphela, kodwa ngisho nokuhamba kwakho. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuba abe ngowowesifazane, angakuvikela ekubi futhi avikele, noma aze amvumele acabange kanjalo. Ukuzihlola ngokwakho kungathinta nosayizi wakho. Ngemuva kwalokho, abesifazane abahle futhi banhle bazobhekwa njengobungqayizivele obuncane obungama-40-42, futhi ekumelelweni kwamadoda uguquke cishe ngo-46-50. Ngakho ungaphinda uhambe phezu kwenkinga enjalo engajulile futhi engenalutho njengosayizi omkhulu wezingubo.
Yazi ukupheka nokudla . Ngokusho kokuhlola okuningi kososayensi kwacaca ukuthi kusukela ekhuluma mayelana nokuxhumana phakathi kokudla komuntu nesisu, ukuxhuma kwakusungulwe. Ezinye izivivinyo zibonise ukuthi le ndoda ephakathi kwephunga lama-cinnamon rolls kanye nephunga lemimoya ebiza kakhulu yathanda kuqala. Futhi kulokhu kulandela ukuthi kubalulekile ukuthi wonke owesifazane afunde ukupheka ukudla okumnandi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kumele adle kanye nomakhethi wakhe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, uma intombazane ingadli kancane kancane, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo isiphunga, ingase ibonakale kumuntu ekhangayo nakakhulu. Futhi ungakhathazeki ngokuthi ungathola amakholori amaningi angadingekile futhi angadingekile ngenxa yokudla, okuholela ekugcwala okubi. Amadoda amaningi akhetha ukukhetha ngokuthanda owesifazane onamaqabunga amakhulu, okungukuthi, ngokombono wabo, angathwala futhi abelethe ingane enempilo futhi efisekayo.
Ukuthuka, ukuhleka nokuhleka . Intombazane ekwazi ukuhlazeka futhi ozogqoka okuthile okubomvu inganqoba amadoda amaningi. Ukuba nezikhali ezimbili: into ebomvu kuwe futhi uhlazeke ngendlela yamahlathini abomvu, ungavusa kumuntu hhayi nje umzingeli, kodwa futhi nomvikeli. Ufuna ukunqoba intombazane ebomvu, kanti futhi efuna ukumvikela ezimweni ezilulazayo. Ngakho-ke ukwazi ukuhlazeka kuyoba kuphela ngesandla sakho. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, uma intombazane ingaba nomuzwa wokuhleka usulu, okuzokwenza kube lula ukuxhumana, kungakwazi ukunqoba phakade inhliziyo yomuntu. Ungakwazi ukuhleka nje amahlaya akhe, umbonise isithakazelo sakho, kuyilapho kungenjalo ukuthi uhlakaniphile futhi wazi amahlaya amaningi. Ukuhleka kungashintsha ukukhulumisana okujulile kumunye osondelene futhi othakazelisayo kokubili.
Ukuze ube mnandi kakhulu, amantombazane kudingeka afunde ukujabulela zonke izinto ezijwayelekile nezingajwayelekile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthenga noma uvakashele ugogo nomkhulu. Intombazane ezithanda yona kanye nokuphila kwayo kuyoba namandla kakhulu, iqiniseke kakhulu futhi i-sexy, eyenza ibe yinto ekhangayo, ekhangayo futhi efiselekayo kubantu abaningi. Dare futhi uzophumelela.