Umhawu uzalwa ngokungaqondakali kwethu, kuqala ngokuzenzekelayo futhi amandla ayo, ngokuyinhloko, kuxhomeke ekuzizweni esizizwayo ngento yokufisa. Uma lokhu kuyithanda kakhulu, khona-ke umona ungaba nomlingisi oqeda konke. Nakuba ukuhluka kungaba okuningi, ngoba akusiwo sonke esilinganayo, futhi imizwa yethu ihlukile. Kukhona amantombazane ayenomona ngokuqondile kubo bonke abantu: labo abalungile eduze kwakhe; labo ababekade bewuthandayo; labo abathanda nje manje; futhi ngisho nalabo ababheka njengabangane beqiniso. Lokhu kubizwa - umqondo okwandisiwe wobunikazi, futhi, mhlawumbe, ejwayelekile yamantombazane amaningi. Futhi kukhona abanye besifazane abangazihawukeli nhlobo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bayathembela ngokuphelele amadoda abo, noma bazethemba ngokweqile futhi bazigoqela futhi bakholelwa ukuthi akekho ozozishintsha omunye. Futhi, ngokuyisisekelo, akukubi. Njengoba umhawu - unamandla kakhulu, ngisho nokubhubhisa leyo mizwa elokhu ishisa iminyaka. Uzozidla, zizishise, zikushiye emgodini wothando olwangaphambili - oludabukisayo, olususwe emanzini nasosot. Uqala kuphi umhawu? Uthando luphela lapho!
Futhi uNkulunkulu akavumelani, uzothola kulesi sikhala somuntu into okuthi, ngokombono wakho, izofakazela intshisekelo yendoda yakho ngomunye wesifazane - yilokho konke! Impi ingaziwa ukuthi ivuliwe.
Le mpi izokuholela endaweni lapho uthando luphela khona. Phela, esikhundleni sokuzwa imizwa yethando, ukufudumala nokukhathalela, uzoqala ukunikeza umuntu wakho ukucasuka nokungazethembi nje kuphela, uzoyeka ukuzwa ubudlelwane bemiphefumulo, owakhulume ngaphambili. Cabanga: awusesabi yini ukulahlekelwa yizinto zonke eziye zahlonyiswa kahle ngeminyaka, ngenxa yomzwelo womhawu, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho ezingenasisekelo futhi ezingavunyelwe? Sivame ukukholelwa emlandweni wezinganekwane ezakhelwe thina - futhi ngokuvamile lezi zithombe zomhawu, ezithathwe ngombono wethu, azihlangani nhlobo.
Ubani ongabiza indoda ngakunye ekuseni? Yebo, noma ubani - okungenani umculi onendaba engajabuli ukuthi kusasa, ngosuku ozophuma ngalo, kuzodingeka uhambe uye emsebenzini. Umngane owaya e-cafe wacela ukumyisa ekhaya. Kungani umuntu engena kwelinye igumbi? Yebo, ukuze singasivuli, sikhathele usuku oluvela emisebenzini enzima yendlu. I-SMS isigamu sakho sibeka phansi kwephasiwedi ukuze ozakwabo ehhovisi bangafundeli izincwadi zakho zokuthanda, uma yena, njengenhlawulo, akhohlwa ifoni yekhefu etafuleni. "Isixuku!" - shaya ngamunye wenu. Mhlawumbe izaba, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi izizathu eziyiqiniso ziyamangalisa ngokulula kwazo, kanti asikholelwa kuzo futhi sicabangela izinketho zethu.
Futhi lokhu kuphazamiseka akuvamile ukuzilimaza, kufanele kususwe ngezandla zakho, usebenzise amandla amaningi namandla kule nqubo. Futhi akuwona wonke umbhangqwana onamandla nokuqonda ukunqoba lesi sithiyo, ukuba aqhube phambili phambili, abe nekusasa elikhanyayo. Ngakho ngaphambi kokuba uvumele ubuhlobo bakho buqhekeke, cabanga: ingabe unezizathu zokuba nomhawu, noma uke wafika nakho konke? Unayo yini ubufakazi, ubufakazi bokuhlubuka? Uma kungenjalo-ke ukhulule imicabango emibi futhi uthembele othandekayo wakho, ngoba uthando alubekezeli ukusola nokukhohlisa.
Ngakho-ke, sinquma uma uthando luphela ngemva kokuba umhawu ubhubhise konke ukushisa kwakho. Futhi kufanele yini ukuba umvumele, umhawu, ukuba athathe ngokukhululekile inhliziyo yakho?