Lapho umhawu uqala - kukhona ukuphela kokuthanda

Amandla okubhubhisa omhawu akwaziwa yilowo nalowo kithi. Ubani oMbiza ngomunye ekuseni futhi kungani eya ekamelweni elithile? Kungani kususa njalo izingcingo kanye ne-SMS? Kungani ufake iphasiwedi kumadokhumenti akho kumakhompyutha? Yebo, wayenemfihlo, futhi izimfihlo - kusho, nkosikazi! Lokhu, ekuboneni kokuqala, uchungechunge olunengqondo lunezikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa ezicasulayo nezingxabano ebhishi lakho elithandayo lothando. Kodwa kuyiqiniso ukuthi bathi lapho umhawu uqala khona, uthando luphela lapho? Ake sizame ukuthola lokhu.

Umhawu uzalwa ngokungaqondakali kwethu, kuqala ngokuzenzekelayo futhi amandla ayo, ngokuyinhloko, kuxhomeke ekuzizweni esizizwayo ngento yokufisa. Uma lokhu kuyithanda kakhulu, khona-ke umona ungaba nomlingisi oqeda konke. Nakuba ukuhluka kungaba okuningi, ngoba akusiwo sonke esilinganayo, futhi imizwa yethu ihlukile. Kukhona amantombazane ayenomona ngokuqondile kubo bonke abantu: labo abalungile eduze kwakhe; labo ababekade bewuthandayo; labo abathanda nje manje; futhi ngisho nalabo ababheka njengabangane beqiniso. Lokhu kubizwa - umqondo okwandisiwe wobunikazi, futhi, mhlawumbe, ejwayelekile yamantombazane amaningi. Futhi kukhona abanye besifazane abangazihawukeli nhlobo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bayathembela ngokuphelele amadoda abo, noma bazethemba ngokweqile futhi bazigoqela futhi bakholelwa ukuthi akekho ozozishintsha omunye. Futhi, ngokuyisisekelo, akukubi. Njengoba umhawu - unamandla kakhulu, ngisho nokubhubhisa leyo mizwa elokhu ishisa iminyaka. Uzozidla, zizishise, zikushiye emgodini wothando olwangaphambili - oludabukisayo, olususwe emanzini nasosot. Uqala kuphi umhawu? Uthando luphela lapho!

Kungani lokhu kwenzeka? Iqiniso liwukuthi umhawu uyingqayizivele ukubola ngaphakathi. Kubonakala sengathi isimo sixoxwe, othandekayo wachaza konke. Isimo futhi kwafakazela ukuthi ngiyiqiniso kuwe. Kodwa imbumbulu yokungabaza isele, iyobuyisa umphefumulo wakho isikhathi eside, ikakhulukazi uma ungokwemvelo ukuzithokozisa. Futhi ngaphakathi kwakho uqala ukungqubuzana okukhula, njengebhola le-snowball. Ulahlekelwa ukuthembela kumuntu othandekayo wakho futhi uqale ukummangalela konke okungathí sina. Gcina amehlo akhe onke, uphonseke ekuqondeni kwakho, futhi usho ngokweqile iqiniso lokuthi udlule owesifazane osemncane kanye nemilenze inhle kunawe, futhi isifuba sikhulu. Futhi ngokujwayelekile yilophupho lendoda, futhi umngane wakho kanye. Ngokwemvelo, ngokushesha lesi simo sizoqala ukucasula umphefumulo wakho. Ngemuva kwalokho, intombazane, phakathi kwezinye izinto, izobeka nokulawula okuphelele lapho ikhona khona, futhi izingcingo ezinamanqina zizokwazi ukungena esikhaleni sakhe. Kodwa akubona bonke abantu abakwazi ukubhekana nalokhu ngokuvamile.

Futhi uNkulunkulu akavumelani, uzothola kulesi sikhala somuntu into okuthi, ngokombono wakho, izofakazela intshisekelo yendoda yakho ngomunye wesifazane - yilokho konke! Impi ingaziwa ukuthi ivuliwe.

Le mpi izokuholela endaweni lapho uthando luphela khona. Phela, esikhundleni sokuzwa imizwa yethando, ukufudumala nokukhathalela, uzoqala ukunikeza umuntu wakho ukucasuka nokungazethembi nje kuphela, uzoyeka ukuzwa ubudlelwane bemiphefumulo, owakhulume ngaphambili. Cabanga: awusesabi yini ukulahlekelwa yizinto zonke eziye zahlonyiswa kahle ngeminyaka, ngenxa yomzwelo womhawu, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho ezingenasisekelo futhi ezingavunyelwe? Sivame ukukholelwa emlandweni wezinganekwane ezakhelwe thina - futhi ngokuvamile lezi zithombe zomhawu, ezithathwe ngombono wethu, azihlangani nhlobo.

Ubani ongabiza indoda ngakunye ekuseni? Yebo, noma ubani - okungenani umculi onendaba engajabuli ukuthi kusasa, ngosuku ozophuma ngalo, kuzodingeka uhambe uye emsebenzini. Umngane owaya e-cafe wacela ukumyisa ekhaya. Kungani umuntu engena kwelinye igumbi? Yebo, ukuze singasivuli, sikhathele usuku oluvela emisebenzini enzima yendlu. I-SMS isigamu sakho sibeka phansi kwephasiwedi ukuze ozakwabo ehhovisi bangafundeli izincwadi zakho zokuthanda, uma yena, njengenhlawulo, akhohlwa ifoni yekhefu etafuleni. "Isixuku!" - shaya ngamunye wenu. Mhlawumbe izaba, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi izizathu eziyiqiniso ziyamangalisa ngokulula kwazo, kanti asikholelwa kuzo futhi sicabangela izinketho zethu.

Yebo, wazi amadoda akho kangcono - futhi akwazi ukuhlukanisa amanga avela eqinisweni. Kholelwa ngecala ukuthi uhhafu wakho, cishe, futhi awufaneleki, kodwa ukubona ngemuva kokungalaleli kokuphela kwesikhathi - lokhu kubi kakhulu okungenzeka kumbhangqwana wakho. Ukungqubuzana akukaze kubambe umndeni ndawonye, ​​kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ugogo nomkhulu bathi, "abathandekayo bahlanjalazwa - basuke befaka imali kuphela." Yiqiniso, azikho amaqembu afanelekayo, futhi wonke umuntu ufunga, kodwa nje ukufunga ngokuphindaphindiwe othandweni oluphakade futhi abeke ezindleleni ezinhle kakhulu. Kodwa uma kuziwa kumhawu odlayo wonke - khona-ke lokhu kuwukuqhekeka okujulile okuqala ezingeni eliyisisekelo sobuhlobo - ukwethemba. Njengoba ulahlekelwe ithemba, cishe awukwazi ukuvuselela imfudumalo eyabumbene futhi yanikeza ukuvumelana, ngaphandle kokuthi uthando lunikeza ukuhlushwa.

Futhi lokhu kuphazamiseka akuvamile ukuzilimaza, kufanele kususwe ngezandla zakho, usebenzise amandla amaningi namandla kule nqubo. Futhi akuwona wonke umbhangqwana onamandla nokuqonda ukunqoba lesi sithiyo, ukuba aqhube phambili phambili, abe nekusasa elikhanyayo. Ngakho ngaphambi kokuba uvumele ubuhlobo bakho buqhekeke, cabanga: ingabe unezizathu zokuba nomhawu, noma uke wafika nakho konke? Unayo yini ubufakazi, ubufakazi bokuhlubuka? Uma kungenjalo-ke ukhulule imicabango emibi futhi uthembele othandekayo wakho, ngoba uthando alubekezeli ukusola nokukhohlisa.

Kodwa uma uqinisekile ukuthi enye ingxenye ishintsha kuwe, ibhizinisi lithatha ukuphenduka okuhlukile. Nakuba kungase kube nezinketho ezahlukene zokuthuthukiswa kwemicimbi. Omunye ulahla ngobuhlobo ubuhlobo bakhe, eqaphela ukuthi abanalo ikusasa. Futhi umuntu othethelela ngomusa, ngoba uthando lwakhe alupheli, futhi ngaphandle komuntu othandekayo, luzoqhubeka lubi kakhulu. Kodwa, futhi, lesi sibungu kakhulu sokungabaza sihlala. Kodwa uma umuntu wakho engakunikeli ngisho nangesizathu esincane sokuba nomhawu - sisengcono. Kodwa uma kuba umkhuba ... Njengawe, umkami, konke engikushoyo ngithethelele, ngesaba ukulahlekelwa. Khona-ke luhlobo luni luthando olukhona - ukuzidela okuphelele, okuxubene nomkhuba.

Ngakho-ke, sinquma uma uthando luphela ngemva kokuba umhawu ubhubhise konke ukushisa kwakho. Futhi kufanele yini ukuba umvumele, umhawu, ukuba athathe ngokukhululekile inhliziyo yakho?