Ukubukeka kwangaphandle, isitayela ngenye yamathuluzi abaluleke kakhulu ekufezeni impumelelo kunoma iyiphi insimu: kokubili emisebenzini nasekuphileni komuntu siqu. Uzoba mnandi kakhulu kwabanye - kuncike kuwe.
Ukwakha ubuhlobo bakho nabantu, kuyadingeka ukhumbule ukuthi, njengomthetho, umbono wokuqala usungulwa masinyane, futhi kunzima kakhulu ukuyishintsha. Ngakho-ke udinga ukunakekelwa ukuthi ubheka kanjani abanye.Abesifazane abazi izimfihlo zesitayela, benza abantu banake isithunzi sabo futhi banganaki ukushiyeka.
Ukwazi kanjani izimfihlo zesitayela somfazi weqiniso? Into esemqoka ukufunda ukuthi isitayela ekubukeni kwangaphandle kufanele kuhambisane nomlingiswa wakho, kubonise izwe langaphakathi. Phela, yisiphi isitayela esikhethwe kahle? Lokhu kungavumelani isithombe esikhethiwe sokuziphatha kwakho. Udinga ukwakha isitayela somlingiswa wakho.
Enye iphuzu elibalulekile ukuthi isitayela ekugqoka kufanele ihambisane nendlela yakho yokuphila. Uma ungowesifazane webhizinisi, isitayela sakho kufanele sibe nesimiso esiqinile. Uma ungumama osemncane ehlezi ekhaya nomntwana, noma umama wendlu, khona-ke ibhizinisi likufanisa nalutho.
Kumele futhi sicabangele ubudala. Umfundi omusha kufanele angabonisi "owesifazane ovuthiwe", nowesifazane ovuthiwe intombazane encane. Bobabili, abagqoke ngale ndlela, ngeke bakwazi ukufeza umgomo wabo, kodwa bazobukeka behlambalaza.
Indwangu kumele ihambisane nezimo okhona ngazo okwamanje. Uma unquma ukuthi yisiphi isitayela oyobukeka namuhla, udinga ukucabangela ukuthi uzokwenzani namhlanje. Isitayela sezemidlalo esifanele ukuhamba ngezwe singase singabi khona ehhovisi, futhi izicathulo ezihle kakhulu ezihamba phambili, ezigqoke ukuhamba emvelweni, zizokwenza ukumomotheka kubuso bakho.
Isitayela sabesifazane sinqunywa nokuhambisana kwezinto ezigqokeni zabo. Ngakho-ke, lapho ukhetha into entsha, noma ngabe ikufanele, kudingeka ucabange ukuthi yini le nto engagqoka ngayo. Phela, izinto zangasese ze-wardrobe, ngisho noma ziya kuwe, azikwazi ukusondela ngokuphelele. Into ethengwe ngaphandle kokubhekisana nokuhambisana kwayo nezinye izinto, ingahlala ilenga ekamelweni isikhathi eside, ngoba akunakwenzeka njalo ukuvuselela ngesikhathi esisodwa sezingubo eziningi zokugqoka.
Yebo-ke, ungakhohlwa mayelana nokufaneleka nokudangala kokubukeka kwakho. Awukwazi ukugqoka izinto ngoba nje zibonakala zihle noma zifashisa kuwe. Izembatho kufanele zigcizelele isithunzi futhi zifihla amaphutha. Ungagqoke izingubo ezingafaneleki usayizi noma umbala. Akufanele uthande izingubo ngokwazo, kodwa indlela obukeka kuyo.
Uma wenza i-wardrobe, ungakhohlwa ukuthi izicathulo zakho kufanele zifanane nesitayela osikhethile.
Isitayela sangempela sabesifazane asikwazi ukudalwa ngaphandle kwezinsiza. Awukwazi ukugcizelela ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani. Izesekeli ezingenele zinganaki yonke imizamo. Ngisho noma izesekeli zihle ngokwayo, kodwa azihambisani nezindwangu zakho - konke kuzokwenyuka. Futhi, ngokuphambene nalokho, izesekeli ezikhethiwe kahle zizokwenza inzuzo yakho yokubonakala.
Zama ukucabanga okuthile okukhethekile, okuyingqayizivele kuwe kuphela, yakha ukugqama okuyingqayizivele kokubukeka kwakho, sebenzisa ezinye zezimfihlo zakho.
Khumbula ukuthi kusezesekeli ezivame ukunquma inhlalakahle kanye nesimo somphakathi somuntu. Ngakho-ke, uma ufuna ukugcizelela isikhundla ohlala kuso emphakathini, lokhu kungenziwa kuphela ngosizo lwezesekeli. Ungakhohlwa nje ukunambitha, umqondo wokulinganisa nokuhlakanipha.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, kunezingubo ezikhethiwe kahle, izinto ezifana ne-hairdress and manicure. Kudingekile ukugcina izipikili ngokuhlelekile, vakashela i-hairdresser njalo.
Ungakhohlwa mayelana nokuzenzela. Yena, kanye nezambatho zakho, kumele ahambisane nendlela yokuphila, ubudala kanye nezimo, kugcizelela isithunzi nokufihla amaphutha. Ukumisa okukhanyayo, okuqondene neqembu, ehhovisi kuzobukeka kungcolile.
Khumbula ukuthi umbono wesitayela awubandakanyi ukubukeka kuphela. Ukuthola, inkulumo, indlela yokubamba, ingagcizelela isithombe ofuna ukuyidala, kodwa singayichitha.
Lezi ezinye zezimfihlo zesitayela sangempela sabesifazane. Ukuwasebenzisa, kuzoba lula kuwe ukudala isitayela sakho esiyingqayizivele, ubonise abanye isithunzi sokubukeka kwakho kanye nengcebo yezwe langaphakathi, isikhundla sakho sokuphila nesimo senhlalakahle.