Kodwa umngane omncane onamaqabunga amane usevele ekhaya, wageza, wondliwa futhi uyajabula kakhulu. Injabulo yomsana ayikho imingcele futhi akunakwenzeka ukuyichaza, kubonakala sengathi manje yonke imibono yezwe elincane elingaphakathi lihlala ngumngane wakhe omusha onamagundane amane. Ingane iyajabula, futhi kanye nabantu abadala, nokuthanda isilwane kunamandla njengothando lwabantu abasondelene kakhulu.
Kodwa akukho okuphakade ekuphileni kwethu, ngeshwa. Ukuphila kwezilwane kuphelile kangangokuthi, uma ungakakwazi ukunamathela ngayo yonke inhliziyo yakho nomphefumulo wakho, usinda, ubuhlungu bokulahlekelwa okungenakubekezela, okuyinto, ngokumangalisayo, kunzima kakhulu. Mhlawumbe, cishe wonke umuntu wayenenkinga lapho kufanele akhathazeke ngenxa yokufa kwesilwane sabo. Abaningi, izikhathi zokugcina zomngane ezinezinyama ezine zikhunjulwa iminyaka eminingi, futhi ikakhulukazi uma ngaleso sikhathi kwakungekho umuntu oseduze owayengaduduza nokusekela esimweni esinzima kangaka.
Uma umuntu omdala kunzima ukusinda ekufeni kwesilwane, kuthiwani ngomntwana ogama lakhe lomzwelo nesimo sengqondo esiphezulu kakhulu kunomuntu omdala. Ukufa kwesilwane kwengane kunzima ukucindezeleka, futhi akukhathaleki ukuthi ubani owake wafela ipharoti, i-hamster, ikati noma inja. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukwazi ukuthi ungasiza kanjani ingane ukusinda ekufeni kwesilwane.
Izingane zonke ziyabona futhi zicabanga kancane ngokuhlukile kunabantu abadala. Uma kumama noma ubaba u-Bobik kuyinja evamile, nomsila nemilenze emine, khona-ke ingane ingumngane othembekile futhi othembekile ozohlala ewasekela futhi elalele ezikhathini ezinzima, futhi aze adlale ngezintambo noma ukubamba. Ngakho-ke, kufanele kucaciswe futhi kuqondwe ukuthi kungani izingane zibuhlungu kakhulu futhi zijulile ukushona komkhaya onamagundane amane kunabantu abadala. Futhi akukhathaleki ukuthi zingakanani iminyaka, izinyanga noma izinsuku isilwane esiphila eduze - amasonto ambalwa nje ukuze ujwayele ukujwayela uLuce, Gaucher noma uCousin.
Kodwa uma kunjalo, le nhlekelele ayizange idlulele, iphuzu elibaluleke kakhulu ukusekelwa kwengane yakho, hhayi kuphela ngamazwi, kodwa futhi ngokuhlanganyela kwakho kule ndaba.
Ingane kufanele ibone ukuthi lokhu akusiyo nje usizi lwakhe, kodwa zonke izihlobo nabangani bakhe. Ngeshwa, akubona bonke abazali abangaba eceleni komntwana wabo ngesikhathi esibuhlungu sokufa kwesilwane. Abantu abaningi abadala bayazi ukuthi ukufa kwesilwane njengesihluthulelo - akusiwo onke amaviki ahlanzekile futhi ahlanze i-hamster noma i-parrot, ungavuki ekuseni ukuze uhambe nenja, njll. Kodwa, kudingeka siqonde ukuthi ingane ingumgogodla futhi omkhulu kakhulu, futhi udinga usizo ukuze ulondoloze.
Ingane akufanele izwe imiyalo nokuhlambalazwa ekhelini lakhe ngezikhathi ezinjalo. Akunandaba nanoma ikuphi ukuvimbela ukukhala kumntwana. Ngokuqinisekile kuyabhekwa, ukuthi kwaba lula, kubalulekile ukukhala. Futhi akunandaba ukuthi uyintombazane noma umfana, bayalingana nalesi simo ekuboniseni imizwa ngisho nangezinyembezi. Abanye abazali baphatha kabi lapho umfana oneminyaka engu-9 ekhalayo ethi amadoda angakhali, futhi akufanele ukhale. Yiqiniso, kunezimo lapho abafana kungadingeki balile, kodwa ukufa kwesilwane esinezintambo ezine nomngane kuyinto ecacile kule mithetho.
Ukusekela umuntu omdala kuyadingeka ukuze kungabi khona izinkinga ekubonisaneni ngokuzayo esikhathini esizayo. Ngokuvamile, izingane ezingaboni ukuqonda kwabazali, zihoxisa zona futhi ziyeke ukuxhumana nabazali bazo, zingaba laconic kanye morose. Uma le nkinga ingaqedwa ngabazali ngaleso sikhathi, igebe phakathi kwabo nomntwana lizoqala ukwandisa nsuku zonke. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyoba nzima ngokwengeziwe ukuqala ukuxhumana nomntwana.
Ngakho-ke ungasiza kanjani ingane ukusinda ekufeni kwesilwane ukuze ungamlimazi?
Okokuqala, kumelwe sigcobane umngane womndeni wonke futhi wonke amalungu omndeni kufanele abambe iqhaza kule nqubo. Ingane kufanele ibone ukuthi isekelwa futhi iyaqondwa. Kuyinto efiselekayo kumngcwabo ukukhetha indawo enjalo, ukuze ukwazi ukuvakashela njalo ethuneni lomngane wakho ngezikhathi ezithile.
Ngaphambi kokuba ingane ingabikho, akufanele uphawule noma ubani ngokufa kwesilwane - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumakhelwane noma udokotela wezilwane. Ingane akumele ibone ubugebengu kulabo abanecala lokufa kwesilwane.
Ingane ingase ibe nezinkinga ngezifundo zayo, ingase ibe yinto engakahleleki futhi idideke, kodwa akufanele ihlushwa ngokuziphathisa nokuyikhahlela. Konke, ngisho nokulinganisa okubi, kubalulekile ukuphatha ngokubekezela nokuqonda. Ingane, kanye nomuntu omdala, idinga isikhathi sokungena futhi endleleni evamile yokuphila.
Ngezinye izikhathi, kufanele uphambukise ingane ekuhluphekeni: hamba ephalazini, uhambe ngaphandle komuzi, unike ingane ithuba lokuphumuza futhi njalo ukuphuma naye emgwaqweni - umoya omusha kusiza ukuphumula nokuphazamisa.
Imithi emihle kakhulu, yisikhathi. Nakuba lokhu akuyona iqiniso elingenakuphikwa. Iningi kakhulu, uma selivele liba ngabantu abadala, liyakhumbula izenzakalo ezibuhlungu futhi ezibuhlungu zobuncane babo.
Ngokwemvelo, udinga ukucabanga ngokuthenga noma ukuthatha isilwane futhi. Futhi akudingekile ukuthi ube nohlobo olufanayo lwenja noma inja, cishe kungcono ukuthatha isilwane kolunye uhlobo.
Ukuze uthole ulwazi: izinja namakati angasithokozisa kusukela eminyakeni eyisishiyagalombili kuya eyishumi nesithupha - kuxhomeke kohlobo; Ama-hamsters ahlala ngokwesilinganiso cishe ngonyaka, okungcono, eyodwa nesigamu; ama-parrots angaphila, ngokucophelela, cishe eminyakeni eyisikhombisa kuya kweyishumi; Amagundane ahlobisa cishe aneminyaka emibili ubudala futhi abulawa ikakhulu umdlavuza.
Lapho ukhetha isilwane, umbono womntwana kufanele ucatshangelwe. Ungafaki izifiso zakho nemicabango yakho, okokuqala kufanele ulethe injabulo kumntwana, bese uyawe.
Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isilwane sakho futhi, kungcono ukulungele, ikakhulukazi uma isilwane esidlule siphelile ngenxa yesifo. Ngakho-ke, vakashela emtatsheni wezincwadi noma uthintane nodokotela wezilwane mayelana nokugoma, ukudla, njll. Kungcono ukuba nolunye ulwazi, ukuze ugweme izinkinga ngempilo yesilwane sakho kanye nezinye izimo ezingavamile esikhathini esizayo.