Isitayela sakhe: indoda yangempela. Futhi yini indoda yangempela okufanele iyenze? Akalokothi akhulume ngezinkinga zakhe, ephuma emisebenzini ethi "Konke kulawulwa." Kodwa ubuza ngezinkinga zakho futhi uthi ngokucacile ukuthi konke kuzokwenziwa. Uqobo. Futhi-ke uhlanganisa indaba yokunqoba izitha. Iyini inkinga: Uyakhumbula ukuthi ekuqaleni kokuthandana kwakho ubuhle kangakanani ngokukuthwala ezandleni zakho futhi uphumele izinhlayiya ezingcolile? Ufuna kube njalo, futhi isoka lakho lingenanto yokwenza kodwa limelela indoda yangempela. Uyesaba ukuvuma ukuthi akakwazi ukukwenza - kodwa kuthiwani uma ubheka kuye obuthakathaka futhi eyeka?
Ukubheka esikhathini esizayo: usakwazi ukubhekana nezinkinga zakhe, kodwa uhlala ungaxazululwa. Kwenzeka ukuthi izinto zakhe zokwakha zidideka kuphela. Uthukuthele, futhi uyabamba, okungenani ngezinye izikhathi wenza okuthile ngokwakho.
Lifebuoy: zama ukubeka phansi umqhele futhi ushintshe izindima. Ngokuqinisekile isimo sesivele sikukhathaze, ngakho-ke mchazele ngomusa umfana: ufuna (futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ungakwazi) ukubhekana nezinkinga zakho ngokwakho, ngoba ngaphandle kwalokho uzozizwa ubuthakathaka futhi ungenalutho, futhi uzohlala engumuntu wangempela. Kodwa uhlale ujabule ngeseluleko sakhe nangesizo. Futhi umcele ukuthi abelane ngezinkinga, ngoba uyamthanda futhi ufuna ukusiza. Njengoba "amabutho ebhandla" abonisa "ukuthobeka," ungenza okuningi.
Ukuzama ukubheka okukhethekile.
Isitayela sakhe: umthengisi wezindaba oqinisekisiwe. Enkulisa, walondoloza ama-hostage ayikhulu, futhi ngonyaka odlule wabonwa eqenjini futhi wabizwa ukuba adlale ku-Broadway, kodwa wenqaba ngenxa yobuhlobo bakho. Kuhle kahle. Kodwa, yile indoda yangempela.
Yini engalungile: ukungavikeleki kwe-banal ngokwayo futhi. Umfana uyesaba ukuthi uzolahlekelwa ngemuva kweminye abalandeli bakho, noma ufuna ukuphuma ngaphandle kwakho (yebo, kwakuyiqhawe lomhlaba e-karate futhi ngokuvamile indoda yangempela). Ukuze uqaphele, lo mpofu usekulungele ukwakha noma yini, futhi enze noma yini.
Ukubheka esikhathini esizayo: ngokushesha noma kamuva uzothola ukuthi konke lokhu kuyikho. Ngakho wathandana nendoda engekho nje? Akumangazi uma ekhuluma ukuthi uqamba amanga kuwe ngenxa yomsebenzi obalulekile kahulumeni.
Lifebuoy: uma lo muntu ethanda kakhulu kuwe, thatha ezandleni zakho. Akusizi ngalutho ukukusho ngokuqondile ukuthi wazi ngamanga akhe - ukubanjwa ngamanga umuntu osondelene naye uyamthuka kabi. Uvame ukubuza mayelana nezinto ezijwayelekile futhi ungakhohlwa ngisho nasezintweni (kodwa konke okufanayo kule ndaba).
UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekile isayithi