Inkimbinkimbi yeCinderella: indlela yokulwa nayo?

Ubani i-Cinderella yanamuhla? Owesifazane osesithombeni, ngemuva kokufihla isimo semvelo nesengozini noma intombazane ehudula ngezinkampani eziningi zezingane? Masiqondise futhi sibeke wonke amaphuzu ezindaweni zabo.


I-Cinderella eyinkimbinkimbi, cishe zonke ezinye izinto eziyinkimbinkimbi, isakhiwe futhi ivela ebuntwaneni. Kodwa-ke, akudingekile ukudweba phakathi komunye nomunye u-heroine weCinderella kusukela kumnandi kaCharles Perro. Yiqiniso, i-Cinderella yanamuhla iyisibonelo somlingiswa oyinhloko, noma kunjalo, impilo ingase ihluke kakhulu kumkhakha wezinganekwane umlobi owasungula. Isibonelo, angabalwa futhi aphile emndenini owenziwe kahle, ogcwele, futhi ugozwe abazali abanothando. Kodwa imibono yakhe ebalulekile kanye nomlingiswa zigcwele izinto eziza kuqala nezinto ezikhethekile, okuyinto esikhathini esizayo ezokwenza lokhu kuvezwe ku-Cinderella.

Intombazane enhle enhle

Ake sizame ukuqhathanisa umlingisi we-Cinderella wanamuhla kanye nokuqoqwa kwe-heroine emlandweni odumile. UZolushka wayevumelana kakhulu, unomusa, uthobekile futhi unokwethenjelwa, wayelokhu ezama ukulandela yonke indlela eya ezihlotsheni, ikakhulukazi umbono wakhe wawubalulekile kuye. Le ntombazane enomusa futhi enesizungu yayesaba kakhulu ukuthi izolahlwa futhi ishiyiwe.

Phela, kungani amantombazane amaningi efuna ukujabulisa uyise, kubonakala sengathi uyamehlo amantombazane amancane angenacala, angenacala, ahlanzekile futhi ayingane? Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi akubona bonke obaba abanika uthando lwabo ngokugcwele. Abaningi bethu kufanele bafanelwe uthando lwabo kusukela ekuqaleni. Umama njalo wathi: "Ungagijimi, funda kahle, ungenzi lokhu, ngaphandle kwalokho ubaba uzocasuka."

Abapapa abazange bacabange ukuthi, besabisa amadodakazi abo ngentukuthelo, bangakwazi ukwenza konke ukuphila kwabo kube yinkimbinkimbi "yentombazane enhle," okungafanelwe uthando lukababa ngokuziphatha okuhle nezenzo ezilungile, nakuba yena ngokwakhe ethanda upapa. Intombazane enhle ayikwazi ukukwenza okuthile uyise uyenqabela futhi ayenze lezo zenzo ezingqubuzana nentando kayise. Akakwazi ukuqina ngokuqinile nangokuthi "Angifuni", "cha," "Angiyikukwenza." Amantombazane afana namanje azama ukusekela ithemba laboyise, ngaphandle kwalokho ubaba uzothukuthela, futhi aphile ekuthunjweni kokufakwa komama.

Kodwa ingabe kukhona indlela yokuphuma kulokhu?

U-Cinderella ungumuntu onomusa kakhulu futhi onomusa waleso sikhathi, ungasho ngisho nesibonelo, awukwazi ukuphikisana nalokhu. Umlobi uCharles Perrault wabhala le ndaba ekhulwini lama-17, lapho uCinderella ephupha ukuba yiyo yonke intombazane, ngoba wayeyizimfanelo eziphelele futhi eziphelele zomfazi. Kuyisikhathi. Futhi izici zobuntu ezinjengomqondo wokuzibophezela, ukuphazamiseka, ukukholwa ezimangalisweni, ukuthobeka nokuzithoba kwintombazane engesona umfanekiso wesifazane ohloniphekile, ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka isakhiwo esisisulu. Ngakho owesifazane akasoze azithuthukisa ukuzethemba kwakhe, angamqinisi kakhulu. Uma unezici zobuntu, zama ukuzikhulula, uzilahle, awudingi.

Ubudlelwano namadoda

Fairy Cinderella waphupha umuntu oyedwa kuphela, nguye oyedwa ekuphileni kwakhe futhi ngokuthobeka wamlinda. Yiqiniso, wamlinda, kodwa bamsiza. Phela, unkulunkulukazi wakhe wayeyindlovukazi, owamsiza njalo futhi wavuselelwa ngokumangalisayo. Ngisho naphezu kokuthi uCinderella ushintshile ngaphakathi, akazange aphakamise ikhanda lakhe, umbono wakhe wezwe awuzange ushintshe, waqhubeka engumfana onothando nomusa. Lokhu akuzange kumvumele ukuba athole isiqinisekiso sokuzikhandla. Ngisho nomyalo omuhle wancipha amehlo akhe lapho indoda yakhe ethandekayo - isikhulu senza iminikelo nezinhliziyo. Kodwa kuze kube manje akekho owaziyo emva komshado abahlala ngokujabula noma cha.

I-Cinderella yanamuhla njenge heroine ethandekayo ilindele isikhulu sayo ngehhashi elimhlophe. Kodwa uzovuma ukuthi isakhiwo se-feiry cishe asinakuphindaphindiwe empilweni yangempela. Ngisho noma izikhulu zanamuhla futhi zibheke amantombazane anjalo, asikho isiqinisekiso sokuthi ngeke maduze bajabule nabo.

Ingabe kukhona ukuphuma?

Sonke siyazi ukuthi umuntu uyisitho. Futhi isikhulu sezinganekwane kwakuyisibonelo esicacile salokhu. Wahlangana nomfokazi, wamthandana naye, wabe esefuna ngenkani futhi emzingela. Noma kunjalo, inhliziyo yakhe ayinqotshwa umyalelo omuhle noma ubuhle, kodwa iningi lazo zonke izinkani neziyimfihlakalo. Phela, wonke amantombazane agijima ngemuva kwenkosi futhi ephupha ngokushada naye, futhi uCinderella wayesaba ukuphuma kuye. Nguye kuphela owayengammangaza, waqaphela ukuthi kwakungavamile, yingakho wayeyifuna. Umlando wezinganekwane usitshela ukuthi isikhulu sasifuna owesifazane oyimfihlakalo, omangalisayo futhi oyingqayizivele - lokhu kungafundwa phakathi kwemigqa. Akusho ukuthi isikhulu sidinga ukuthobeka, ukulalela nokubophezela, wayefuna inkosikazi yangempela. Kodwa akekho owaziyo ukuthi uCinderella ufanele yini ukuthi ithemba likaPrincess lizongena emshadweni.

Amadoda afana nabesifazane abathandekayo abonisa isinyathelo, kungenjalo ngokushesha bazoba mnandi kubo. Yiqiniso, kufanele athande izingane, abe ngumfazi othembekile, inkosikazi enhle kakhulu nomama omuhle. Kodwa isikhulu asizange sikwazi ukudalula kulowo okumangazayo, sikhokhelwe nge-glance, sithandeka ngobuhle bayo, ukudukisa, ukudukisa, nokubaluleke kakhulu - kuveza ubuhle obuhle obungenakuqhathaniswa nokuzethemba ngaphakathi. Phela, noma yikuphi owesifazane okufanele athuthukiswe ngokungafani futhi ikakhulukazi kuvumelane kukho konke, yilokho uthando olukulo, kulungile?

Uma uyi-Cinderella yesimanje, ke uqaphele kuqala ubuntu bakho, izifiso nezidingo zakho. Ngoba kuphela ukuma kwegama labanye nokuzihlonipha okuphansi kukuphoqa ukuba uzilahle, ukukholelwa ukuthi injabulo izofika kuphela ekufikeni kwesikhulu empilweni yakho, ngoba ngokwabo awunazi.

Kodwa-ke, i-Cinderella ngayinye inezimfanelo eziningi ezinhle, ziyakhathalela, ziqotho, zinomusa futhi zikwazi ukuthethelela aboni. Kodwa wena awuzihloniphi ngokwakho, futhi unamathisele ukubaluleka okukhulu ekushiyweni kwakho.

Uzozuza ngokuqeqesha kanye namasu ahlose ekuthuthukiseni ukuzethemba nokwandisa ukuzethemba. Yiqiniso, ukuze uzuze okuhle futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, umphumela oyifunayo, uzodinga okungaphezu kwenyanga eyodwa, kodwa ukholwe kimi, imizamo esetshenzisiwe izokunika okuningi. Ukuthuthuka akuzange kuphoqelele ukulinda ukubonisana nomqondo wezengqondo oqeqeshiwe. I-Cinderellas icatshangelwe kabi ngamazwi mayelana nesikhulu, futhi lokhu kubhubhisa impilo yangempela. Kungani uhamba phambili emkhakheni wezemfundo futhi uthole imfundo ephakeme, uma kungekudala ngizohlangana nalesi sikhulu? Akafuni yini ukuhlangabezana noCinderella ophumelelayo nozimele, ongekho "ngezinyathelo" nomama wakhe wesimama?

Wonke amaCinderella kumele acabange ukuthi uzohlala kanjani ngaphandle kwesikhulu. Uma engakaze ahlangane nomzila wakho, uzophila kanjani, futhi uzokwenzenjani? Mhlawumbe-ke ufuna ukuqala ukufunda, ukwenza into oyikhonzile, ukuthola okuzilibazisa nokukhuphuka kwezinga lomsebenzi.

Yilokho okudingeka ukwenze. Futhi isikhulu, Yebo, sizovela empilweni yakho, kodwa emva kwesikhathi esincane. Uma wazi ukuthi yini oyifunayo empilweni, ungalindeli iqiniso lokuthi ukuphila kuyoba kuhle kuphela uma isikhulu sibonakala futhi siba ngowesifazane othembekile, uthando luzovela empilweni.

Phela, noma yiyiphi intombazane eyayikhona iCinderella, izokwazi ukuphumelela futhi ijabule namabutho akhe ngaphandle kwakhe.