Inzuzo ecacile.
Into yokuqala okufanele ilale ebusweni bakho inkulumo. Ama-nuances angaba yimuphi, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokuphikisana nomqondo oyisisekelo. Uma uhambisa ngokuqondile zonke izinzuzo zesiphakamiso sakho, ama-minus azobhekwa njengokugcina.
Izingxoxo eziphumelelayo nezinzuzo ezibonakalayo zizuzisa kuzo zonke izinsiza ezisebenzisayo kanye namathemba angenzeka. Le nzuzo ayidingi ukuba ibe ngezezimali. Kukhona amaphrojekthi ukuthi ngisho nenzuzo encane ehleliwe ingahle ikhangele, ngoba inqoba izinhlangothi zombili, ayithathi isikhathi esiningi namandla okusebenzisa, kusiza ukwakha isithombe esihle senkampani emakethe futhi senze njengokukhangisa okwengeziwe. Ngakho-ke, bheka noma yiziphi izinzuzo ekuphakamisweni kwakho bese ugxila kuzo.
Imithombo efihliwe.
Ukuze uthonye umphumela wanoma yikuphi ukuxoxisana, udinga ukusebenzisa kokubili okulele phezulu, nokuthi yini efihlekile ekuhloleni amehlo. Isibonelo, imizwelo yakho. Ukuthi imizwa yethu ithinta abanye yiqiniso elingenakuphikwa. Ungase ungajwayele ngokuphelele futhi ungazi kahle, kodwa kuyisimo sakho esizozizwa ngabaxhumanisi be-interlocutors.
Zama "ukubamba umlilo" ngephrojekthi oyibekayo. Uma engakuthwali, ungakhanga kanjani abantu abangabazi embuzweni obangela ukuthi unganandaba? Ukwesaba, izinkathazo kufanele zihlale ngemuva, kepha ugqozi nokholo kulokho okwenzayo kuyadingeka ukuze uphumelele.
Ungasebenzisi ulimi olulodwa olomile kanye nemigomo yobuchwepheshe, kodwa futhi nenzuzo yomuntu siqu. Veza ngesibonelo sakho ukuthi isiphakamiso sakho sihle kangangokuthi awukwazi ukunqabela. Kodwa yiba nengqondo: ukuzwela ngokweqile, ukudlala ngothando noma ukwethuka akumukeleki. Ukuthembela kubangela ukuthula okunamandla nokuncane kwalokho abantu abakusho ngokuthi i-charm.
I-Euphoria ayinakwenzeka ukuthi ifaneleke ekuphethweni kwesivumelwano esibalulekile, njengokucindezeleka. Bheka incazelo yegolide, bese uzama ukugcina isimo sengqondo esifanele kulo lonke umhlangano.
Ukuhlasela okulungile.
Cabanga ukuthi kukhona abantu phambi kwakho abakwazi wena futhi abamele indaba yengxoxo yakho kahle kakhulu. Ukufeza imvume yabo yobambiswano akunakwenzeka, ngenkathi kusele kungenzi lutho. Ngisho noma u-interlocutor wakho usesikhathini, kodwa unethemba noma ukungabaza, umsebenzi wakho ukumbumbuluza futhi ulungise indlela efanele.
Ukuhlasela ngesibindi, kodwa ukuhlasela ngokufanele. Isibonelo, ungahlali ngqo phambi kwe-interlocutor. Isikhundla esihle kakhulu eceleni komuntu okhuluma naye. Ngakho-ke, ochwepheshe abanolwazi basebenzisa amatafula okubambisana ngezinkulumo ezibalulekile - ngakho-ke abaxhumana nabo abanaso umuzwa wokuthi baqhutshwa kabi.
Cabanga ngakho yonke imininingwane yesikhala lapho umhlangano uzokwenzeka khona. Ukukhanya, imisindo, iphunga, imibala - konke lokhu kubalulekile. Hlela ama-accents ukuze ukuma jikelele kwekhabhinethi kungaphazamisi ukugxila kwesihloko sengxoxo, kodwa cabanga ngamaphuzu aqhakazile angasiza ekwenzeni isinqumo esifanele. Isibonelo, amatafula namagrafu anezindawo ezinemibala ehlukahlukene ekhombisa amaphuzu ayisihluthulelo emibono yakho. Sebenzisa ukukhanya ukuze kungaboni emehlweni, kodwa ukhanyisa itafula futhi ume. Amafomu angathinta futhi umphumela wezingxoxo. Gwema imimoya eshibhile, ungasebenzisi ama-air fresheners ehhovisi. Kungcono ukuthenga idivayisi ozoniza emoyeni.
Yiqiniso, kubaluleke kakhulu ukulawula ukuthinta kwakho, izinkulumo zobuso, usebenzise ngokuzethemba yonke imigomo efanele futhi ukwazi ukukhuluma ngokushelelayo ngokufaneleka. Kodwa awukwazi ukunganaki izinto ezincane ezingagcina zizinqumo. Imisebenzi eminingi enenzuzo ephukile ngenxa yokuthi umuntu okwethule iphrojekthi akazange anakekele indawo efanele futhi aduduze, akazange alungiselele izingxoxo noma angayinaki imithetho eyisisekelo. Funda kulabo labo abathandekayo kanye negunya labo njalo okwenza ukuba ulandele kunoma yisiphi isimo futhi uqaphele lokho okusemqoka kanye nemininingwane.