Ukuya esitolo sokudlela komunye umuntu umcimbi ojwayelekile, futhi kumuntu - umcimbi onomthwalo wemfanelo. Kunoma yikuphi, kokubili owokuqala nowesibili kufanele bazi imithetho ethile yokuya esikhungweni esiphezulu, ukuze bangabashiyi amahlumela etafuleni futhi bangaboni ukungcola ebusweni. Phela, esimweni esinjalo, kungase kube namahloni kubo bonke abakuzungezile etafuleni. Ake sikhulume nge-etiquette yokudlela.
Khetha indawo
Ikhishi: ukukhetha indawo yokuhlangana, kubalulekile ukukhumbula umthetho owodwa: "umuntu oyingqayizivele esimweni esiyingqayizivele." Ngamunye wethu ungumuntu ngamunye, ikakhulukazi ekuthandweni okuthandayo. Qaphela lokhu kusengaphambili. Buza umngane wakho ukuthi angathanda ukuya kuphi noma ukuthi yikuphi ukudla akukhethayo: amaSushi namaJapane aseJapane, i-pizza yase-Italiya, noma mhlawumbe izindawo zokudla zaseMelika noma ama-Irish pubs. Kuyoba namahloni kakhulu ukumema umuntu, oyisitshalo semifino, endaweni yokudlela yezinhlanzi.
2. Ubuqili: kulula kakhulu ukuya endaweni yokudlela lapho usuvele ukhona khona, okusho ukuthi uwazi kahle kwimenyu, ungayeluleka isidlo futhi wazi izintengo. Kungcono nakakhulu, wazi zonke iziqili. Nasi isibonelo esivela ekuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu. Kwenye yezindawo zokudlela zaseJapane ngezinye izikhathi zipholile ematafuleni asekude nokuphuma. Ngakho ungacela ... ingubo epholile! Ukwazi le nuance kungakusiza ekukhulumisaneni ne-interlocutor.
3. I-Atmosphere: lapho ukhetha indawo yokudlela, qiniseka ukuthi ucabangela umoya ovamile kuwo. Ukuze ungaphumi njengengoma: "Futhi esitolo sokudlela, nasendaweni yokudlela, futhi kukhona ama-guitar, futhi kukhona ama-gypsy ...". Isibonelo, umuntu omdala akakwazi ukujabulela umculo ophezulu, kodwa uzokhetha indawo ekhululekile futhi ephumuzayo. Uma ungakaze ujwayelane nomunye umuntu, gcina engqondweni ukuthi lokho akushoyo ekudleni, lokhu okuphathelene nawe. Ngempela, le ndawo yomhlangano yamiswa nguwe.
4. Imali ye-invoyisi: zama ukungahambisani nenani elikhulu lamadiza abizayo noma, ngokuphambene, thatha okungenani ubuncane. Kungaba ngcono uma ummemeli engowokuqala ukuyala isivakashi ukuba akwazi ukuzimisela yena, yini ayengayithola, nokuthi yini engafanele. Futhi mayelana nokuthi ubani okhokhayo, thola kusengaphambili, hhayi nge-assistant. Ungazikhokhela noma uzivumele uzijabulise.
Okhokhela: ukuphela kwesidlo kufanele utshele ummemezeli, bese ucela lo mthethosivivinywa. Owesifazane angazikhokhela yena, ekhumbuza umgcini walokho akuyala ngakho. Indoda ithola i-akhawunti ehlukile. Isenzo esifanele engxenyeni yakhe kuyoba ukukhokha utshwala. E-Russia, kuwumkhuba ukushiya u-10-15% we-akhawunti ye-tip uma bengakabalwa kakade kulo mthethosivivinywa. Kodwa-ke, okukhethwa kakhulu futhi okuhle kakhulu kuyona lapho umuntu ethatha owesifazane.
Endaweni yokudlela
5. Ukuncipha: ukuphuthuma emihlanganweni, ngokungenakuphikwa, kubi. Ngokwezimiso zokuziphatha, le ndoda kumele ifike kuqala, icacise izithuba zokulondoloza. Kodwa empilweni kunezimo lapho umuntu ephuzile emhlanganweni, isibonelo, wangena emgwaqeni wezimoto noma usephuzile emsebenzini. Kumele ukuba aqiniseke ukuthi le nkosikazi yona yangena esitolo sokudlela futhi yalalela into ethile ngenkathi ilinda.
6. Esigqokeni sika-wardrobe: ikhabethe libuye libe nemibala yalo. Isibonelo, ukusiza ukususa noma ukugqoka ingubo kufanele umuntu, hhayi isisebenzi sesikhungo. Esikhathini lady lady esibukweni kungenziwa ulungise izinwele zakhe kuphela. Kodwa ukudweba, ukulungisa amasheya, ukuphuma kwezinwele kuphela ekamelweni labesifazane.
7. Ukubhema: Ngingabhema yini endaweni yokudlela? Mhlawumbe umthetho oyinhloko kulokhu okulandelayo: ungabhema lapho lapho kukhona khona umlotha. Isiphetho esinengqondo. Uma uhlezi eceleni komuntu ongabhemi, zama ukubhema ugwayi omusha ngesikhathi lapho eqala isidlo esilandelayo. Lokhu kungambulala isifiso sakhe. Kodwa esimweni esibucayi, uma uhola impilo enempilo hhayi ngokubhema ugwayi, wena ubonisa ukuthi umbhemi akufanele abe namahloni. Faka noma yiliphi igumbi, kuhlanganise nesitolo sokudlela, ngogwayi kungenakwenzeka ukuthi awukwazi, awukwazi ukuthi kukhona amakamelo ababhemayo kuwo. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi emazweni ahlukene ukubhema imithetho ihlukile.
8. Endabeni yenkambiso: naphezu kokuthi owesifazane ungena esiteshini sokudlela kuqala, indoda kufanele, ijubane kancane isinyathelo, ifike ngaphambi kwayo iphinde iphoqe isihlalo. Angasikisela indodakazi ukuba ikhethe indawo. Izindawo ezilula kakhulu yizindawo ezibhekene nokungena, uma uhlala phansi phakathi kwehholo, noma ubhekene nehholo, uma udongeni. Ngokuqinisekile, le ndoda emva kwalona wesifazane ihlezi phansi.
Ukuya kuphi yokudlela
9. Izingubo: Uma ucabanga ukuya esitolo sokudlela njengomcimbi obalulekile, kufanele ugqoke ngokufanele, futhi. Akusho ukuthi kufanele ukhonjiswe nge-crinoline ne-corset. Okokuqala, izingubo kufanele zibe nenhle, zanamuhla, ezihambelaniswe nambitha. Uma ucabanga ukuthi emva kosuku olunzima awukwazi ukubheka ohloniphekile, uphutha. Kusihlwa, cabanga ngesithombe sakho, uthwale i-suitcase yezingubo nawe, yebo, akufanele. Kodwa ungathatha izesekeli kanye nesikhwama sezimonyo. Izimonyo ezengeziwe futhi izesekeli zizokulungisela ngokuphelele kusihlwa. Yiqiniso, i-turtleneck elula noma i-sweat eboshiwe akunakwenzeka ukusiza. Uma unesikhathi sokuzilungiselela lo mcimbi, bese ukhetha i-blouse ezithakazelisayo nge-cut original noma imininingwane kanye nomkhati. Konke kuxhomeke kulokho ofuna ukuvela ngaphambi kwe-interlocutor.