Amaphupho yizwe elikhethekile lapho sibona khona izinto esingenakuziqonda noma abazi ngokoqobo. Uma siphupha ngezinto ezithile, zivame ukukhomba ezinye izinkinga, izixazululo zabo, zibikezela isiphetho nokunye okuningi. Izimpawu ngamaphupho kudingeka zikwazi ukuqagela kahle. Yingakho abantu abaningi bephendukela ezincwadini zephupho.
Isibonelo, uma uzibuza ukuthi umthengisi onamahlombe ophuphayo, ungathola izimpendulo eziningi ezahlukene. Ngakho, ngezansi sihlaziya ukuhumusha okuyinhloko kwephupho, lapho umshumayeli wamakhadi aphupha khona.
Ukuchazwa kwencazelo "inhlanhla ngamakhadi"
Uma uphupha umbikezeli wenhlanhla onamakhadi noma ezinye izinto zokuxoxela inhlanhla futhi uqale ingxoxo naye, khona-ke unezinkinga ezithile mayelana nobuhlobo nomuntu wakho othandekayo. Kulesi simo, inhlanganisela yezinhlanhla kuphela ezingakusiza ukuthi ungalahlekelwa ubuhlobo.
Kumele uqaphele ukuthi ukuchazwa kwephupho, lapho kunomthengisi wezinkampani ngamakhadi, kuhluke kakhulu, kuye ngokuthi ngabe iphupho liphuka yini indoda noma owesifazane. Isibonelo, uma iphoyisa lisho amaphupho entombazane, khona-ke kukhona umuntu ozungezile.
Uma ungaphupha umbikezeli wenkokhelo ngamakhadi, kodwa lowo ozibuza esandleni, khona-ke intombazane inabangane abaningi besilisa, kodwa ngobuhlobo besifazane akayinhlanhla. Ngendlela, uma uphupha ngesandla sakho ephusheni, kusho ukuthi abantu abaseduze bayakwazisa ukuhlakanipha kwakho nobuhlakani bakho.
Futhi, umbikezeli wenhlanhla namakhadi angabonisa ukuthi othile uhlela isinyathelo ngokumelene nomuntu.
Abanye abantu baphupha ukuthi umbikezeli wenhlanhla ubikezela into embi futhi bayesaba ephusheni. Akudingekile ukudlulisela lokhu kwesaba empilweni yangempela, ngoba uma wesaba ephusheni, empeleni ungakwazi ukunqoba ngokushesha futhi kalula zonke izithiyo futhi uxazulule izinkinga.
Ukuhumusha kwezinganekwane
Kukhona futhi ukuhumusha kwamaphupho amanga ngamaphupho. Isibonelo, ngokusho kwencwadi yamaphupho enganekwane, amaphupho anjalo akhombisa ukuthi lowo muntu uthanda kakhulu isotericism. Futhi, lesi sibonakaliso singasho izinto ezihluke ngokuphelele, kokubili okuhle nokubi: izinkohliso, ukungabaza, ukungavumelani ngokwakho, imiyalezo engalindelekile, izenzakalo ezinhle namazwi ahlukene ahlukanisayo.
Omunye umshicileli angaphupha futhi ukuthi ulindele inhlanhla, okuzoshintsha ngokuphelele ikusasa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, umbikezeli wenhlanhla onamakhadi, okubikezela isiphetho sakho, angasho ukuthi maduze uzoba nomhlangano wothando.
Iphupho lamaphupho okungabaza nokuhlukumezeka okuhlukahlukene, ngokuvamile okungekho ngokuphelele enhlabathini.
Ngendlela, uma uphupha umtshelezi wenhlanhla, qaphela indlela acabanga ngayo nokuthi yini ephumayo. Udaba ukuthi lungaba izimpawu ezengeziwe ezizochaza ukuthi yiziphi ezizofika, lapho ungalinda khona ukuhleka, futhi kukusize unqume ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nesimo sakho sengqondo futhi uthole izimpendulo zemibuzo yakho.
Ukuhumusha kwe-Eroti
Futhi into yokugcina ukuyikhumbula ukuchazwa kwamaphupho nomtshelezi wenhlanhla ngokuhambisana nezincwadi zokuphupha ezithandayo.
Umtshelezi wenhlanhla angasho ukuthi umuntu uthanda izinto ezihlukahlukene zobulili ezibhekwa njengenqatshelwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umbikezeli wenhlanhla namakhadi amantombazane anama fanshi amabili futhi maduze azokwenza ukhetho. Futhi, iphupho lingasho ukuthi isimo sini sizosiza ukuba ungenzi iphutha futhi uhlale nalowo muntu oba umngane wokuphila ngempela.
Uma iphupho mayelana nomqashi ongeke liphuphe intombazane, kodwa kumfana, khona-ke iphupho elikhukhumezayo lichaza uphawu olunjengokwengeziwe ukunakekelwa kwabesifazane. Ngokushesha le nsizwa izoba nabalandeli abaningi, ngenxa yokuthi uzokwazi ukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba nokuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo sokuzibona.