Ukunqunywa kokuphakama ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho likaMiller
Ukuhumusha kwephupho likaMiller kunikeza incazelo ejwayelekile yalokho ukuphakama ephusheni kusho. Ngokwencazelo yakhe, lokhu kusho ukulinda impumelelo. Uma uphula phansi, uwe-ukudumazeka okusheshayo. Ukwesaba ukungaqiniseki emakhono akho.
Kungani ukwesaba izindawo eziphakeme kunephupho kulabo abangesabi yiqiniso?
Njengenjwayelo, umuntu akanakusho lutho ngokungaqondile. Cabanga ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukwesaba ukuphakama ephusheni kubantu abangenaso ukwesaba noma abathanda ukukhuphuka phezulu, bacabangela izimo ezihlukahlukene zokuphila.
- Ngokuvamile, lokhu kwesaba kuhlotshaniswa nesidingo senkululeko enkulu. Mhlawumbe esinye sezihlobo noma into ebhizinisini ikuvimbela ekuphefumuleni ngokugcwele, futhi uhlale ucabanga ngakho.
- Ukubaluleka kokuphumula. Mhlawumbe, ugayela emsebenzini ophezulu kakhulu futhi uzoba nempilo uma kunesikhathi seviki noma amabili ukukhululeka.
- Ngomuntu othanda ukuthakazelisa nokwedlulele - kusho impumelelo yesikhathi esizayo, ukuzinza emisebenzini kanye nobuhlobo nabantu abakuzungezile.
- Kulabo abhekene nokukhetha - uphawu lokudinga ukuzidonsa ndawonye futhi bavume ngokuqinile isinqumo esibonakala sinengqondo, hhayi ukushintshaniswa ngezihluthulelo.
Ukwesaba izindawo eziphakeme kuyaphupha ngani, ngubani empeleni okwesaba ngakho?
Ngokungafani nabantu abangesabi ukuphakama ekuphileni okuvamile, kulabo abamesaba izindawo eziphakeme, amaphupho asho okuhlukile.
- Ungazibeki izinhloso ezingenangqondo. Lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga ukuyeka ukuphupha, kodwa uma uhlela ikusasa lakho, kufanele ucabangele iqiniso futhi wenze isinyathelo ngesinyathelo, kunokuthi "Ngifuna konke ngesikhathi esisodwa."
- Kungabonakalisa isidingo sokungafuneki kancane nokuzigxeka.
- Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, lophupho angalinda ukuhlolwa okujulile. Akuzona ukuthi zizohlanganiswa nokulahlekelwa othandekayo noma impahla, ezimweni eziningi uzobhekana nokukhetha okunzima, ukwamukela isinqumo esinamandla esithinta impilo yakho yesikhathi esizayo.
Kungani sesaba ukuphakama ephusheni?
Ukungaqondi komuntu iminyaka eyizinkulungwane kunezinkathazo eziningana, okunye okwesaba ukuba phezulu. Uma usebenzisa isithombe esingaqondakali sokwesaba ukuphakama ephusheni, sizama ukudlulisela ulwazi olubalulekile, kuye ngokuthi isimo sengqondo salo muntu. Kulabo abangesabi noma ngisho bathanda ukuzizwa bengaphezu kwezinga lemvelo yomhlaba nolwandle, njengomthetho, lokhu kuyisimo esihle. Labo abazizwa beba ngcono uma bezwa ukuthi kunzima ngaphansi kwezinyawo zabo kungaba yisixwayiso ezinkingeni ezithile zokuphila.