Inani eliphelele
- Incazelo ejwayelekile kakhulu yezincwadi zephupho ithi umuntu uzokwazi ukwenza konke okukhulelwe, njengoba izimo zizofaka isandla kulokhu.
- Umama okhulelwe angasho futhi ukuthi lo mphupho uzoba nomphathi othonya ozosiza ukufeza lezi zinhloso. Futhi, izinguquko zingabhekana nokuphila komndeni nje kuphela, kodwa futhi nomsebenzi.
- Enye inguqulo mayelana nale maphupho iyinzuzo engokwenyama. Ngokuvamile, ukungathandwa okungalindelekile kwezindleko ezithembisa ukubona umama wakho ukhulelwe (lokhu kungaba ifa elingalindelekile, ukunqoba e-lottery).
Incazelo eningiliziwe: ukubona kumama okhulelwe ophupho
Kuncike ekutheni umama wakho uneminyaka engakanani empeleni nezinye izinto ongafunda kulophupho.
- Iningi labahumushi bephupho lihumusha umbono onjengobuhle bokuphumelela kunoma yiliphi ibhizinisi ongayithathi kulo mzuzwana wamanje.
- Uma empeleni, umama wakho ulindele ukugcwalisa, khona-ke iphupho elinjalo lisho ukuthi ukubeletha kuzodlula kalula futhi kungenabuhlungu.
- Kubalulekile ukucabangela isimo sokulala. Isibonelo, uma engumdabu futhi engenamsebenzi, ukuchuma kwempahla akufanele kulindeleke. ngisho nokuphambene nalokho, izindaba zakho zezezimali zingalimaza kakhulu kangangokuthi uzokufinyelela esimweni esibucayi.
- Ukubona indlela umama wakho abeletha ngayo kusho ukuthi uzodinga ubunzima obuningi ngaphambi kokuba uqedele umsebenzi.
- Kubuye kwenzeke nokuthi umuntu waphupha ukuthi uthatha ukubeletha kunina. Lesi yisibonakaliso esihle kakhulu, esichaza ukujwayelana nomuntu onokwethenjelwa ongakwazi ukuba umngane wakho empilweni.
- Uma, ekuphumeni kwakho, umama wakho akasesimweni esibucayi, kepha ephusheni wabona lokhu, khona-ke kufanele ukhulume naye, ngoba kuye kunesikhathi esihle sokuqala nokuqala kwemibono.
Okunye Ukuhumusha Kwephupho
Abaningi abahumushi bayavuma ukuthi umama, njengomuntu ozalwa kakhulu, akakwazi ukuletha iphupho empilweni yangempela. Kodwa-ke, ukuze uqonde ngokuqondile iphupho lakho mayelana nomama okhulelwe, kufanele uhlole ngokucophelela ulwazi oluvela ezincwadini zephupho ezinokwethenjelwa kakhulu.
- UMiller ubhala ukuthi ukubukeka komama ephusheni kuveza impumelelo nemiphumela emihle kunoma yikuphi ukuzama. Ikakhulukazi liphathelene nebhizinisi.
- Ukukhuluma naye kusho ukuthi umphuphi uzothola imilayezo eminingi emihle maduzane, okungase kusize ekutholeni lokho aqala khona.
- Encwadini yephupho likaVanga kuthiwa umama onesimo esiphundu amaphupho njengophawu lokuphila komndeni ojabulisayo ngephupho.
- Uma owesifazane ephusheni edabukisayo noma elele, lungele ukuxabana okukhulu emndenini. Ngenxa yalokhu, kungase kuvele nokuwa, kodwa njengoba uthola isixwayiso kusengaphambili, uzoba nesikhathi sokuvimbela ubunzima.
Ngokwehluleka, kufanele kuthiwa amaphupho anjalo ajwayelekile. Ngokuvamile umama okhulelwe ubonakala izingane ezilindele ukuzalwa komzalwane noma udadewabo. Izazi zengqondo zicabangela lokhu ukubonakaliswa okungaqondakali komhawu. Kwabantu asebekhulile, ekukhulelweni okuphuphile, unina angasho ukungafuni ukuthola izingane zabo noma ukwesaba ukwenza kanjalo.