Emakhulwini eminyaka adlule adlule, abesifazane abanobuchwepheshe bokuthuthukiswa kwakudingeka bafe esigxotsheni, ngoba abamele isonto hhayi nje kuphela, bakholelwa ngokuqinile ukuthi babengabathakathi ababenokuxhumana noDeveli ngokwakhe. Namuhla, noma kunjalo, izethulo zomuntu wanamuhla mayelana nezidalwa zezwe, ukuxhumana kwabo nekhono labo lokuzizwa ngalezi zinkinga noma lezi zimo, abasaxhunyiwe nabo kanye nabesifazane abanenhlangano engokwenyama engokomoya abakwazi ukwesaba impilo yokuziphilisa.
Kodwa uma intuition idlala indima ebalulekile empilweni yethu, isiza ukugwema izimo ezibucayi, ingenzi amaphutha abulalayo, singakwazi yini ukuthuthukisa lo mqondo wesithupha?
Okokuqala, ake sizame ukuthola ukuthi intuition ini, ngubani onikwe yona nokuthi ingasetshenziswa kanjani okuhle. Ngakho, njengoba sisondelene nesisombululo, kwakukhona izazi zefilosofi ezaziwayo njengo-Emmanuel Kant, uSpinoza, uSocrates nomlandeli kaFreud Jung. Umqondo we "intuition" uhunyushwa ngokuthi "bheka".
Eqinisweni, umqondo wethu wesithupha, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthuthukisiwe kangakanani, luhlobo lombono ongaphakathi, ubuhlobo obuseduze obuvumela ukuba sixazulule izinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi. Yiqiniso, uma umuntu engenayo ulwazi oluthile mayelana nesakhiwo sezwe, ke nje akanalo ikhono lokuchaza ngokufanele izibonakaliso ukuthi intuition inikeza. Futhi njengama-kakisvestno, amacebo angabonakaliswa ngezindlela ezihlukene: abanye babona amaphupho ayisiprofetho, amanye amazinga ezinzwa angabona kuqala izimo ezihlukahlukene, okwesithathu, ukuqonda okungazelelwe kuhla.
Ngenxa yokwenza ucwaningo oluningi, ososayensi baye bathola iziphetho zokuthi intuition iqhutshwe kahle phakathi kwabantu abadala abavamise ukusebenzela indawo efanele yobuchopho. Kodwa uma ungazibheki njengabantu abadala, ungathuthukisa i-hemisphere efanele ngokuzimela, ngaleyondlela ukwandisa umqondo wesithupha? Kuvela ukuthi kungenzeka, futhi ukunakekelwa okuyinhloko kufanele kuhokhwe ukuqinisekisa ukuthi le nqubo ibangela umsebenzi ohambelana nawo wonke ama-hemispheres obuchopho.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa intuition?
Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ekuthuthukiseni intuition, kubalulekile ukuba uhlanganyele emikhubeni ethile engathà sina, ubanikeze cishe isikhathi esithile sosuku lwakho. Ngeke siphikisana, kunezikhala zefilosofi emhlabeni ohlinzeka ngemikhuba yokuzindla, ukugcwaliseka okukhutheleko okuzokuvumela ukuba uzibuke futhi ukhulise intuition yakho. Kodwa kunezindlela ezilula kakhulu, kodwa ezingekho ngaphansi kokusebenza okuncane.
Okulula kunazo zonke yizo ezikuvumela ukuthi usebenze ngalesandla ongenele kancane. Okusho ukuthi, uma unesandla esifanele, udinga ukuhambisa ezinye zezenzo ozijwayele ukwenza ngesandla sokunene, ngakwesobunxele. Ngakho-ke, ungabamba isipuni ngakwesokunxele sakho, zama ukubhala okungenani imigqa yombhalo, okungukuthi, udinga ukufezekisa ukuthi umthwalo kulawo ma-hemispheres wawungalingani.
Njengomsebenzi wokuzivocavoca, zama ukuthatha ipensela ezandleni zombili bese udweba into ehambisana nendawo ephepheni. Kungaba yini: i-apula, ubuso bomuntu, i-butterfly. Gcina izandla zakho zihamba ngokuvumelanisa, futhi isithombe esisetshenzisiwe ephepheni sinjengokulingana ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngokwemvelo, ukuthola umphumela omuhle kusuka ku-rasudutsya wokuqala hhayi wonke umuntu, kodwa izenzo ezinjalo ngaphandle kwalokhu kuzosiza ukuthuthukisa intuition, kuzokufundisa ukuba ugxile futhi ukhulule nokuhlaselwa kwe-migraine. Ngokushesha nje lapho uqala ukuthola izithombe ezihloniphekile, ijubane lokunyakaza linganda.
Okunye okunye okuyiyona ndlela yokuzivocavoca ekuhambeni kwesandla okudidiyelwe. Okokuqala, zama ukuthatha iminwe emibili yesokunxele ngemuva kwendlebe ye-mochkravoy, neminwe emibili kwesokudla - ngemuva kwempumu. Bese ukhulula iminwe yakho, ushaya izandla zakho bese ushintsha ngokushesha izandla. Yini, okokuqala engazange isebenze? Kuhle, imizuzu embalwa yokuqeqeshwa nezandla zizohamba njengoba kudingeka. Uma nje ungenza lo msebenzi ngaphandle kwamaphutha, wuleza ijubane futhi uqhubeke nomoya ofanayo.
Abesifazane abaningi namadoda athile baqonda kahle uma umxhumanisi ekhuluma iqiniso. Futhi lokhu kuqonda kuza kithi ngezinga elibucayi. Le ndlela isebenza kanjani kulokhu? Konke kuyiqiniso ukuthi, ukukhuluma amanga, umuntu obonisa ubuso bakhe nesenzo sakhe kubonisa isikhundla sangempela sezinto - umzimba wakhe njengoba wembula isimo sangempela sezinto. Uma ungafundile isayensi enjenge-physiognomy, lokhu akusho ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukuqaphela amanga - uzozizwa uqaphile futhi uzothola ukungathembeki kwisipikha.
Njengoba sekushiwo ngenhla, ukuqashelwa kwezibonakaliso ezibonwa nguwe ezingeni elivulekile kusizwa ngolwazi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, intuition isebenza njengendlela yokuqonda, ngaleyo ndlela ihluke enkambeni yokucabanga, engakwazi ukuhlala amahora amaningana, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngaphezulu. Kungenxa yalesi sizatfu ukuthi abakhohlisi abakholelwa ukuthi kukhona khona intuition, futhi ngisho nangokwengeziwe ngenxa yezinkomba zayo, umuntu angenza isinqumo esifanele.
Amadoda angakholelwa ezixwayisweni zabesifazane bawo, akholelwa ukuthi ukubona kwangaphambili kwesimo akuyona into engaphezu kokuhlela kwayo. Lokhu kungukuthi, owesifazane akaziboneli ngaphambili, kodwa umane uyamkhanga, futhi indoda ingakwazi ukulwa nezinkinga kuphela.
Eqinisweni, singabona isimo esivamile: owesifazane ozwela kakhulu ulindele ukuvela kwesimo esinzima futhi utshele lokhu kumuntu. Emva kwalokho, ngemva kokulalela, ubona lokhu njengenye into eyakhelwe abesifazane futhi engamlaleli. Uma kwenzeka ngempela isimo, ummeli wobulili obuqinile kufanele alwe ngokungajabulisi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi angenakulinganiswa, imiphumela.
Ochwepheshe bathi izwi elingaphakathi cishe yilowo nalowo kithi, kodwa kuphela abanye abalalele. Abakwazi ukwethemba imizwa yabo nokuzibonela phambili.