Isikhathi sesikhathi esidingekayo ngokobulili singumuntu ngamunye kithi. Kungase kube nesisindo. Kodwa uma owesifazane exoxa ngezocansi ezinkulu - ekhuluma nge-foreplay engaqondakali, mayelana nokusikhipha umzimba okude. Futhi ezimweni ezingavamile, omunye wabo angakhuluma nge-sex eside kakhulu, kodwa okwenzekile endaweni engavamile. Emadodeni, konke kuhlukile kancane. Kubo, ubude besenzo socansi akubalulekile, kubalulekile kubo ukuthi lokhu kwenzeke kaningi. UNowa, ngokusho kobulili, ubulili obuhle uma bobabili abalingani bethola ukwaneliseka. Ngalesi sikhathi, okudingekayo ukuthola i-orgasm, kubalulekile. Kodwa kuthiwani ngeqiniso lokuthi izindlela zokuzijabulisa zihluke ngokuphelele? Emadodeni, ukukhathazeka kungokwemvelo kulula futhi ngokushesha kakhulu. Kodwa abesifazane badinga isikhathi esincane sokuthakazelisa. Singahle sibheke nje umlenze womuntu ongenalutho noma izandla zomuntu omuhle. Ukuze abe nobambiswano bobudlelwane bezocansi kufanele banakekele injabulo yomunye nomunye.
Yini abesifazane abayidingayo?
Ukuphendula ngokocansi kwabafazi kuhlobene kakhulu nemizwelo. Imvelo isekelwe ukuthi sifuna indoda, uma sizama ukuzwa uthando noma uthando ngaye. Kwabesifazane, ubulili buyinto ethile yokuthanda. futhi ikhono lokuzijabulisa lixhomeke kakhulu emizweni esizizwa ngayo ngomuntu okwamanje. Uma ukhathazekile noma uthukuthele umlingani wakho, ngeke ukwazi ukukhanga uze uthukuthelele. Lokhu kusebenza ngisho nasezindlini ezincane ezifuywayo. Ukuze owesifazane ajabulele ucansi, udinga umuzwa wokuvikeleka, umuzwa wokuthi uyathandwa futhi uyathanda. Ukuzethemba kuyabalulekile, kubalulekile ukuthi uqiniseke ngemizwa yakhe nakuye.
Kodwa kuthiwani uma owesifazane engacabangi nje ngokobulili? Kulula kumuntu ukulungisa lokhu. Ngokwesilinganiso, ukujabulisa zonke izinzwa nokuvusa isifiso, owesifazane udinga amaminithi angu-20 kuya kwangu-30 e-pre-mineral caresses. I-Nestoit ingaphansi kwe-prelude. Phela, abesifazane abangama-70% bafinyelela e-orgasm ngqo ngesikhathi sokuqala. Futhi kuphela ama-30% asele angawahlola ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi.
Abaningi bamadoda abathinteli ukubaluleka kokuthambekela kokuqala. La madoda angacabangi ngomlingani nhlobo. Imbe masinyane kuze kube sekugcineni. Kulesi simo, zama ukuchaza umlingani ukubaluleka kwe-foreplay. I-Prelude ingashintshwa ibe ngumdlalo we "ozohlala isikhathi eside". Umlingani udinga ukukukhathaza isikhathi eside nangesikhathi eside, uma nje ungamceli ukuba ahambe emisebenzini esemqoka.
I-Libido nomjikelezo
ULibido kusho ukuthi kubantu besifazane, ukukhangwa ngokocansi kuxhomeke kumahomoni. Ingaqinisa, ingaba buthakathaka ngokuhambisana nezigaba zenqubo yokuya esikhathini. Ukukhanga ngokocansi owesifazane kuqala ukuqinisa izinsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi nangesikhathi sokuvuthwa. Lesi yisiteji somjikelezo lapho umzimba wesifazane ulungele ukukhulelwa. Ngalesi sikhathi, kulula ukukhulelwa, kanye nokukwazi ukufinyelela i-orgasm ngokushesha. Kulesi sigaba, lona wesifazane ukhululeka kalula futhi umzimba uzokuphendula ngisho nokusebenza kanzima. Futhi i-orgasm kulesi sigaba iyoba lula futhi ibe namandla. Kulesi sikhathi kungcono ukuchitha isikhathi nomngane wakho womshado. Ekamelweni lokulala phakathi nalesi sikhathi, izikhathi ezingalindeleki ziqinisekisiwe. Emva kwalesi sigaba, i-libido yesifazane iyancipha. Ukuphela komjikelezo ka-Av kwandisa ukungezwani nobulili kuleli phuzu awuthandi nje kuphela kodwa zama ukuhlukunyezwa kwesifiso somuntu wakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzokujabulela. Kulungile futhi ngesikhathi senhliziyo yakho isakhiwe i-hormone ekwazi ukulwa no-PMS.
Yini amadoda adinga?
Ngokungafani nabesifazane, ukuze ufinyelele umuntu we-orgasm awudingi imizuzu engaphezu kwemi-3. Yebo, futhi bayayifuna kaningi kunathi. Futhi ngenjabulo ayinayo imizwa ejulile kumlingani. Amadoda njalo futhi yonke indawo, afuna ngisho nalapho bekhathele kakhulu noma bethukuthele. Yebo, aseks, ebanjwe ngemuva kokuxabana, ngoba akuyona inkinga nhlobo. Emadodeni, imizwelo ayithinti ngempela isifiso sobulili. Imizwelo ngezocansi ayifani nhlobo. Uma abesifazane bathanda izindlebe, amadoda asethuthukile kakhulu. Ngokuvamile kwanele nje ukuphazamisa i-anteroom ngokukhululekile. Futhi ngomzuzu uzobe ekulungele ngokugcwele. Ungabi namahloni kumzuzwana obuseduze futhi ungacimi ukukhanya. Omunye umehluko ophakathi kwamadoda wukuthi baqede izenzo zonke zobulili. Ngakho-ke, bayayithanda ngokushesha, kodwa kaningi.
Akudingekile ukuba amadoda aqale, amathemba kanye nesithandwa. Ngokungangabazeki, ukuziphatha kwakho okuthandekayo kuyamjabulisa kuye, kodwa angakwenza ngaphandle kwabo.Ngaphezu kwakho konke kuzojabulisa indlela osabela ngayo ekuthinteni nasekuthandeni kwakhe. Ungakhathazeki ngokuthi udinga ngaphezulu isikhathi sokufinyelela i-orgasm. Ukulindela kuzongeza nje ukuthanda. Amanye ala madoda awahambisani nokuqala. Awufuni nje ukuthokoza kakhulu. Eqinisweni kuyoba nzima ngokwanele ukulibazise ukuphela kancane. Baqonda ngokugcwele ukuthi ekuqaleni kuyadingeka ukujabulisa umlingani. Ezimweni ezinjalo, ungathatha isinyathelo ezandleni zakho. Ungayinakekela kuze kube sekupheleni. Futhi emva kwalokho, ngakho-ke wathatha umoya omncane, angakhathazeka. Emaminithini ambalwa uzophumula kancane futhi uzobe esilungele isenzo esisha. I-Willows ngalesi sikhathi, nayo, izojabulela futhi i-foreplay eyamukelekile. Ngeke abe namandla kakhulu futhi uzokwazi ukukujabulisa.
Ubude besikhathi socansi
Isikhathi sokulala ngokobulili sinomuntu siqu, kodwa sincike ekutheni ubambiswano bomlingani. Ngenkathi kungekho ukuxhumana okucacile namandla enjabulo kanye nobude bobulili. Into esemqoka ukuthi bobabili abalingani babe ngcono.
Ngesizathu esithile, kuvame ukukholelwa ukuthi ubulili obuhle - lokhu kungukulala kwesikhathi eside. Ubulili obude isikhathi eside buhle futhi bubi. Kuwesifazane, kungase kungabi mnandi kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma wenza lokhu kokuthunyelwa okukodwa kwemizuzu engaphezu kwengu-10 - inqubo iyeka ukujabula. Esikhathini sangasese kubonakala kuyomile, futhi kulokhu, ubulili buba buhlungu. Vele usho ukuthi ufuna ukushintsha ukuma. Futhi ungakhathaleli ubulili obusheshayo. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi ubulili obusheshayo bujabulisayo futhi bunothando. Ngenxa yalokhu, udinga ukukhangwa okwesikhashana ngesikhathi esifanayo kubalingani bobabili. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlukahluka. Funda ngemicabango yezocansi yomlingani wakho, ungesabi ukuxoxa nabo.