Imithandazo neqoqo eliqoqiwe lokubuyiselwa kwabashiyiwe emndenini womyeni banikezwa amandla akhethekile. Ngeke nje kusize umyeni ukuba abuyele, kodwa futhi uthando lwakhe. Futhi lokhu kubaluleke nakakhulu. Kodwa-ke, ubuciko buyakwazi ukubuyisela i-body-shell esikhathini esifushane, kodwa umphefumulo obuyiselwe ngokuphindaphindiwe uzokhipha amandla kunanini ngaphambili, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi umndeni uzokuhlukanisa ngaphandle kothando nokuhlonipha. Imiphumela yokuhlukana okunjalo kungaba buhlungu futhi kunzima kakhulu. Amakhasimende okuhlanganisa umbhangqwana oshadile afundwa ngaphandle kofakazi nokukhangiswa. Imithandazo (uma izimiso zingacacisiwe) zibizwa ekhaya ngezimpawu kanye namakhandlela akhanyisiwe noma ngaphambi kwezimpawu esontweni.
Umkhuleko onamandla kunabo bonke emkhayeni uPetru noFevronia
Umthandazo kuPetru noFevronia, ababhekwa njengabanikazi bomndeni, bazobuyisela umndeni oshiyiwe uma kuthiwa ngosuku lokuhlonishwa kwabangcwele (ngobusuku bukaJulayi 7-8), noma nganoma yisiphi isonto (usuku lomndeni). Isithonjana sabalingani abahloniphayo kufanele simele ekamelweni lalabo abashadile, lapho umthandazo uzofundwa khona. Uma umyeni esanda kumemezela inhloso yakhe yokuphuma endlini, kodwa uhlala ngaphansi kophahla olufanayo nomndeni wakhe, khona-ke umthandazo ufundeka kangako ngesikhathi ehlala endlini. Uma usuvele eshiye, ke eduze kwesithonjana sikaPeter noFevronia babeka isithombe somlingani, ozokwenza amandla okuba khona kwakhe.
"Abangcwele abangcwele nabamangalisa, uNkulunkulu Omkhulu kaPetru noPrince waseFrance! Ngikhuluma nawe, ngithandaza ngokudabukisayo, ngilethe imithandazo yami eNkosini uNkulunkulu, ngicela kimi ukholo, iqiniso, ithemba, umusa, nothando olukhulu! Ngisize, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomkakhe) nenceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomyeni) ukuhlangana kuze kube phakade futhi siphile ndawonye konke ukuphila kwakhe! Amen! Amen! Amen! " Bafunda umthandazo ekuseni kanye / noma kusihlwa ngaphambi kokushintsha kwengqondo yomyeni. Amandla omthandazo ayokwenza kusebenze ukukhathazeka kuwo. Uzothola ukuphumula kuphela eceleni komkakhe, futhi isinyathelo sokuhlanganisana siyovela kuye.
Umthandazo wemangaliso kuTheotokos
Ukubheka iNdodana Enhle uMariya ngesicelo sokubuyisela umyeni ophuthayo kungenzeka kuphela emva kokushada kwezinsuku ezintathu, ukuvuma nokuhlanganyela. Ngemva kokubuya esontweni ngosuku lwesithathu, umthandazo ufundwa phambi kombhede womshado kathathu:
"Nkosi Nkulunkulu, Wena uyisivikelo sami, futhi ngiyethemba kuphela ngawe! Umama kaNkulunkulu, Theotokos Ungcwelengcwele, nawe, ONgcwele abangcwele, uzwe umkhuleko wami, owakhulunywa ngami, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomkakhe) ngehora elinzima, ngisize, ngibuyele inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomyeni). Ungangishiyi ekuhluphekeni! Ngicela ungashiyi ukunakwa kwami ngaphandle kokunakekelwa. O Nkosi Nkulunkulu, Theotokos Engcwele Engcwele, Ngcwele, ngikucela ukuba ubuyele kuwe othandekayo wami! Ngakho makube! Amen. " Ngomthelela womkhuleko, kuzothatha izinsuku eziningana ukuphathwa ngokungapheli kuTheotokos.
Ukudlulisela kwisithombe somyeni wakhe
Amagama omthandazo ashiwo esithombeni somyeni wakhe kathathu ngosuku. Lapho ufunda umkhuleko, umuntu kufanele akhiphe engqondweni yakhe futhi ngobuqotho ahambe nomlingani futhi ayeke ukumbamba ngokufa. Yonke intando kaNkulunkulu!
"Nkosi, ngithemba kuwe, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama), kumama kaNkulunkulu, iNdodanakazi Ebusisiwe noMoya Ongcwele. Ngiphakamisa umthandazo wami ongafanelwe futhi ngicela usizo ngehora lokudlula. Ungangishiyi futhi ubuyele kumlingani womndeni (igama), mmsindise esilingweni nasezindabeni ezinonya. Sihlangane nathi nendoda ethandekayo, masinamathelane futhi sibumbene phambi kukaNkulunkulu nabantu. Amen. " Umthandazo kufanele "udakwe" ngokuphuza amanzi angcwele bese ufafaza isithombe somyeni wakhe.
Umthandazo, ukubuyisela umyeni wakhe enkosikazi yakhe
Amagama athiwa ngemva kokushona kwelanga ngento yomuntu siqu noma isithombe somlingani. Ngesikhathi sokuthandaza kumele kube ngakwesobunxele.
"Njengoba ilanga lacaca esibhakabhakeni, alizange lithole indawo, ngakho-ke, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomyeni), awukwazi ukuthola indawo ngaphandle kwami. Ekuseni ilanga lizovuka futhi kusihlwa lizobuyela esidlekeni salo. Kanjalo nakwezinye izindlela - emndenini, kumfazi, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lomkakhe). Ngakho makube! Amen! " Bafunda umthandazo ngamalanga amathathu. Amandla okuthandaza ayokwenza umyeni abe nesithukuthezi futhi alwele umndeni.
Umlutha wamanzi angcwele
Lolu phiko luqhutshwa emanzini angcwele, okuyinto, kanye namakhandlela amabili e-wax, okufanele alethwe esontweni. Ngemva kokukhuphuka kwenyanga, amanzi abilisiwe futhi abekwe phezu kwamakhandlela abilayo-amaphilisi phakathi kwamakhandlela esonto avuliwe. Amanzi abilayo ahlungwa ngamagama athi:
"Njengoba la manzi ashisa futhi amathumba, njengoba athululela futhi emile, nenhliziyo yomyeni wami, isigqila sikaNkulunkulu (igama) ubilise futhi ubilise izokwehlela futhi ikomile kimi, izokhala, ikhale, iqhube, ibuhlungu , ngomndeni wakhe, umfazi wakhe ohloniphekile, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama) izothanda. Ukuze angakwazi ukuhamba ngaphandle komndeni wakhe nokunyathela, ukuze angahlali ngaphandle kwethu, wayengenakuphila, ukuze simbone empeleni ukuze ebusuku avele emaphupheni. Uzogijima, ekhaya ukusheshisa, uzogijimela kimi ukubuyela. Njengoba kushiwo, lokhu kuzogcwaliseka. Amen! Amen! Amen! " Ngemuva kokuhlelwa kwama-triple izikhathi, bafunda" uBaba wethu ", babhapathizwa futhi amanzi angcwele angcwele athululelwa emngceleni wendlu.
Plot ubisi
Ukubuyisela uthando lomyeni ohamba noma ophonsayo kuzosiza ubisi lwe-conjugal ubusika. Ngemuva kokuphindwe kathathu amazwi omlolonga, umyeni wakhe kumele aphuze.
"Ngabe (igama lomlingani) angeke aphile ngaphandle komthunzi walo, ngilangazelela (igama lomlingani), ngeke ngikwazi. Hamba, ukhubeke, ngisuke nginezinyosi, ngiphefumula. Njengoba ilanga lihamba esibhakabhakeni, ngakho-ke (igama lomlingani) uhamba nayo yonke indlela eya kimi. Ngakho makube! Amen! "