Zama ukunikela intombazane yakho ukuba ijabulele ukusikhipha umzimba - ukuthinta kwezandla zakho kuzomsiza ukuba aphumule futhi akhohlwe ngezinkinga zosuku oludlule. Ukuzibulala akugcini nje ngokuqinisekisa, kodwa futhi kuyashukumisa isifiso socansi, ngoba ukuphumula okubuyisayo okudabukisayo umzimba kuphela, futhi imizwa ephikisanayo iyaqina. Uma uhlalisa intombazane yakho oyintandokazi, unethuba eliyingqayizivele lokubona umzimba wakhe kuyo yonke inkazimulo yayo. Uma intombazane ingathandi ukuhlanganyela othandweni nokukhanya, mnikeze ukusikhipha umzimba, lapho angenakukulahla khona. Futhi kulezi zikhathi ezinhle ukuthi ungacabangela umzimba wakhe ekukhanyeni okuthandayo, njengoba i-masseur kumele ibone izingxenye zomzimba azibuthe. Ukuze intombazane ingabi yinkimbinkimbi mayelana nokubukeka kwayo, sincoma ngokuqinile ukuthi umcele ukuba ahlambe. Futhi uma ephuma eshaweni yonke into ehlanzekile futhi ehlanzekile, yithathe ngesibindi umsebenzi we-massage therapist. Kodwa kufanele wazi ukuthi ungenza kanjani ukusikinyeka komzimba kowesifazane ngokufanele ukuze akuthande?
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Phakathi naleso sikhathi intombazane echitha eshaweni, udinga ukunakekela isimo esiseduze ekamelweni. Akunconywa ukuba uhlole zonke izinhlobo zamakhandlela namafutha anamakha, uma intombazane ingeyona fan of izinto ezinjalo, gqoka umculo othandanayo. Kuzo zonke iziko, ungaphenduka futhi uphazamise. Yenza kancane kancane, ungasheshisi, ngisho nokudlala ngothando kancane - isibonelo, cindezela ngaphandle kosizo lwezandla. Kodwa-ke, ungathathwa, njengoba uzokwenza ukusikhipha umzimba, ngisho noma uthanda. Lapho ephazamisa futhi elinde ukuthinta kwakho okuncane, umbeke ngobumnene embhedeni, futhi mhlawumbe kuphepheni. Yiqiniso, umbhede ulula futhi ufudumele. Kodwa-ke, isikhala esiningi kakhulu phansi, lapho unethuba lokuba khona ngesikhathi sokubuthelwa kusuka ngakunye uhlangothi lomlingani wakho. Ukuze le ntombazane ilale kahle ngesisu sayo, lungiselela u-roller ithawula kusengaphambili. Le roller iyasiza ukuze uyibeke ngaphansi kwesifuba ngesikhathi sokusikhipha ngemuva. Uma kwenzeka kupholile kancane ekamelweni, kungcono ukulungisa ingubo yokukhanya noma ithawula lokugeza lokubhukuda elizofihla lezo izingxenye zomzimba ezingasetshenzisiwe ngesikhathi okwamanje.
Nge-massage enobuchopho, amafutha akhethekile nawo asetshenzisiwe. Izandla zakho zizokwenza noma yikuphi amafutha ikhono lokugoba ngobumnene phezu kwesikhumba somlingani. Ngisho nje ukugubha isikhumba ngamafutha, ungahambisa umlingani omnandi kakhulu. Isikhali esinamandla se-masseur, yebo, amafutha abalulekile. Usizo lokuphumula, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ulale ngesikhathi sokusikhipha umzimba, kungasiza nokuphunga zonke izinhlobo zamafutha abalulekile, noma ngokuphambene nokuqinisa imizwa nokuvusa isifiso socansi.
Ungaqala kanjani ukuhlakulela okubuhlungu
Qala ukusikhipha ngaphezulu ngokuzwakalayo kusuka e-periphery, okungukuthi, izinyawo nezandla. Cishe noma yikuphi izandla zowesifazane kuyindawo engavamile, ngakho-ke kudingeka badlale ngokucophelela ngangokunokwenzeka, behamba kusukela ekushayweni kwethenda kuya ekunyameni okukhulu kakhulu, kodwa ngaphandle kokukhohlwa ukuxoxwa kahle. Ngokwehlelo elifanayo, ukuhlunga izinyawo nakho kuyenziwa: ukushayeka kokuqala, bese ugoqa. Ukubuthwa kungenziwa ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene: ngokusendeni yesundu, neminwe yeminwe, icindezeleke emgqeni ngama-phalanges aphakathi kweminwe. Izindlela zokuhamba zizodinga ukuhlukahluka, bese ucindezela, bese ziqeda, bese ziqina, bese zibuthakathaka, bese zihamba kancane, bese zihamba ngokushesha, ngaleyo ndlela uzokwenza intombazane yakho ithuthumele ngenjabulo. Noma kunjalo, asikho isidingo sokusheshisa kule ndaba, ngoba ungaletha umlingani wakho ku-orgasm.
Uma uhlalisa emuva, ungakhohlwa "indawo yesikati". Ngokuvamile, leli phuzu liphakathi kwamahlombe ehlombe, ukuthinta okuncane okubangela ukusabela kocansi okubudlova. Kodwa-ke, kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuthi izingxenye eziphuthumayo nazo zingashintsha. Ngamanye amazwi, lokho umlingani owakuthandayo ngesonto elidlule, okwamanje kungenzeka ukuthi kakade akujabulisi. Ngakho-ke, umsebenzi oyinhloko ngesikhathi ukusikhipha umzimba kuyoba ukufaka izindawo eziningi eziyingozi. I-massage futhi iyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuzibona, njengoba 'uhamba' ngokushelela umzimba wakhe futhi uqaphele ukusabela kwakhe.
Uma ukugubha umhlane wakho, udinga ukunye ukuxoxisana okunamandla ngokushaya okulula okunye okunye okunye okunye okunye okunye okuhambisana nokukhamuluka kahle.
Ukukhululeka nge-massage ekhandayo kungenzeka kuphela uma ukwazi ukwenza umbukiso wokuzihlakulela owesifazane nganoma iyiphi indlela? Cishe wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi isifuba sesifazane sithinta kanjani ngokujulile ekuthinteni kwesundu esesifudumele esikhulu. Ukuxubha kwebele kusithandeki, kodwa kungcono ukusihlanza ngokunyakaza okuqoqiwe kweminwe yesandla, kusukela ekuqaleni kwesifuba kuze kube seminzini. Awudingi ukuguqula izingono zakho, kepha ukushaya kwethenda nokushaya nge-stroking kuvunyelwe kuphela ngesikhathi sokuzihlakulela okwenyukayo. Awukwazi ukucindezela isisu uma ungafuni ukubona lokho akwenzile. Yingakho isisu kufanele sitshiswe ngobumnene bese sinezinsimbi. Ukuze uthole injabulo eyengeziwe, ungayichitha, njengokungathi ukuhleka, izinhlamvu zeminwe kuqala kuwe, bese uyawe. Lona uhlobo lwezothando oluthinta kakhulu futhi luba nzima ngokwengeziwe ukulawula ... Uhla kancane kancane futhi wehla, futhi ekugcineni ufinyelele esondelene kakhulu.
Ukunakekelwa okukhulu kudinga ukuhlunga okwemvelo kwe-vulva nelabia, njengoba izicubu lapha zibuthakathaka kakhulu. Ukuze ungabangela ubuhlungu, iminwe yakho kufanele ikhululeke, futhi ukuthinta kuyathandeka futhi kube mnene. Ngaphandle kokubamba kwendabuko, zama ukubamba ilungu 'lesango lakhe le-jade' - kholwa kimi, lokhu kuyathandeka kakhulu.
Ukugcina ubuhlungu obunjalo bokuziqeda kuze kube sekupheleni akukwazi wonke owesifazane, ngoba ngokuqinisekile uzojabula futhi afune ucansi ngaphambi kokuqeda ukusikhipha. Noma kunjalo, udinga ukubekezela, akufanele uqhubeke ngakho. Futhi uma kungenzeka engakwazi ukuma, ake akukhathaze, njengoba ukuhlakulela ndawonye kuzokwenza ubulili bakho bungabokulibaleki.