Emvelweni ngezingane

Ukuhamba nengane kuhlale kuneluleka kakhulu futhi isikhathi eside. Kuphela lapha bekuphathelene nezingane ezindala, kodwa kuthiwani ngezingane? Uma ubusika, hamba uhamba emgodini, uma isithwathwa, nomntwana kungumzuzu wonyaka kuphela, bese ungabonisi ikhala emgwaqweni? Ehlobo kushisa, entwasahlobo nasekwindla isimo sezulu siyashintsha, ngakho-ke ufuna ukuphuma ngendalo. Lokho kungakanani, kungakanani futhi kusukela nini ubudala ukuthi kungcono ukuphumula emvelweni nomntwana, sizokuthola.


Isikhathi sonyaka

Ngokwemvelo, asitsheli ngokujwayelekile (kuze kube yizinsuku ezingu-28) ingane enesithunzi esithile endaweni ehlathini. Ebusika, mhlawumbe, sizozikhawulela ukugibela ihhashi, ukunyathelisa iqhwa kanye nokuhamba okuya ehlathini lepine, ukuzwa izinaliti ezinameva.

Singakwazi ukukhuluma ngomoya ogcwele, singakwazi ukukhuluma kusukela ngoMeyi ofudumele kuze kube sekupheleni kukaSeptemba.

Ekushiseni kunconywa ukuba ungashiyi usuku lonke, kodwa entwasahlobo nasekwindla ukhathalele ukuthi isimo sezulu siyashintsha ngokushesha.

Imvula ye-Raincoat iyinto enhle, futhi ngisho nangaphandle kwemoto kunabantu abambalwa kakhulu abasengozini yokuhamba kude, kodwa-ke, bheka isimo sezulu futhi uqiniseke ukuthi isiphepho sosuku asihlelelwe ukuphuma.

Ngakho, ingane yakho yayinezinyanga ezintathu ubudala. Usevele ekhuthele, unesithakazelo kukho konke okuzungezile. Yiqiniso, usencike kakhulu kunina, kodwa usekulungele ukuxhumana nabanye. Isikhathi sokuhamba nohambo lomndeni wonke. Uma ungakwazi ukugibela wena, kuhle. Konke kuzokwenziwa kube lula izikhathi eziningi. Yiqiniso, uma unemoto, ungakwazi ukuphuma endleleni, uthathe izinto eziningi, uzizwe uqiniseka ngokwengeziwe, kodwa uma kukhona umugqa noma usitshala eduze kwendlu yakho, ungesabi. Qoqa konke okudingayo bese uvala. Isikhathi esiphezulu sokubiza abangane, izintombi nokuphazamisa isimiso esiyimfucuza nomntwana.

Kule minyaka yobudala kuze kufike ezinyangeni eziyisithupha, umntwana usalokhu egibele emkhunjini. Isimo esibaluleke kakhulu sokuqoqa imvelo, kuyoba khona inetha lomlingo. Uma ingane ilele, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uqagele kanjani umbuso wakho, iphupho elilodwa liwela ngempela eholidini lakho, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi ayikho igciwane elizofika emcimbini wokulala. Akudingeki ukuthi, ukuwa emaceleni okulala nokulala kuphelelwe umbuzo. Njengokunye ukulala, isihlalo somoto sezingane singasetshenziswa. Vele ubeke umntwana emotweni, ungavali iminyango kuwo. Futhi-ke, qinisekisa ukuthi ilanga alishintshi ngokuqondile emntwaneni.

Kuzingane ezinzima kunzima ukuthola ikhambi elifanele lezinyosi, nokuthi ngabe kuyadingeka yini ukuphambanisa ukuhlukumeza isikhumba esibucayi noma ukusebenzisa ukhilimu.

Ihlobo aliyona ihlobo, kodwa cishe yonke into isetshenziselwa ama-pampers, ngakho-ke thatha ne-diaper oyothengisa emgqeni noma emotweni futhi ushintshe kalula i-diaper.

Kubalulekile ukugqoka ingane ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kungcono ukuthatha ijezi elengeziwe kuwe kunokuqala ukugqoka umkhono omude, omude, bese ungazi ukuthi uyayisusa, noma uvumele ukuthi ihlukane. Khumbula, ukushisa kuhlale kubi kakhulu. Okuwukuphela kwekhanda elincane elincane kakhulu ngeke libe elincane kunazo zonke, kahle, ngesikhathi sokulala, ikakhulukazi uma ifasitela selivele likwindla, limboze ingane nge-coverlet. Ngakho ngeke kube nje ukufudumala, kodwa kukhululekile.

Izingane ezisanda kuncelisa ukubeletha zizozizwa zithulile, ngoba uMama noMilk bahlale bezala. Ukudla izinga lokushisa elihle, eliyinyumba futhi elihlwabusayo kakhulu. Uma ukondla ingane, thatha ingxube, i-thermos ngamanzi nakho konke okudingayo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umntwana ugcwele futhi unelisekile.

Kuye ngokuthi unamathela ekudleni, qoqa ukudla kubantu abadala. Uma ungakwazi ukukhokhela ama-shish kebabs, ke-ke u-ketchup, imayonnaise nezinye izinsawu ngenkathi ungashiya abanye.

Zama ukupheka inhlanzi noma isobho ngesinkwa se-pita. Empeleni, azikho izitsha ezimbalwa ezingadliwa ngumama epikinikini.

Ezinganeni ezindala, isimo esizungezile sizovula insimu enkulu yomsebenzi. Izilwane ezinwabuzelayo zingavunyelwa utshani, into eyinhloko ukulandela izandla zakhe, okuyilowo nalowo ngokuqinisekile uyofuna ukusiphula futhi adle.

Ukuhlanza okumanzi akungabazeki ukuthi kuyisakhiwo esihle, kodwa kungcono nje ukugeza izandla zakho ngamanzi avela ku-baklaglag.

Khombisa amaqabunga abantwana, amahlumela, aphunga izimbali, ake sizame amagxolo amahle omuthi. Uma usuholidini emaphandleni, khona-ke shintsha nobaba wakho ngezikhathi ezithile, ukuze wonke umuntu abe nethuba lokuzijabulisa, fry shash, uphumule empilweni yansuku zonke, ujabulele ukuxhumana nomndeni nabangani, hhayi ngezindleko zomntwana.

Ngemuva kwezinyanga eziyisithupha, isithasiselo siyengezwa, kodwa isalokhu sincelisa. Ukubuka ukuthi umbuso wakho uthuthukile kanjani, ungakwazi ukuzondla, noma uthathe i-puree yemifino. Ungathatha i-can ukuze uvule futhi uhlanze ingane ukuze idle ingane kanye nabo bonke abanye noma kwenziwe ngesandla sakho, nje ilungise ekhaya bese uyibeka esitsheni esikahle. Kulungile, uma unetafula lokunamathisela kanye nezihlalo nazo zonke imikhiqizo nezinto ozenzayo.

Thatha isithelo nawe. Ubhanana noma i-apula kuyoba yisiphuzo esihle sezinyane eliphuthumayo. Omdala indodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho, isikhathi esiningi abazofuna kuwe.

Inyane lezinyanga eziyishumi cishe alikwazi ukuhlala esitokisini noma esitokisini esifanelekile. Uzofuna ukuhamba, ukugwaza, ukuthinta konke, wazi kangcono nezwe, lapho umlethela khona. Ungamgodli ingane, ngoba umoya omusha kanye nethuba lokuba nawe kuyisenzakalo esifanayo esimnandi njengakho. Nguwe kuphela okufanele wenze umzamo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi konke okunye kuyimpumelelo.

Ukuya echibini, ngokushesha uyavuma ukuthi eduze kwamanzi ingane ayivunyelwe noma kuphela ngesandla sabaselula. Kodwa noma kunjalo, kuneziqoqo ezengeziwe zezingubo okufanele zithathwe. Ngokungazelelwe umcwaningi omncane uzobe esefika echibini.

Izinto ezigunyaziwe eholidini

Abanye sesivele sabibizile, kodwa sizophinde siphinde. (Kuncike eminyakeni yobudala, ezinye izinto zingasuswa).

Ukudla nokuphuza sithatha isiphuzo ngamanzi noma sibheka, ama-juice, izimbiza ezinama-pre, izinkezo, ukuxuba okumile, amanzi abilayo, i-thermos, amanzi ahlanzekile, isiphuzo ngesimo sezithelo, esingaba ingane, amakhukhi noma izithelo ezomile.

Ngokuhlanzeka, qiniseka ukuthi ufake ama-diapers, ama-wipes amanzi, ama-napkins ajwayelekile avamile, isithombe se-absorption-absorbing, mhlawumbe i-powder.

Inetha lomswakama, izingubo, ukubhebheza, imvula.

Ithikili yokusiza lokuqala izobe ihlukile futhi ibaluleke kakhulu. Faka kuwo izidakamizwa ze-paracetamolosoderzhaschy, i-thermometer, amaphilisi e-antihistamine no-ukhilimu, i-band-aid, i-bandage, i-hydrogen peroxide, i-iodine.

Mhlawumbe lutho ngalokhu ngeke luwusizo kuwe, kodwa empeleni uhamba ngeholide nomntwana, ngakho-ke kufanele uhlome ngokugcwele uma kwenzeka izimo ezingalindelekile. Ngendlela, ikhemisi iyipikinikini, evame kakhulu futhi edingeka kakhulu ngumuntu omdala ongeyena umuntu, ongekho abantwana.

Ungesabi ama-picnics nezingane. Kuyinto yokuzijabulisa emndenini nabangane. Kwanele ukucabangela ngezimbalwa ezimbalwa, ukuphumula ekuphumuleni okuhle futhi uzobona ukuthi ngokwemvelo i-breastfish ingaphumula ngokuphelele.