Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ngesikhathi sobulili obuhle kakhulu, asikwazi ukuphumula ngokuphelele futhi sijabulele inqubo, sinqobe izinkinga, futhi lokhu kusivimbela ukuba sijabulele ngokugcwele. Le nkinga cishe ijwayele abesifazane abaningi, ake sicabange ngokuthi ungayiphazamiseka kanjani ezinkingeni ezisendlini.
Sifuna ukuqala ngokuthi sivuma ukuthi asiboni izinkinga kumlingani kanye nezimo zobusondelene obuseduze (okungukuthi, sithanda kuphi, obani). Futhi izinkinga ezivimbela ukuba sizijabulele ziyinkinga engabonakali (umsebenzi, impilo, umndeni). Ngezansi sizobheka amathiphu asebenzayo kanye nezincomo zokuziphazamisa wena ezinkingeni, uzilungiselele ubulili obuhle kakhulu futhi uthole ukuthokozisa okuphezulu.
Incomo 1. Ukuthandana okuningi.
Esikhathini sethu sobuqili, yobudala, lapho kufanele wenze izinto eziningi, konke akunakho isikhathi esanele nento yonke eyenzekayo ekugijimeni, impela uthando luyabhidlika ebuhlotsheni. Futhi ngaphandle kokuthandana, ngisho nobulili obudlova kakhulu akuyona into yokuzivocavoca ezijabulisayo ezimbili. Ngakho-ke, zama okungenani kanye njalo ngemva kwamasonto amabili ukuthola isikhathi sokumangala futhi uhanjane. Amakhandlela, lingerie yokudlala edlala ukudlala, umculo omnandi ophumuzayo, konke lokhu kumculo ophelele wezocansi. Futhi ngiyakuncenga, ngeke ucabange ngezinkinga, kodwa uzojabula kuphela.
Incomo 2. Ungesabi ukuhlolwa.
Ukuthandana kuhle, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kulungile, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuthola ukubuyela okugcwele ekuthandeni. Kulesi simo, ungakutshela ukuthi uzame ukuhlukanisa impilo yakho yobulili. Izambatho ezingobuhle, amathoyizi ezocansi, imidlalo yokuzivocavoca konke lokhu kungahle kukhanye i-blood kanye nesifiso esivuthayo kokubili. Ngaphandle lokhu lesi seluleko sifana nalokhu esedlule, kodwa isisekelo saso sithandwa kakhulu nokukhuluma. Ungesabi ukusebenzisa izinto ezintsha, unganqikazi ukuveza imizwelo yakho, mhlawumbe ngeke kube yothando, kodwa kufana namadoda futhi ngokuvamile ujabule kakhulu.
Incomo 3. "indlala yokupheka"
Okusivumela ukuba sithole injabulo enkulu ekudleni, lokhu akuyona ukudla okumnandi kanye nezinongo ezingavamile, kungukudla kwendlala. Zama ukungabi ocansini izinsuku ezimbalwa, uma nje unamandla okwenza lokho. Futhi wena ngokwakho uzobona ukuthi uzodonseka kanjani kumlingani onothando oludlula ukwedlula, futhi akukho izinkinga ekhanda lakho nje ezingenakukuphikisa, ngakho-ke kuthi imvelo izothatha eyakho! Kulokhu, into eyinhloko akuyona ukuyiqeda ngokulindela nokucabangela imizwa nezifiso zamadoda, kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi kuyasiza amadoda ukuba anikeze ukuphumula.
Incomo 4. Ukuqeda izinkinga.
Akukho muntu, akukho nkinga, singaphinda sichaze le nkulumo, azikho izinkinga, akukho okuphazamisayo! Lokhu okukhiphayo kuzikhomba, uma kukhona okukuphazamisayo, futhi awukwazi ukuphazamiseka kuwo embhedeni, mhlawumbe akufanele ushintshe noma yini embhedeni, kodwa kufanele uxazulule le nkinga. Cabanga ngalokhu, uma kukhona okukuphazamisayo isisombululo esikwaziyo, kulula ukuxazulula, kanye naso sonke, futhi ungabi ucingo engadini. Futhi ukuhlolwa nokuthandana kungenziwa futhi nje kumnandi
Wonke lawa macebiso kanye nezincomo, njengoba sengivele ngichaziwe, sebenza kuphela uma konke kukufanisa nomlingani wakho. Phela, mhlawumbe awukwazi ukuphazamiseka ezinkingeni, ngoba indoda yakho ayikuthandi njengomthandi. Kulokhu, zonke lezi zincomo zingase zingabasiza, futhi kulokhu kubalulekile ukuxazulula ezinye izinkinga.