U-Tina Kandelaki.
Madam inhlanhla.
Izwi nendlela yokuqhuba i-airtime yalolu ubuhle obuhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ayikwazi ukudideka nanoma ubani omunye. Eminyakeni embalwa eyedlule, u-Tina Kandelaki wangena ezindlini zendlu ezikrinini ze-TV, ngakho-ke kwacaca ukuthi le ntombazane izohlala nathi isikhathi eside.
Emagqumeni aseGeorgia.
Ukuphila nobuntwana bukaTina Kandelaki babanjwe eTbilisi. Bahlala nomndeni wabo ekamelweni eliphezulu lamagumbi amathathu.
E-Tbilisi, uTina wafunda impilo yaseRussia. Lapho esekhulile, wayekhona kulesi sigaba samantombazane, abafana abavame ukubiza abangani. Wayehlale engumngane, abafana, umngane, namakhosazana ayehlukile. Futhi wayefuna ukuba omunye wabo. Wayehlale ezwa ngaphakathi ngaphakathi enhlobonhlobo enamabala aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, enemilenze ende.
Indalo yamazwe.
Lapho efunda ngonyaka wokuqala wenhlangano yezokwelapha, wabe esezwa ngokukhishwa kwesiteshi se-TV saseGeorgia. Ngaya lapho ngadlula. Ngakho waqala ukusebenza kuthelevishini. Ukhumbula ukusakaza kwakhe kokuqala kokuphila: bonke abethuli kanye nezintatheli bashiya ngaleso sikhathi, eBatumi ngomkhosi womculo kanye nokuphathwa kwesiteshi, kwakungekho muntu ongabeka ohlelweni lwehlelo olulodwa. Khona-ke wanquma ukuthi umoya kufanele ube nguTina. Ubaba wakhe wayemelene naso, ngoba wacabanga ukuthi uzoba namahloni wonke umndeni. Ngenxa yalokho, banquma: ngivumele ngihluleke kabi futhi, ekugcineni, ngisuswe kuhlaka. Ngenxa yalokho, kwenzeka, kepha njengomholi washiya noma kunjalo.
Phakathi nalesi ether, uTina cishe wayebhekana nezikhathi ezimbi kakhulu ekuphileni kwakhe. Wayekwazi ukukwenza, lapho ukuzamazama kutholakala nje ubuchopho, futhi awukwazi ukucabanga noma yini, uzama ukukhumbula izinkulumo ezimbili noma ezintathu ozifundile ngenhliziyo, futhi ziyaqhekeka, futhi ekhanda lakho umsindo omkhulu, wokukhala. Futhi phakathi nalesi ether, lokhu kungenalutho kwahlelwa ekhanda lakhe ngokugcwele.
Futhi ukhumbula kahle umzuzu wakhe wokuqala lapho ehlonishwa ngabantu abangabazi emgwaqweni. Kwaba ngamashumi ayisishiyagalombili ekuseni, wayehamba emgwaqeni waseTbilisi, kanti abanye ababili abadakayo babembona. Lapho efika kubo, omunye wabo waphenduka, wabheka ngamehlo amanga wathi: "Nansi lona?". Wabe eseqaphela ukuthi wayesho ukuthini.
Saga yaseMoscow.
Ngokokuqala ngqa eMoscow, wayehlala esiteshini sesitimela iKolomenskaya, wayeseziqeshini eziqashiwe, wayezama ukuthola umsebenzi wokukhangisa. Noma ubiza emithonjeni ehlukene.
Isikhathi sokuqala kulo muzi, wayengakhululekile. Ukholelwa ukuthi iMoscow isibe yingxenye yesibili.
Abantu abanenhlanhla!
U-Tina akanandaba neze nomuntu. Umona yinkatho yabantu ababuthakathaka abangakwazi ukubona imibono yabo. Akazange abe nezinkinga ngokuziqhenya. Yize izinto eziningi zazinzima kakhulu kuye, kodwa ngokujwayelekile ngumuntu onzima. Ngakho-ke, udinga izimo ezimbi kakhulu ekuphileni. Uzibheka ukuthi uphumelele kakhulu, kukhona njalo umbandela ohlukile wenhlanhla. Yilokho engikufunayo kulokhu kuphila, nakho konke engikuphupha ngakho, futhi ngingathanda ukukubona, kuzokwenzeka nakanjani, kudingekile ukuba ukholwe futhi ulinde. Futhi lena yinto ebaluleke kakhulu.
Umyeni ofanelekayo.
U-Tina uqiniseka ukuthi umyeni wakhe uyindoda ephelele. Ngoba owesifazane obeletha izingane ezimbili ezivela kumuntu ongaphelele kuthiwa u-durra ngokwakhe. Futhi ngesikhathi lapho yena nomyeni wakhe u-Andrew bezalwa izingane, ukhumbula ngokunembile indlela ayekholelwa ngayo ukuthi lowo ozokhethwa kakhulu kunomsebenzi kababa angeke abe khona. Ucabanga kanjalo manje. Amandla omyeni wami ukuthi angavuma ubuthakathaka bakhe. Umuntu onamandla kakhulu ongasho ukuthi unenkinga ngemali, ngezocansi, ngezinye izinqumo.
Futhi imfihlo yempilo yomndeni efanelekayo?
Ukholelwa ukuthi ibanga eliphakathi kwabathandi, uthando lwabo luyoba namandla kakhulu