Yeka ukuthi ungangeni kanjani ekucindezelekeni

Ukwedlula ubudlelwane kuholela umuntu ekucindezelekeni kombuso. Kodwa ukuthi ungaphila nokuthi yini okudingeka yenziwe ukuze ugweme ukucindezeleka. Kunzima kakhulu ukusinda leli gaba ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwabesifazane. Kunezindlela ezilandelayo ezingasiza owesifazane ukuba aphile kulokhu ukuhlukana kobudlelwane nokulimala okuncane empilweni yakhe:

- udinga ukukhala izinsuku ezimbili;

- uzihawukele wena izinsuku ezimbili;

- Hamba uthukuthele izinsuku ezingu-3;

- Hamba izinsuku zangaphambili ezingu-5;

- Yakha uhlelo lokuphindiselela izinsuku ezintathu;

- ukuqonda ukuthi kuyisiwula ukuphindiselela izinsuku ezimbili;

- Zihlehle wena izinsuku ezimbili;

- shiya ukucabanga ngakho izinsuku ezingu-5;

- yenza umngane wakho wangaphambili umngane wakho izinsuku ezintathu;

- thandana nomunye umuntu izinsuku ezine;

- vuka izinsuku ezingu-31 ujabule futhi uthandekayo.

Inombolo yezinsuku ingahluka, kodwa umkhawulo wesikhathi wokulikhohlwa nokuqala ubuhlobo obusha akufanele udlule ngaphezu kwenyanga. Zama ukuvikela isistimu yakho yezinzwa, ngoba izinzwa azikwazi ukubuyiselwa.

Okokuqala udinga ukukhala izinsuku ezimbalwa. Izinyembezi zisiza umuntu ukuba aqede imizwelo emibi ehlukahlukene nezimo ezicindezelayo, futhi okungenani izinyembezi zihoxisa ukuhlupheka. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, awudingi ukubiza abangani bakho, ngoba lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi, futhi akufanelekile ukubona abangani bakho nezihlobo kuleso simo sokuvuvukala. Ngakho-ke, le nqubo ihlelwe kangcono ngoLwesihlanu kusihlwa, ukuze ngoMsombuluko ekuseni uvuke futhi uye emsebenzini, kanti awudingi ukuchitha ithoni yezilwane ukufihla usizi lwakho empilweni.

Kodwa ngemva kokukhala, ungaqala ukuzihawukela ngenkampani yabangane nezihlobo. Le nqubo ingenziwa cishe cishe iwashi, kodwa ungaphazanyiswa emsebenzini. Kungcono uzizwele ngokumema abangani bakho esikhungweni esithile lapho ungase uphuze utshwala obuthakathaka ukuze unciphise umphefumulo wakho futhi uzenze uzizisole. Kulo mhlangano, khetha abangane phakathi kwabakwa-Pofigists, abangenawo ama-pathos amaningi, abazokubheka isimo ngaphandle kwenhlekelele ekhethekile. Kodwa uma ukhetha izintombi ezivamile, lesi simo singaba nzima futhi izintombi zingase ziwele esimweni esicindezelekile.

Ngemuva kokuzisola udinga izinsuku ezimbalwa ukuze uthukuthele ngesikhatsi sakho sokuqala, noma kunalokho usuke uthukuthele. Ukuze kusetshenziswe lesi senzakalo, ezinye zezinto zakho zangaphambili zizokwenza, ongakunyathela, ukugxuma, ukuphumula noma ukuphumula ngenjabulo enkulu. Ungaphinda uphule zonke izithombe ezikukhumbuza umfana omdala. Amantombazane ikakhulukazi abathukuthele kukhona iresiphi: uthathe ikhasi elibusayo, bamba isithombe sakho sangaphambili bese unamathela lapho ufuna.

Esikhathini esilandelayo udinga ukuzonda. Lesi sigaba cishe asikwazi ukudlula, njengoba izwi elisuka othandweni ukuzonda isinyathelo esisodwa ligcwaliswa lapha ngokugcwele. Lezi zinsuku ungakwazi ukusola zonke izono ezifa zesintu.

Isigaba sokuphumula kakhulu ukuthuthukiswa kwecebo lokuziphindisela kumuntu wangaphambili. Le nqubo ngokwayo ibika ukuthi ukucindezeleka kuhlaziya futhi esikhathini esizayo konke kuyoba kuhle kuwe. Uma ucabanga ngezindlela ezahlukene zokuphindiselela ku-ex yakho, uthuthukisa isimo sakho sengqondo. Isibonelo sokuphindisela okwedlule: uhamba phansi emgwaqweni ngekhanda elisha le-stylish kanye ne-make-up, ku-suit chic nendoda ye-chic, nomyeni ovele obala, okhanyekile uhamba ngokuya kuwe futhi, egazini, ubheka esiqondisweni sakho. Ukudlulela, awukho ngisho nokumnaka.

Amaphuzu amahlanu wokuqeda isimo sokucindezeleka yizona ezibaluleke kakhulu, ngoba ngamaphesenti angama-80 basiza ukukhipha umuntu ekucindezelekeni.