4 "imisho" engafanele ukukhuluma nengane

"Asinayo imali yalokhu." Uzama ukuthembeka - emva kwakho konke, akufanele ujwayele ukujwayela ingane ukuba uzwele futhi uvumeleke. Kumele aqonde okuyisisekelo sokufunda ngezezimali kanye nesabelomali somndeni - ekuqaleni, kungcono. Kulokho kanye nokubamba: i-crumb ayikwazi ukuqonda umqondo onzima ongaqondakali, kanti ingane endala ingaba nengqondo yayo kulokhu. Ngokweqiniso kwezingane, isibonelo, ithoyizi ibaluleke kakhulu kune-raber ebusika yemoto. Zama ukunikeza ingane imininingwane - "sihlela ukuthenga, ithoyizi yakho isivele ohlwini - lizofinyelela emgqeni".

"Ungumuntu onjani omuhle." Inkinga ayikho emgqeni ngokwawo, kodwa kumvuthwandaba wokuphindaphinda kwawo. Uma usho ngaso sonke isikhathi, udala isidingo sokuba uvunyelwe njalo kusuka emntwaneni. Ukuthembela ekudumiseni kuyisisusa esibi: kungabangela ukungavikeleki nokulahlekelwa okusheshayo komsebenzi ngemuva kokuthola ubunzima bokuqala. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukumelana, guqula udumo - kufanele kube ngokucacile: "Ngangikuthanda ukubeka ngokushesha amathoyizi ebhokisini."

"Ungaphenduli izihambi." Le nkulumo ayicacile kakhulu - ingane ayikwazi ukuhlaziya imininingwane yesimo ukuze inqume ukuthi ingozi ingakanani. Umngane onobungane kunzima ukubona ukuthi "kubi," futhi ukuvinjelwa okuphelele kokuxhumana nanoma ubani ongaphandle kombuthano obuseduze kuzobangela inzwa ye-neurosis, ubunzima ngokuxhumana nokukhula okukhulu. Xoxa nengane yakho mayelana nezimo ezivame kakhulu - okudingayo ukukwenza uma umuntu ongaphandle ehlinzeka ngophathwe, ekucela ukuthi akubonise indlela, ekhombisa ukuhamba noma ukuya ekona eliseduzane.

"Ungesabi." Eqinisweni, ingabe kunamagama angenalutho? Akakwazi ukuzola ngisho nomuntu omdala, ungakhulumi ngecala. Uma umntwana ebuhlungu noma wesaba, wabelane ngemimoya naye, bonisa ukuzwelana futhi wabelane ngokuhlangenwe nakho okuhle. "Ngikuqonda, kwakufana nami, kodwa manje uzothatha imithi / inkulumo nodokotela / utshele leli vesi futhi konke kuyoba kuhle."